Instant Turn Off Words or Phrases

[Anon_shy]

I'm always happy to reply to guys and sometimes have a bit of fun in the chats, but I feel I need to give people a fair warning of some things that instantly turn me off from replying or continuing, it's personal preference obviously. Feel free to share your own...

'Daddy/baby' talk, sorry, I love dom/sub dynamics, but I'm not a baby and and I have no interest in my daddy .

'Suckle', for some reason that word makes me squirm in a bad way, baby's suckle, men bite (gently)

'bitch' is a strange one, really context driven, if the tone sounds aggressive then nope for me, if it's used as part of a descriptive phrase of some sort, then usually OK.

Overly descriptive, flowery text. Some people love it, it can be nicely done in small doses, but generally not for me. I'm not the kind of girl who likes receiving flowers, so it fits my personality.

 

[Saint_Ann]

I'm always happy to reply to guys and sometimes have a bit of fun in the chats, but I feel I need to give people a fair warning of some things that instantly turn me off from replying or continuing, it's personal preference obviously. Feel free to share your own...

'Daddy/baby' talk, sorry, I love dom/sub dynamics, but I'm not a baby and and I have no interest in my daddy .

'Suckle', for some reason that word makes me squirm in a bad way, baby's suckle, men bite (gently)

'bitch' is a strange one, really context driven, if the tone sounds aggressive then nope for me, if it's used as part of a descriptive phrase of some sort, then usually OK.

Overly descriptive, flowery text. Some people love it, it can be nicely done in small doses, but generally not for me. I'm not the kind of girl who likes receiving flowers, so it fits my personality.

You're kinda picky.

 

[Anon_shy]

You're kinda picky.

I'd say the other way round, if that's how short my list is, imagine how long the opposite list must be

 

[cdstefi]

Nectar, as a descriptor for male or female orgasm juice. It's too euphemistic and avoidant and we aren't insects.

People (usually wannabe doms) who try to describe their sex noises in writing with way too many ellipses and txtspk e.g. mmm ... baby ur makin ur daddy hot ... mmm ... mmm

 

[lily_wall_]

"Shit"... No matter how attracted I am to someone, once they use this word my attraction goes to 0, and they have to climb the ladder all over again. It's pretty common and harmless word but idk why I don't like it. And I'm into getting humiliated. So I can't explain why this word is a turn off

 

[Britva415]

flowery text

“Alabaster,” my ass

 

[amber1312]

Reading a story on another site
"He thrust his member in one direction"

Jesus did anyone ask niall, harry Louis or Zayn for permission???? IYKYK

 

[FataMorgana]

"I haven't got any biscuits"

 

[RoryN]

"Bee jay".

First off, B.J. is a guy's name, which doesn't (personally) put me in the mood. Secondly, multiple women I've heard speaking those two letters to describe going down have admitted they don't like giving head, which makes sense to me - it's what you call it when it's a duty, rather than fun.

 

[pussyhammer2021]

"Shit"... No matter how attracted I am to someone, once they use this word my attraction goes to 0, and they have to climb the ladder all over again. It's pretty common and harmless word but idk why I don't like it. And I'm into getting humiliated. So I can't explain why this word is a turn off

Are u shittin me?

 

[Cuckwannabe111]

For me, it's the use of "text terms". Such as "hbu" as opposed to "how about you" or "hru" instead of "how are you". If I wanted to have to decipher what I was reading, I would read Greek or Hebrew or Arabic

 

[Anon_shy]

"Shit"... No matter how attracted I am to someone, once they use this word my attraction goes to 0, and they have to climb the ladder all over again. It's pretty common and harmless word but idk why I don't like it. And I'm into getting humiliated. So I can't explain why this word is a turn off

Oops, I think I'm guilty of that one in my write ups , sorry!

 

[HollyS]

I still hate "cunt." Never going to be okay with that word, despite the Brits, lol.

And I also hate it when someone who isn't my S.O. calls me babe, baby, darlin or similar. There are plenty of terms I don't mind, but that overly intimate thing annoys me for some reason. Save the sweet little terms of endearment for your partner.

 

[SophiaQ]

I still hate "cunt." Never going to be okay with that word, despite the Brits, lol.

And I also hate it when someone who isn't my S.O. calls me babe, baby, darlin or similar. There are plenty of terms I don't mind, but that overly intimate thing annoys me for some reason. Save the sweet little terms of endearment for your partner.

Same. Once 'cunt' enters the conversation, I'm turned off. And when a DM starts off with a 'hey babygirl' or similar, it doesn't immediately kill it for me, but the conversation is tainted.

 

[Anon_shy]

Same. Once 'cunt' enters the conversation, I'm turned off. And when a DM starts off with a 'hey babygirl' or similar, it doesn't immediately kill it for me, but the conversation is tainted.

Same

 

[Rockymtnman]

Libary it’s fucking Library! “ the hits just keep coming” - tell me you’re a wuss without telling me you’re a wuss. Irregardless - that’s like a hot poker to my eye. Fustrated instead of frustrated. I can go on for days!!! I feel like Sam Jackson in Pulp Fiction when he says, “English motherfucker do you speak it?”

 

[FataMorgana]

I still hate "cunt." Never going to be okay with that word, despite the Brits, lol.

Agreed. Super offensive and demeaning.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Little girl turns me off
Cunt
Whore

 

[Swingcuriouscpl]

I love it when my husband calls me his "little whore"....anyone else, its a strong NO, but he can get away with it. It turns me on.

 

[SophiaQ]

Not necessarily a 'turn off' word, but it was definitely a 'derailment' word. Writing a roleplay in DM, and the word 'snatch' was used. I think it was to mean 'pussy' but it really hit me funny and I started laughing. Can't write a reply without laughing. I will eventually, but not today.

 

[Not Normal]

I hate "down there." It just feels like the Christian mom is some terrible movie.

 

[devakama469]

I'm always happy to reply to guys and sometimes have a bit of fun in the chats, but I feel I need to give people a fair warning of some things that instantly turn me off from replying or continuing, it's personal preference obviously. Feel free to share your own...

'Daddy/baby' talk, sorry, I love dom/sub dynamics, but I'm not a baby and and I have no interest in my daddy .

'Suckle', for some reason that word makes me squirm in a bad way, baby's suckle, men bite (gently)

'bitch' is a strange one, really context driven, if the tone sounds aggressive then nope for me, if it's used as part of a descriptive phrase of some sort, then usually OK.

Overly descriptive, flowery text. Some people love it, it can be nicely done in small doses, but generally not for me. I'm not the kind of girl who likes receiving flowers, so it fits my personality.

As someone who enjoys writing to some degree, and being rather descriptive when discussing things I'm passionate about, I feel the need to ask: what would you consider an example of "overly descriptive, flowery text"?

 

[SmokingFap]

As someone who enjoys writing to some degree, and being rather descriptive when discussing things I'm passionate about, I feel the need to ask: what would you consider an example of "overly descriptive, flowery text"?

I absolutely agree with the other poster on this one. Folks, there was only one Shakespeare, and you ain't him. If you're saying that a woman's tits rival a majestic sunrise over the Andes mountains and make the angels weep with jealousy, you're going a little too far. That may be more hyperbole than overly descriptive or flowery, but hopefully you get my drift.

 

[MakeMeWetAF]

I absolutely agree with the other poster on this one. Folks, there was only one Shakespeare, and you ain't him. If you're saying that a woman's tits rival a majestic sunrise over the Andes mountains and make the angels weep with jealousy, you're going a little too far. That may be more hyperbole than overly descriptive or flowery, but hopefully you get my drift.

Ooooh stop it... You're turning me on with all that mountainous terrain and angel talk. Just imagining my man screaming this out to me in the throes of passion

 

[Anon_shy]

I absolutely agree with the other poster on this one. Folks, there was only one Shakespeare, and you ain't him. If you're saying that a woman's tits rival a majestic sunrise over the Andes mountains and make the angels weep with jealousy, you're going a little too far. That may be more hyperbole than overly descriptive or flowery, but hopefully you get my drift.

That would be the correct answer haha!