Internet Harassment

[normal jean]

I like the chat trend, so let's continue. I'll only say two things and then perhaps we can put this whole thing to rest:

1. the entirety of the abuse has gone on within Lit, with the exception of the email notifications I receive about new messages on lit, which don't really count as email

2. I have never, never sent julie, nor any of her alts, any private communication, either as myself or anonymously. I have never even edited any of my public responses to her. Everything is here, in public and on record. Ostensibly she has been injured or sent nastiness in PM at some point, but it is not from me. Never. Ever. And there has been no proof to the contrary. Nor can there be. If she feels like she got a harassing PM or something then she needs to address it with the mods.

Let's get back to haircuts and roses and such. I'd like that very much.

Please. Pretty please.

bj

Thats a blatant lie, do you not remember the PM's about teh beads you hawk, the tourmalines? That counts as communication, dumbass.

 

[normal jean]

Snood, I love you guy. You know that. That's why I'm going to ask you please to get off Eve's and Ange's back on this one. There IS a place for rightous anger, but it ain't at them, dude.

I'm prolly as pissed as you are, so I'll aim both of ours:

Normal Jean, knock your shit off or your ass is going to end up in jail. You are doing wrong sweetie, now stop it. The Feds don't fuck around with this stuff. Please think long and hard before you post anything else.

OHHHH!! Your a FED now!!! and expert on LAW!!! WOW!!! nice that BJ has her group of lesser thans to attack people for her. I figured YOU for a follower after all those pathetic emails you sent me, that you had sent the same to every one else. cant even think of anything original to say to more than one person, can ya. lol


I have not done anything wrong but point out how two faced this bunch is. Send the Feds, gather LEGITIMATE proof that I have done wrong and send it on!!! YOu will be one the embarrassed, sweetie.... knocjk YOUR shit off, your two faced bitch

 

[Tzara]

I think the British are under the standard system of measurement and WSO would be a member of the metrical mafia along with myself. However, living on this continent we have dual measurements on our dials.

The English still measure road distances in miles, unlike you Canadians. Who knows if they consider temperature to be a similarly conservative concept?

 

[Maria2394]

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[normal jean]

While this is generally good advice, I seriously doubt that NJ can launch a DOS attack on UYS' ISP, or indeed do much of anything other than fulminate and shoot off nastigrams.

Further, I suspect that UYS' male counterpart is contemplating calling the cops, rather than hopping on a 'plane and kicking some ass in meat-space.

By the way, when I tried to say meat-space without a hyphen, the board changed it to me*******. Why would this be, O defenders of freedom of speech? Meat-space is just cyberspeak for the real world, in contrast to cyberspace. Hardly puppy porn or other banned stuff, if I'm not mistaken. What the...?

Snood

GOOD GOD! Me launch an attack on her computer? WHat are you trying to do to the woman? Scare her shitless? Are you such paranoid freaks, or did I suddenly get an IT degree in my sleep?

YOU give me way too much credit, you need to get a life, instead of thinking up ways to scare poor dumb chicks that can't even turn on a printer.

please, ca;; the cops, they get a kick of of idiots like you claiming, someone wrote me a nasty PM...I went through that, couldn't get ANY help. I do rather enjoy knowing you will be wasting your time trying to keep me from doing something tech-wise that I haven't a clue about doing, lol.


rant on, losers,

you're just making yourselves look stupid

 

[Safe_Bet]

Okay Julie. Enough. Do not ever send me another PM. You are an evil, hurtful bitch. Telling me "bet you feel kinda empty, dontya" and laughing about my miscarriage is low, vile and disgusting. You are a sick woman. Go get help and stay the fuck away from me.

 

[UnderYourSpell]

I was going to make, of course, some smutty rejoinder to this when I suddenly got hung up on a point o' fact.

Do you guys have ovens that measure temperature in Celsius?

UYS, do you English? Have Celsius ovens?

Anyone else, who is not American, please comment. I'm really curious now. WSO?

It's one of those things where I suddenly realize that I probably have a very skewed view of the world. Makes me feel stupid, which is actually a good thing.

I know. Dumb question. Off-topic. Why Hangout, people.

My oven is numbered 1/2 etc which probably isn't what you just asked! Yes we do have miles but metres also (do you spell that meters?) I learnt miles and metres still flummox me!

I never threatened her. I merely told her I didn't LIKE her and to stop poking at me. IT all started when I said in a review that I thought her poetry was stale and emotionless. She took it really hard and has held me in contempt since then. She does that you know, she isnt innocent. YOU all just jump right on with only knowing one side. So fair, you bunch of snobs.

f you go back farther enough, snood, you will see i have some very GOOD posts, good poetry, kind and helpful to many people. Swear out a complaint, how many lies will it take? If BJ had EVER told me once not to PM her, I would have stopped. And I PM's annie once, one time, neverthreatened her, just said I was disappointed in her and pointed out how many presumotions she had made that are wrong. Being brainwashed like she has been has obviously affected her.

How about YALL leave ME alone? How about that?

Yes you did say you were disappointed in me I will give you that but it was the cute little asswipe words inbetween that didn't gel so well neither did bringing my mother into it or asking me if I felt suicidal yet? oh yes and calling me 'a fucking cunt' came into it somewhere too didn't it? I am amazed that someone has to ask you to stop sending horrendous PMs to get you to stop when anyone in their right mind wouldn't send them in the first place! Why turn on me anyway I was nothing but kind to you and until you got a bee in your bonnet about bestiality I tried my damndest to help you. You were wrong to post that and I told you so same as I would anyone. You went too far Julie your cruelty to SafeBet is inexcusable you are far sicker than even I imagined

 

[the Snood]

The English still measure road distances in miles, unlike you Canadians. Who knows if they consider temperature to be a similarly conservative concept?

However, a Brit was thrown in gaol a few years back for selling bananas by the pound - a violation of the law since England joined the EU. He hadn't replaced his rather large, expensive and perfectly serviceable produce scale by the time of the transition.

Who knows? Maybe Scales Emporium was out of stock, what with every fruit vendor in the country buying one.

It was for only two months, but still...?!? I'm generally a Metrician, but not to that Inquisitorial degree.

Snood

 

[the Snood]

Okay Julie. Enough. Do not ever send me another PM. You are an evil, hurtful bitch. Telling me "bet you feel kinda empty, dontya" and laughing about my miscarriage is low, vile and disgusting. You are a sick woman. Go get help and stay the fuck away from me.

I wish that I was still at Berkeley so I could race right over there and give you a hug.

There are some things which simply are not done.

Snood

 

[normal jean]

an open letter

I have NEVER threatened anyone here. Not BJ, not UYS. but they ARE threatened by anyone with a bit more intelligence then them. That must be what its all about--they fear the truth.


I have copies of the notes I sent them both. IT seems funny to me, that they can trash me six ways to sunday, and the MODS dont give a crap, but let either of trhem whine, and I get blamed for everything,

Last night, I put in delete orders for my work, it deserves a better place than this cesspool anyway.

What BJ is mad about, is I asked her if she was published? I never threatened her in any way. When the SO CALLED flame wars happened, I apologized and kept on observing her manipulation until it made me sick, and in fact, SHE has run off several wonderful people here.

As for STALKING. I have been stalked, an unpleasant letter IS NOT Stalking and all you nobodys, who have only worshiped that louse, like snood et all, jump in and start accusing. I have been here for years. If Laurel wants me gone because a couple of babies that dish it out cannot TAKE it, then so be it, but I have never threatened anyone with anything harder than pure enjoyment at the speculation of their own downfall when you morons see what BJ is like. Some good folks already found out.


I wish I had saved all those nasty letters that your ANGEL UYS sent me!! She would be gone too!! miss innocent dumb blonde my ass.....

As for my notes, SEND THEM ON! but I have copies and I will send mine too. As for BJ never writing me, she is LYING again. IT was more amicable, but she did. Dont let her fool you people.

I admire so many o fg you, but she turned this place into whore monger hell. When she showed up, the real poetry in this place died and its really is no place for me. So whoever called her a HUGE WHORE who taints the place, has my vote too. She nauseates me, but IT WAS NOT ME>


So, you guys think long and hard, before you cross the bitch, or fart in her direction, because she is vindictive and a liar. I wont be the only one to leave here because of that poser.

I hope you all have a great day, even the ones too dumb to know who they are dealing with. Check that Kool-AId at her next party, people like her enjoy mass events.


and another thing, YOU All said to take personal things to PM< and when I do? YOU threaten me with being kicked off. Two sets of rules for 2 sets of people, this place has always been this way and it is a pleasure to leave,

I know I have friends here, but would never call you out to face the wrath of that thing who pretends to love you all. I really do, except the ones who betrayed me.

I am going to WORK now, will be gone all day, so any hate mail, or upsetting little remarks that come about will NOT be from me, because I am NOT the only one that thinks some of you are full of SHIT>


look how many good people are gone because of her...use your imagination.

peace to you troubled souls may you find who is REALLY threatening you and check their FUCKING IP addresses it aint me..

I love you, my real friends,

 

[UnderYourSpell]

A snoodle hug looks to be akin to disappearing into the jungle for several years

 

[eagleyez]

My suggestion? Everybody just put all these usernames on ignore and update the ignore list when she launches another one. Eventually her behavior will extinguish. Might take a while, though.

Trust me. I was trained in behavioral psychology.

Though that was with rats.

Anyway, I'm off to set these all to Ignore. That's always kind of fun, actually, ignoring someone. Kinda like shunning them. Makes me feel all Puritan or something.

I agree with this post. By ignoring these threatening posts, and placing the violator(s) ON ignore, it stands to reason that the storm will pass. This person is seeking attention and when he/she receives none, chances are they will take their ball and go home.

That said, I have not been the object of these nasty posts or pm's, and I cannot prescribe solutions for those who have been. Its just a hunch.

 

[UnderYourSpell]

Ignoring for a year hasn't worked .....will it now?

 

[Angeline]

I agree with this post. By ignoring these threatening posts, and placing the violator(s) ON ignore, it stands to reason that the storm will pass. This person is seeking attention and when he/she receives none, chances are they will take their ball and go home.

That said, I have not been the object of these nasty posts or pm's, and I cannot prescribe solutions for those who have been. Its just a hunch.

Yeah. It is a good suggestion. It was when I made it weeks ago, at least I thought it was then, and now I see that Laurel, as well as Tzara (and you my love), see it that way, too. And Tzara's right: these things take time. Not an answer people like to hear, but the truth.

I am not posting in this thread anymore and I suggest you all stop, too. Just let it fade out.

Oh and thanks, S_B, for the good words. It's true that Eve and I have no power to ban. We can move threads and edit things, but that's about it. Only administrators (i.e., Laurel and Manu) can revoke someone's account.

 

[Liar]

Ah, fer cryin out loud...

When I finally had something intelligible to say.

Sorry! This thread is closed!

Nuh huh, not gonna say it now. Goin' back to the Authors Hangout, I am.

Pbllt!