Internet Love Affair Come To Life

[Marxist]

What do you THINK it would be like if the person you've been mooning and swooning over on the internet became a RL lover?

Is anyone willing to admit that it might be less than perfect? Or maybe better than expected?

Tell the board...

 

[MissTaken]

I have no expectations and realize that in the long term, he may actually leave his dirty socks in the middle of the floor. He will probably not take out the trash when I am thinking it should go. He may even roll over and snore some nights when I want to fuck.


Tis life!

 

[perks]

it becomes real, and it depends how real you've been.

I've never been disappointed.

 

[oceanbaby28]

What do you THINK it would be like if the person you've been mooning and swooning over on the internet became a RL lover?

Is anyone willing to admit that it might be less than perfect? Or maybe better than expected?

Tell the board...

Been there... it was much better than expected.

 

[cutie pie]

It was better than I expected.

 

[islandman]

What do you THINK it would be like if the person you've been mooning and swooning over on the internet became a RL lover?

Is anyone willing to admit that it might be less than perfect? Or maybe better than expected?

Tell the board...

It was great for about six months. Then fell apart. I regret that very much.

 

[Guest]

It is soooo hard not to have expectations. But there is always the chance it can be better or worse than you've imagined. I'm willing to risk it.


Hiawatha sent that to you.

 

[Sillyman]

I'm sure there are people I've been swooning over who would actually be a really lousy lay, and I'm sure that there are people who would be incredible. Sex is different every time though, and can depend on a lot of variables.

 

[april-wine]

It is soooo hard not to have expectations. But there is always the chance it can be better or worse than you've imagined. I'm willing to risk it.


Hiawatha sent that to you.

Me too....

 

[Ice Cold]

It would be different... to deal with that person in a real life basis.
The good points are there to be seen, but also are all the flaws of that person, that can be hidden via the internet.

 

[IrishWolfhound]

Like everything else in real life, it has its highs and its lows. If you are in it for the fantasy lover, I suggest you stay on line. If you want the real person, with all his/her warmth, but all the baggage too, then risk it.

 

[bad kitty]

I think it would be wonderful. I sure would LOVE to find out!

 

[Guest]

I'd reply honestly, but your internet lover would come over and kick my sorry ass from here til Tuesday. She hates that I'm on to you two.

 

[Backyard sweaty]

Depends

What are you looking for, just sex or a RT person with all the flaws that you have? I'm there and would'nt trade those "flaws" for a minute.

 

[Cheyenne]

What do you THINK it would be like if the person you've been mooning and swooning over on the internet became a RL lover?

Thinking of dumping your rl girlfriend for an internet love, are you?
hehe, wouldn't THAT be something coming from you, based on your previous posts on the topic.

But to answer your question- I've found that people in rl are the same as on the board and on the phone. Maybe I've been lucky.

 

[Guest]

Hey car saleswoman, don't fuck with Huey!

 

[erosman]

It is much easier to downplay the expectations and think about the 'what ifs' from a fearful perspective. What if they have a chainsaw manual in their car's glove box? What if the growth you thought was emotional, turns out to be a grapefruit under one of their arms? That's enough to stop you in your tracks.


But, the other 'what ifs' could be equally as real. What if there is a connection that surpasses your wildest dreams? What if the sex is a form of deity? What if the fantasy overtakes reality and the transport becomes your heartbeat? What if it's better than sliced bread?

 

[kotori]

Re: Re: Internet Love Affair Come To Life

But to answer your question- I've found that people in rl are the same as on the board and on the phone. Maybe I've been lucky.

Me too, not that there have been that many people that I've met. And I wear flip-flops, so that avoids the whole socks controversy.

 

[Private Vasquez]

All mine have turned out really creepy. They always mention how tall I am and how amazing it is that I can bend my arms. I don't know where these people get these things from...

 

[QuickDuck]

Personally, i try to have no expectations but really thats just not possible, so i just try and stay realistic and know that real life, might not be as good as fanasty on the net during wheich (generally) everything is roses.

I have to admitt though, that in the past, it has always been better.

 

[Samuari]

The two people that I met in real life both turned out to be pretty much what they were on line and on the phone, but they were much more real. Now I can put manerisms and habits with the posts, and know that they have that look in thier eye when they say whatever they post.

 

[Rambling Rose]

Are you still miffed at me for rifling through your medicine cabinet, baby?

 

[Temptress_1960]

It was fabulous. Better than I ever dreamed it would be.

I've visited him twice (he's far away) and it was wonderful.

 

[Marxist]

Are you still miffed at me for rifling through your medicine cabinet, baby?

You looked through my medicine cabinet? You are one nosey sombitch...

 

[juicylips]

You didn't have to start a thread just to bring it to my attention that you want to make our relationship "real".

JL