Intro Fantasy for Dirty Talking about Hotwifing - what would you say?

[johnmoyuwe]

I started slowly introducing my wife to my fantasy about hotwifing and finally a couple of months ago we role-played a bit with this.

But in general she says to me that this is my fantasy not her and when I try to redo a role play or to dirty talk she does not participate from the beginning but waits for me to dive in.

I am thinking that I should start with some easy scenarios.

For example the one that worked started with talking about her dancing in front of some strangers and then I said that maybe some of them will find her attractive and then I said that it looks like one has an erection and then I said that he wants to fuck her and slowly from there she started to pick it up. So in the end she said that she wanted to be fucked by him.

After that we also had another one about her going for a run in the park and being picked up by a stranger.

But I would like to hear more ideas about this kind of situations, which are not very explicit about hotwifing but more about an intro to hotwifing.

What kind of scenarios, fantasy like would you suggest?

I want to have as many options as possible as maybe some of them will excite her more and thus we can go more into.

 

[RockHardKP]

Not sure if this is a great approach. I have tried it in the past with varying results. Sometimes my wife is into it and other times not too much.

I try to get her talking about her escapades with her boyfriend before she and I met, etc. That way it is more of an admission she had sex with another guy rather than cheating (which is what I think she feels funny about with other scenarios).

 

[UtilityCurve]

I try to get her talking about her escapades with her boyfriend before she and I met, etc. That way it is more of an admission she had sex with another guy rather than cheating (which is what I think she feels funny about with other scenarios).

There are all kinds in this world. My (late) wife would never talk about her pre-me's (there was sexual abuse involved in her first and I'd not swear that it didn't prompt her to put up with it from others subsequently), but she was sure hot to talk about what could happen in the future. In fact, as I have disclosed here elsewhere, the first sharing/HW words came from her mouth.

 

[johnmoyuwe]

I try to get her talking about her escapades with her boyfriend before she and I met, etc. That way it is more of an admission she had sex with another guy rather than cheating (which is what I think she feels funny about with other scenarios).

Yes, this worked for me also and it was maybe a sign for me that we could do more hotwife fantasy talking than bout ex boyfriends.

This is why I am thinking that maybe a variety of some role-play like fantasy could led us more into the hotwife direction and why not maybe one of these fantasies she will really enjoy.

I asked her about her fantasies and she says she does not have or don't like to talk about them while we are having sex.

 

[peter49parker]

I started slowly introducing my wife to my fantasy about hotwifing and finally a couple of months ago we role-played a bit with this.

But in general she says to me that this is my fantasy not her and when I try to redo a role play or to dirty talk she does not participate from the beginning but waits for me to dive in.

I am thinking that I should start with some easy scenarios.

For example the one that worked started with talking about her dancing in front of some strangers and then I said that maybe some of them will find her attractive and then I said that it looks like one has an erection and then I said that he wants to fuck her and slowly from there she started to pick it up. So in the end she said that she wanted to be fucked by him.

After that we also had another one about her going for a run in the park and being picked up by a stranger.

But I would like to hear more ideas about this kind of situations, which are not very explicit about hotwifing but more about an intro to hotwifing.

What kind of scenarios, fantasy like would you suggest?

I want to have as many options as possible as maybe some of them will excite her more and thus we can go more into.

Before we went on a 15 day Med. cruise, I managed to talk my wife into abandoning her very conservative style of dress. Leggings, tight skirts, low cut tops and yoga style pants were the dress of the day, along with all kinds of sexy bra and panty sets. She looked sexy, and felt sexy. A lot of men gave her double takes and outright stares. I pointed out a lot of the guys who were staring at her and this put her libido into overdrive. I guess the idea of other men finding her sexually desirable made her feel the part of a hotwife. We spent many a night in our cabin, role playing that I was our young Latino waiter, who by the way, never missed an opportunity to check out my wife's tits as he gazed down into her cleavage.

 

[cuck72]

It started with us years ago, back in the mid 70's. We were just married a few months and this other couple moved in to the apartment downstairs from us. I had thoughts about other guys fucking my wife even when we dated. So after we became friends with this couple, I started to have fantasies about this guy fucking my wife. I still remember all this very well. So one night in the heat of passion I just mentioned the guy downstairs, and my newlywed wife said something like "REALLY?". Then just played alone, it was so hot. Like my wife would be blowing me and I'd mention his name, "oh yeah suck Greg." And my wife would moan. "MMMMMMMM, show me how he cum's for me. I want Greg to cum in my mouth." WOW! it was so exciting, and I've shared lots of fantasies about other guys over the years with her.

 

[mywife4othermen]

Before we went on a 15 day Med. cruise, I managed to talk my wife into abandoning her very conservative style of dress. Leggings, tight skirts, low cut tops and yoga style pants were the dress of the day, along with all kinds of sexy bra and panty sets. She looked sexy, and felt sexy. A lot of men gave her double takes and outright stares. I pointed out a lot of the guys who were staring at her and this put her libido into overdrive. I guess the idea of other men finding her sexually desirable made her feel the part of a hotwife. We spent many a night in our cabin, role playing that I was our young Latino waiter, who by the way, never missed an opportunity to check out my wife's tits as he gazed down into her cleavage.

Joanne is my second and younger wife. She is slim and a brunette. Very attractive.
I am now 55. She has just turned 43. I met her at a law firm I was using for business where she was working. I had already separated from my first wife.

I initially tried to interest Joanne into maybe having another man join us by telling her about my sexual fantasies and by asking her to tell me about her previous lovers. I was particularly turned-on when she told me about Steve. They were together for only a year but she said that he had the biggest and thickest cock she’s ever seen and that the sex was the greatest!

At first, she questioned my love because all I seemed to be interested in was sharing her with other men or being interested in her past sex life. I re-emphasized my deep love for her and simple said that these were "harmless fantasies" that just added to usually great sex we had. I began to tell Joanne stories in bed and she slowly responded. Within a few months, I had also managed to persuade her to dress more revealingly and provocatively in both private and public. Thin, see-through dresses with only a tiny pair of panties on under. Wrap-around dresses with sheer thigh-high stockings and matching sheer panties. That sort of thing. She became more confident and I would tell her how aroused I would get, watching other men looking at my wife, knowing exactly what they were thinking and wishing. Joanne began to get excited by the whole thing and we would often rush back home to fuck or, if we couldn't wait, get into the car and kiss and fumble and mutually masturbate.

That's how things got started.

 

[peter49parker]

Joanne is my second and younger wife. She is slim and a brunette. Very attractive.
I am now 55. She has just turned 43. I met her at a law firm I was using for business where she was working. I had already separated from my first wife.

I initially tried to interest Joanne into maybe having another man join us by telling her about my sexual fantasies and by asking her to tell me about her previous lovers. I was particularly turned-on when she told me about Steve. They were together for only a year but she said that he had the biggest and thickest cock she’s ever seen and that the sex was the greatest!

At first, she questioned my love because all I seemed to be interested in was sharing her with other men or being interested in her past sex life. I re-emphasized my deep love for her and simple said that these were "harmless fantasies" that just added to usually great sex we had. I began to tell Joanne stories in bed and she slowly responded. Within a few months, I had also managed to persuade her to dress more revealingly and provocatively in both private and public. Thin, see-through dresses with only a tiny pair of panties on under. Wrap-around dresses with sheer thigh-high stockings and matching sheer panties. That sort of thing. She became more confident and I would tell her how aroused I would get, watching other men looking at my wife, knowing exactly what they were thinking and wishing. Joanne began to get excited by the whole thing and we would often rush back home to fuck or, if we couldn't wait, get into the car and kiss and fumble and mutually masturbate.

That's how things got started.

That was very erotic and arousing to read how you got started. While we were on our cruise, we fucked a lot, with me playing the part of our waiter's older cousin, while she played the sexy, hotwife cheating on her husband. I thought she was 'so close' to closing the deal for real, but she reverted back to her conservative self shortly after the cruise ended. It sure was fun while it lasted. Her two main concerns for not moving forward were, that I didn't find her sexually attractive anymore and that I would use her 'hotwife' status against her to fuck other women. No amount of talking to her, could convince her to try it, in real life. It sure was "HOT" while it lasted.

 

[johnmoyuwe]

Joanne is my second and younger wife. She is slim and a brunette. Very attractive.
I am now 55. She has just turned 43. I met her at a law firm I was using for business where she was working. I had already separated from my first wife.

I initially tried to interest Joanne into maybe having another man join us by telling her about my sexual fantasies and by asking her to tell me about her previous lovers. I was particularly turned-on when she told me about Steve. They were together for only a year but she said that he had the biggest and thickest cock she’s ever seen and that the sex was the greatest!

At first, she questioned my love because all I seemed to be interested in was sharing her with other men or being interested in her past sex life. I re-emphasized my deep love for her and simple said that these were "harmless fantasies" that just added to usually great sex we had. I began to tell Joanne stories in bed and she slowly responded. Within a few months, I had also managed to persuade her to dress more revealingly and provocatively in both private and public. Thin, see-through dresses with only a tiny pair of panties on under. Wrap-around dresses with sheer thigh-high stockings and matching sheer panties. That sort of thing. She became more confident and I would tell her how aroused I would get, watching other men looking at my wife, knowing exactly what they were thinking and wishing. Joanne began to get excited by the whole thing and we would often rush back home to fuck or, if we couldn't wait, get into the car and kiss and fumble and mutually masturbate.

That's how things got started.

Thank you for sharing.
Do you remember what kind of stories did you told her in bed?

Would really like to hear some ideas.

 

[johnmoyuwe]

It started with us years ago, back in the mid 70's. We were just married a few months and this other couple moved in to the apartment downstairs from us. I had thoughts about other guys fucking my wife even when we dated. So after we became friends with this couple, I started to have fantasies about this guy fucking my wife. I still remember all this very well. So one night in the heat of passion I just mentioned the guy downstairs, and my newlywed wife said something like "REALLY?". Then just played alone, it was so hot. Like my wife would be blowing me and I'd mention his name, "oh yeah suck Greg." And my wife would moan. "MMMMMMMM, show me how he cum's for me. I want Greg to cum in my mouth." WOW! it was so exciting, and I've shared lots of fantasies about other guys over the years with her.

I also have this thought about a the husband of a family we friended last year.
He even invited my wife for a coffee and she refused even if probably was not with any hidden intentions. They met by chance in the park At one moment.
And when she told me I was instantly aroused.

But I did not had the courage to bring his name in bed. I really think she should be really wet to accept a real person name.

 

[mywife4othermen]

Thank you for sharing.
Do you remember what kind of stories did you told her in bed?

Would really like to hear some ideas.

Yes. Stories about meeting strangers in different situations, leading to intense sexual activity, sometimes stories where I was made to watch her with someone, occasionally non-consensual stories where both of us would be forced in some way and, finally, stories involving Steve, the ex-boyfriend.