Well, the story is this! I have the "huggest hands," and know how to use them, imho! I was once told, about a woman's breasts, that more than a handful is a waste. Well, I can cup a DD perfectly! Sorry, back to the story....
I have always been a sensual lover. I was the guy that was rumored to be with, not because the size of my manhood, but because I could satisfy a woman in other ways PS, NOT SMALL either). It always surprised me how each woman was different when it came to oral stimulation. Often, I believe that men would lick a woman one way, and eat every other woman from that day the same. Well, the reality is, all women prefer oral stimulation differently! It is important to vary the technique, and communicate, and compose a menu of oral technique for each lady. That being said, there is one factor that makes the sensations better. That is the use of hands!
I have always been a touchy-feely kind of guy. Actually, shy as hell at first, then totally touchy-feely. The first time that I fingered a vagina, I knew I was hooked. I was 18 and in my mother's Cheverolet Caprice Classic. Bench seat. I remember looking into her eyes and trying to touch every inch of her hot pussy. Her eyes were rolling, and she got off multiple times. It was so hot. I remember that for the drive home, my fingers were pruned and the smell made me stiff as a board.
Fast forward to married life, my moves have improved, and learned that this form of stimulation is both rewarding (afterward), and very relaxing! I start with a full body rub down. It's important to not skimp on this. Never precede directly to the sex spots, but put your time in. Be thorough! You will be rewarded later, I promise. Inner thighs should be last before the intimate parts. Your lady will love this tease. Don't be afraid to brush, accidentally, her lips as you massage those inner thighs. Next, proceed to spreading her legs enough to get a little peak! Don't dive in at this point, but rub and squeeze the outer vagina with your fingers (Some Oil helps), but be gentle. Stroke this area a lot. Don't clitoral fixate at this point, in fact ignore it. Continue to squeeze a little and rub - SLOWLY. Apply alittle pressure now, and accidentally separate the lips while stroking now. You will totally feel her wetness now, and her clitoris Will be aroused.
At this point, go ahead and stroke the clitoris now. Circular motions each direction. Your other hand can be resting on her tummy with alittle pressure to help open her up a bit. Now its time to insert your finger! You won't need lube, unless she is dead. Explore that warm, wet goodness. Really try to stroke the inside on top, sides and bottom. Forget about that come hither deal at this point. Touch every part of her. Don't bang her in and out, but massage it. If you don't feel exhaustion in your hand, you aren't finished. Your other hand is okay now to start clitoral stimulation, and please feel free to use more than one finger. You will find your lady completely relaxed and breathing deep, perhaps moving and perhaps even cumming. DON'T STOP! Experiment with the come hither, but make certain that you are fully pruned before completion! Don't be afraid to apply some pressure deep within her vagina, she will let you know if it's too much! Enjoy, and communicate.
When she is done, she will either fall asleep, or give you the best orgasm of your life! Let me know how it goes!
I have always been a sensual lover. I was the guy that was rumored to be with, not because the size of my manhood, but because I could satisfy a woman in other ways PS, NOT SMALL either). It always surprised me how each woman was different when it came to oral stimulation. Often, I believe that men would lick a woman one way, and eat every other woman from that day the same. Well, the reality is, all women prefer oral stimulation differently! It is important to vary the technique, and communicate, and compose a menu of oral technique for each lady. That being said, there is one factor that makes the sensations better. That is the use of hands!
I have always been a touchy-feely kind of guy. Actually, shy as hell at first, then totally touchy-feely. The first time that I fingered a vagina, I knew I was hooked. I was 18 and in my mother's Cheverolet Caprice Classic. Bench seat. I remember looking into her eyes and trying to touch every inch of her hot pussy. Her eyes were rolling, and she got off multiple times. It was so hot. I remember that for the drive home, my fingers were pruned and the smell made me stiff as a board.
Fast forward to married life, my moves have improved, and learned that this form of stimulation is both rewarding (afterward), and very relaxing! I start with a full body rub down. It's important to not skimp on this. Never precede directly to the sex spots, but put your time in. Be thorough! You will be rewarded later, I promise. Inner thighs should be last before the intimate parts. Your lady will love this tease. Don't be afraid to brush, accidentally, her lips as you massage those inner thighs. Next, proceed to spreading her legs enough to get a little peak! Don't dive in at this point, but rub and squeeze the outer vagina with your fingers (Some Oil helps), but be gentle. Stroke this area a lot. Don't clitoral fixate at this point, in fact ignore it. Continue to squeeze a little and rub - SLOWLY. Apply alittle pressure now, and accidentally separate the lips while stroking now. You will totally feel her wetness now, and her clitoris Will be aroused.
At this point, go ahead and stroke the clitoris now. Circular motions each direction. Your other hand can be resting on her tummy with alittle pressure to help open her up a bit. Now its time to insert your finger! You won't need lube, unless she is dead. Explore that warm, wet goodness. Really try to stroke the inside on top, sides and bottom. Forget about that come hither deal at this point. Touch every part of her. Don't bang her in and out, but massage it. If you don't feel exhaustion in your hand, you aren't finished. Your other hand is okay now to start clitoral stimulation, and please feel free to use more than one finger. You will find your lady completely relaxed and breathing deep, perhaps moving and perhaps even cumming. DON'T STOP! Experiment with the come hither, but make certain that you are fully pruned before completion! Don't be afraid to apply some pressure deep within her vagina, she will let you know if it's too much! Enjoy, and communicate.
When she is done, she will either fall asleep, or give you the best orgasm of your life! Let me know how it goes!
