Interested in Lesbian Sex

[Mmmore]

I'm 19 and I honestly love men, I've been in several relationships and I LOVE heterosexual sex and I am very attracted to men. When I was younger I had a female friend and we'd fondle each other, kiss, etc but it was pretty innocent, even though I REALLY loved it. I've always thought about girls since then and what it would be like and it REALLY turns me on. Two weeks ago I was pretty drunk and I made out with one of my close female friends, I never had any feelings for her like this before, but I really just wanted to have sex with her once we got started, we got as far as her touching ontop of my panties until other people came into the room.

I've been really awkward with her since, and she tried for a while to make every effort to touch my leg when we were out with other people, but I never really responded to her. A few nights ago we were out with friends and she was touching my hair and rubbing my neck and I just wanted her to kiss me. The thing is, I think I would definitely have sex with a woman because it turns me on so much, but I don't think I could ever pursue a relationship outside of that, and I don't want to ruin my friendship with my friend even though I'd really like to be physical with her.

I'm really curious about lesbian sex, but I don't really know how I would go about it. I know this is just one of many threads about a woman describing this, but I'd really like to talk to other women about this. I feel like I'm being greedy by just wanting the sex and not the relationship.

 

[silverwhisper]

look, she's obviously interested, and so are you. as long as you two are very clear that you're exploring and that this isn't a romantic relationship, where's the harm?

ed

 

[Chicklet]

I'm very positive about sexual exploration, and I don't think that wanting to have sex with someone of the same sex indicates any interest in a relationship with that sex.

However, you have to keep in mind that sex with a friend always changes the relationship, no matter how "understood" the "exploration" is.

It's going to be the same with this female friend as if you had sex with a good male friend. There's going to be a chance that your friendship will be over.

I don't think you're being guilty. Not at all. But if it were me, I wouldn't do this with a friend. I had a few similar experiences when I was in high school, and it didn't turn out well for my friendship. The best sex I had with another female was later on, when we weren't really close friends, but each understood that we wanted to explore sex with one another and no strings attached.

Good luck. Don't feel bad.

 

[mastagraff]

I'm very positive about sexual exploration, and I don't think that wanting to have sex with someone of the same sex indicates any interest in a relationship with that sex.

However, you have to keep in mind that sex with a friend always changes the relationship, no matter how "understood" the "exploration" is.

It's going to be the same with this female friend as if you had sex with a good male friend. There's going to be a chance that your friendship will be over.

I don't think you're being guilty. Not at all. But if it were me, I wouldn't do this with a friend. I had a few similar experiences when I was in high school, and it didn't turn out well for my friendship. The best sex I had with another female was later on, when we weren't really close friends, but each understood that we wanted to explore sex with one another and no strings attached.

Good luck. Don't feel bad.

I wish i could get you together with my g/f

 

[lilwetone]

Well think of a few things....Will this ruin your friendship if the relationship doesn't work out????? Im not trying to rain on your parade, but, if it doesn't work out then you've lost a true friend...and noone likes to loose a friend like that....

If you feel the need to test the watters again..... just talk to your friend and tell her how you feel first....then go from their.

HOpe everything works out ok....

 

[Mmmore]

The best sex I had with another female was later on, when we weren't really close friends, but each understood that we wanted to explore sex with one another and no strings attached.

Yea, I completely agree with you, I just want to explore. I really don't want to do anything to make things awkward, so I'm definitely keeping my friendship off-limits. I guess I just have to wait for the right moment with someone else.

 

[PredatorSmile]

I love the female physique and I miss it all the time but I am in a monogamous relationship with a man these days. The longing sometimes gets to me. I mean, I love my guy but sometin about a sexy woman makes me go "mush" inside.

 

[sexychik69]

I completely agree with all the people on here. It's hard to hear that your friendship might be ruined, or that things will change because just like a relationship with a guy, things will change. About a week ago, I was on vacation with a friend and we decided to take some slightly naughty pictures. I've been curious about being with another woman for some time now, and wanted to persue it with her, since she was my friend and I knew it wouldn't be awkward and we could be comfortable. Well, needless to say, we didn't do anything, just kissed for the flash, and she was honestly turned off about that. Maybe I went about it the wrong way, even though she was excited to take the pictures, maybe she just changed her mind, I'm not sure. But my point is that maybe being with another friend isn't exactly the easiest thing if all you're wanting to do is explore a lingering curiosity.