Information Needed

[Ljbonobo]

Ok here goes,

My S.O. and I were having our fun the other night and we kinda slid into a Dom/Sub role. I didn't know I had that side to me, but we both enjoyed ourselves immensely. I am wondering if there are any websites with basic information and such about this new side of me that I found. I just want to know more about it. Help please?

 

[bunny bondage]

well you've certainly come to the right place. the library at the top of the forum (it says sticky:bdsm library or something like that) has topics all sorted out by catagory and you should have oodles of fun reading around there. also, if you have specific questions, please don't hesitate to ask us as we are all willing to be helpful! ^_^

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

http://www.bdsm-online.com

http://www.castlerealm.com

are two wonderful places to start for both Doms and subs alike.

happy reading

 

[morninggirl5]

There are a great many links in this thread, all of them recommended by various members here.


http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=73517

Good luck!

 

[ethereal~minx]

if a sub is contemplating an online or even a r/t relationship w/ a well-known Dom... is it ok to ask O/others about His character prior to even considering?

i realize getting to know this person is the responsibility of the sub... and of course that would be done on her own.. but prior to that...

 

[Artless Preen]

Asking for references from others is more than acceptable, it is very good practice.

If a Dom refuses you permission to ask others about him (and it is polite to ask, btw...) it should set off a little flashing red light in your head, and proceed with caution.

 

[ethereal~minx]

thank you Artless Preen *smiles* it's always nice to receive a response~~

permission was revoked prior to even being requested hmmmmm
yet i hesitate to think red flag *thinking thinking thinking*



ok, here's another question:
if a Dom wished to keep online & real life separate, wouldn't real life take precedence over online relationships? ok, that's a really humiliating question *suddenly ill* that needs no answer


has anyone else ever believed in the intial trust of the Dom.. through tumultous times .... & actually came to 'real'ize that it was all true? the wisdom & the growth the rebuilding of her soul was actually skillfully & carefully manipulated by the wisdom of the Dom? & the two actually became a 'real-time' d/s relationship...

please respond

 

[Artless Preen]

blimey, you ask easy questions don't you? let me try and clarify the questions and you can tell me if that's what you mean.

You want an online relationship with a Dom who has Real Life commitments.
You want the relationship to heal you in some way (?unsure about this one)
You want the relationship to become Real Life as well as Online.

Yeah?

 

[lark sparrow]

Ok here goes,

My S.O. and I were having our fun the other night and we kinda slid into a Dom/Sub role. I didn't know I had that side to me, but we both enjoyed ourselves immensely. I am wondering if there are any websites with basic information and such about this new side of me that I found. I just want to know more about it. Help please?

I like these sites.


www.steel-door.com/Chamber.html


www.gloria-brame.com/kinkindex.htm


www.submission.net/AboutBDSM.html

 

[ethereal~minx]

*smiles*

~~thank you both very much

 

[Shadowsdream]

If a Dom/me will not allow a sub to ask for recommendations there may be something current that they are dealing with that is not going to look pleasing to you.
It may be legitimate but I personally encourage asking for recommendations not just to show My worth as a Dominant but to show that I can be impossible so there is no point coming to Me if the sub is not as deep into D/s as I am.

 

[ethereal~minx]

Shadowsdream~~ for taking the time to suggest a 'brighter' view thank You ...

Your realness is admirable and You are an inspiration.