in search of older women

[HiBall]

Hey Ladies. I'm looking for your help.

I'm 20 y/o guy with raging hormones and a thing for older ladies. I've always been attracted to older women, but no i am wondering what i have to do to get older women.
I'm very interested in women in their 30's-40's.

I was hoping the women here could give me some pointers on attracting the more experienced women.

Do older women really like younger guys?

I don't have a lot of sexual experience under my belt, but have never gotten any complaints. And I'd love to learn new things from a woman who knows more than i do.

I'm in western MA, so if there's anyone on the board who is interested and close, maybe we could work something out. if not that, then any advice on how to get the older ladies around here would be appreciated

thanks

 

[MissIntrigue]

Older Ladies

First of all sweetie- you should grab your dictionary and look up the plural word for lady and spell it correctly. That looks a bit insulting. Older ladies like younger guys for the stamina and the raging hormones that we are now experiencing in our older years. I am hot all the timeat my age. But alot of you don't know anything about making love the proper way. Personally I would take time to train you if you were going to be my lover for a while.

 

[delrow420]

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[CandiKane]

Teacher

Well, I've found I prefer younger men to older ones, they are more willing to please, how we want them to, not how they are used to doing it. Besides, maybe they can teach me a thing or two as well.

I've love to find a younger man willing to play. That is, as long as he can keep up.

 

[MissIntrigue]

The keeping up is sure a problem ....I have a hard time most guys complain that I am wearing them out.....they are tired...blah blah blah....

 

[CandiKane]

Must be why man created toys.

I know I definately don't complain

 

[LeftyBob]

I think these younger guys have to learn how to spell....

I'm 41...lost my virginity at 19 to a 32 year-old co-worker (I still think about that night). Also made love with another co-worker when I was 25 and she was 42. Heaven.

I wish I was 18 again.

 

[Docno]

I love the older women

I love the older ladies, I will take them anytime over the younger ones. They know what they want, know how to get it, never get enough, and will call on you again and again. I am almost 59 and can vouch for the older ladies. If you older ladies want someone to really appreciate you, give me a call, I ain't John Holmes but I try to make sure the ladies go home with a smile on their faces that a lemon won't take off. PM or e-mail me anytime.

 

[sxylatinnights2003]

Young men ROCK!

I'm 32 now and have never dated a man over 28...and that was five years ago! For some reason I attract younger men and have been completely satisfied by them as well. Of course, much training is involved. But practice makes perfect so it's not such a bad thing, especially because they are soooooo willing to learn. My ex was a 19 y/o virgin when I met him. We didn't date until a year later but we stayed together for 18 mos. His stamina was incredible. I have a high libido so he was always able to keep up with me. I'm still happily single dating younger men!

My advice to you is to flirt a little until you are sure she is interested, as not all older women will date someone as young as you...too taboo. If she flirts back then make a move. Remember, older women want mature men...even if they are much younger. I'm sure you will find someone soon who will rock your world! Hang in there!

 

[delrow420]

aaaaa

 

[CandiKane]

I'm 33 now, and have dated men that were 10 years younger, to 20 years older. And I definately have to say I liked the younger ones, but the older ones kept me on my toes too.
I have a high sex drive, and its quite hard to satisfy me at times. So the man that can accomplish that, well he's all good in my books.
Im still looking tho, for that one that can fill my every fantasy a few times over. And who's got an open mind, and willing to try almost anything twice.

 

[wileycoyote035]

love older women

I have been attracted to older women for as long as I can remember. I've been fortunate enough to be with a few, and it was always fun. The largest age gap was 13 years...I was 19 and she was 32. I think it would have been more fun if I wasn't so nervous, but I still had a great time. And I still remember her name 18 years later.

 

[Derya]

I like younger men definitely

But recently I've had a real run of connecting with older men...what's happened here? But anyway a few suggestions...let's see

- I agree with the flirt a bit and see how she responds. I (and I imagine there are others similar) might hesitate because we aren't sure if the younger male is interested in an older lady. Somehow it feels more difficult or embarassing for an older lady to approach an uninterested younger male than the converse although maybe I'm just subjective on that b/c I'd be in the older lady position

- don't assume you have all this sexual prowess to share or assume it of her....I think experience and life (and that may be where an older lady has a little edge on you) teaches one thing, that great sexual fulfillment and encounters are born of two people taking the time to communicate and explore 'together'; have to learn what each enjoys the most

- regardless of the age difference you gotta pursue situations where you're both coming from the same place, for example are you connecting for sexual affairs only or is a relationship on the horizon or is it an emotional need etc etc. For example I tend to be more interested in younger men, but in my experience it hasn't been so much sexual as I find my lifestyle and interests and activities more suited to younger men...I find their company more fun and they are more carefree without commitment hangups, but if a younger guy was only connecting with me for sexual fulfillment or wanted a major commitment then I wouldn't be content with just because he's younger because we'd have different wants

- have confidence in yourself and comfort with who you are (not overblown ego, just solid confidence in your whole personality); sometimes older women may seem more experienced (sexually and otherwise), but in reality it may not be so much "experience" always but more confidence and comfortable with themselves

- be friendly, meet people and make conversation; that's how you learn if you have anything in common with a person anyway and it can lead to hints that let you know if maybe an older lady has issues that would prevent her from finding a relationship (of whatever intensity) appealing or appropriate for her with a younger male

Just a few thoughts I liked to ask maybe if anyone could comment on the reverse of what you were seeking guidance on. In other words anyone have suggestions also on how to as an older lady approach younger men. Interested to see maybe what the males think too.

By the way my last serious relationship was 10 years younger than I and that was a couple of years ago...I'm 37. I have a fair number of friends married to younger men too. Too bad VA is a distance from MA.

 

[HiBall]

Thanks for all the suggestions and opinions. I hope some of them work. I'm sure they will.

MissIntrigue, if you're ever venturing down to MA, let me know.

 

[MissIntrigue]

I will most certainy do that Hiball

 

[HiBall]

Just to let you ladies know, I'm still looking