Inexperienced me.

[Giftboy]

If someone on literotica takes an interest in wanting to meet me at his home. How should I approach a first time meeting in terms of dress and underwear?

 

[Str4ng3rth4nf1ct1on]

I would expect that the said person would instruct you on dress code

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I would expect that the said person would instruct you on dress code

I wouldn’t expect that unless there’s a power change dynamic in place.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

If someone on literotica takes an interest in wanting to meet me at his home. How should I approach a first time meeting in terms of dress and underwear?

Are you meeting this person for the first time? If yes, please meet them in a public space first and have a safe call setup. Give yourself a chance to make sure your gut feels good about going forward.

And then, the place you meet can dictate the attire, but nothing wrong with simple and clean. Nice jeans, a flattering tshirt or button down, and clean underwear (probably not tightly whities unless they are the only ones for you). Hopefully some guys weigh in as I am really approaching this from a woman’s perspective.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

If someone on literotica takes an interest in wanting to meet me at his home. How should I approach a first time meeting in terms of dress and underwear?

Trust your personal taste and style. Unless you’re a bottom , then simply ask the person inviting U. What should I wear ?

 

[Str4ng3rth4nf1ct1on]

I wouldn’t expect that unless there’s a power change dynamic in place.

You’re correct of course. I based my response on the OP’s profile of being a highly submissive man who currently has experience with a number of Masters and Mistresses and maybe should have asked for further clarification.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Are you meeting this person for the first time? If yes, please meet them in a public space first and have a safe call setup. Give yourself a chance to make sure your gut feels good about going forward.

And then, the place you meet can dictate the attire, but nothing wrong with simple and clean. Nice jeans, a flattering tshirt or button down, and clean underwear (probably not tightly whities unless they are the only ones for you). Hopefully some guys weigh in as I am really approaching this from a woman’s perspective.

You got this right. It’s not a guy/ girl perspective. It’s about being safe.
The public meeting, safe call for a first time meeting is the way to proceed.

 

[Dribble]

If someone on literotica takes an interest in wanting to meet me at his home. How should I approach a first time meeting in terms of dress and underwear?

Don't do it.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

You got this right. It’s not a guy/ girl perspective. It’s about being safe.
The public meeting, safe call for a first time meeting is the way to proceed.

Just as a point of clarification, I don’t think it’s a guy/girl issue on safety. That wording was in a separate paragraph on clothing and, specifically, underwear. I would imagine that a guy may answer that question differently than I did. Of course, there’s not going to be just one answer to what kind of undies are hot.

I absolutely advocate for public meeting and safe call when meeting up with anyone for the first time.

 

[ydahecnot]

Don’t wear the underwear on the outside. Beyond that, use your best judgment

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Just as a point of clarification, I don’t think it’s a guy/girl issue on safety. That wording was in a separate paragraph on clothing and, specifically, underwear. I would imagine that a guy may answer that question differently than I did. Of course, there’s not going to be just one answer to what kind of undies are hot.

I absolutely advocate for public meeting and safe call when meeting up with anyone for the first time.

Years ago I was going to meet a lady. A friend I’d known a short time in lifestyle had me.. list place staying, when I was leaving, returning, had me call a few times while I was away.
I went to meet a lady that was 5’5 maybe 5’7. I’m a wee little leprechaun. Just 6’5 230 lbs. The meeting was out of town for me over a weekend.
I misunderstood the undies reference. I blame the lack of sufficient coffee consumption before chiming in.

 

[Taegul]

Don’t wear the underwear on the outside. Beyond that, use your best judgment

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