In praise of vanilla

[Starling2016]

Apologies if this has been covered before but I couldn’t spot it.

There is a lot of chat on this discussion board about various kinks and fetishes, and nothing wrong with that. However, it got me thinking what are our favourite straightforward no nonsense vanilla positions?

 

[Starling2016]

I will get the ball rolling my absolute favourite is woman on top, visually very appealing and you can see her face and her breasts which are accessible.
Also in my experience it is the position in which the lady is most likely to come first, which can often lead to this position being a springboard to so much more fun!

 

[MKvDeepSea]

Apologies if this has been covered before but I couldn’t spot it.

There is a lot of chat on this discussion board about various kinks and fetishes, and nothing wrong with that. However, it got me thinking what are our favourite straightforward no nonsense vanilla positions?

Hey Starling2016,

Please clarify your choice of term "vanilla positions" due to:

Glossary of Swinging Terms, VANILLA: Typically refers to non-swingers. (ie. “vanilla friends”).

Thanks!

 

[Diemcarpe]

Maybe it’s porn fatigue but I find myself looking for and getting really turned on by a couple in the missionary position, she’s on bottom with her legs up. No shoes or socks, bare feet. Preferably legs bent. Can’t explain it but damn it is hot.

 

[Starling2016]

Hey Starling2016,

Please clarify your choice of term "vanilla positions" due to:

Glossary of Swinging Terms, VANILLA: Typically refers to non-swingers. (ie. “vanilla friends”).

Thanks!

Thank you for raising this.

I am happy to clarify my intention: I was intending to mean ordinary sexual positions, no toys, no restraints, no other accompaniments. Whether this is in a monogamous relationship or between swingers is of no concern to me.

Also to clarify further, I am not limiting this thread to MF interaction it can be MM or FF. just post your favourite position

 

[Starling2016]

Maybe it’s porn fatigue but I find myself looking for and getting really turned on by a couple in the missionary position, she’s on bottom with her legs up. No shoes or socks, bare feet. Preferably legs bent. Can’t explain it but damn it is hot.

A classic...nice choice

 

[MKvDeepSea]

Thank you for raising this.

I am happy to clarify my intention: I was intending to mean ordinary sexual positions, no toys, no restraints, no other accompaniments. Whether this is in a monogamous relationship or between swingers is of no concern to me.

Also to clarify further, I am not limiting this thread to MF interaction it can be MM or FF. just post your favourite position

Thanks! I was pretty sure that was what you meant, but figured I'd ask. My wife and I are to the point we would agree with Diemcarpe.

We start with the good old fashion missionary position and may then go to the cowgirl but will usually finish back up in the missionary position. This is mostly due to the fact we both have arthritis in various joints, both of our necks and backs. While we were adventurous when we were younger, age happens, especially if you live an active life style.

Nice thread. Thanks for posting it.

 

[QuasiSemiDemiEsqueIsh]

To me, vanilla means no bdsm/kink. It’s more about the vibe than the positioning. If my partner isn’t dominating me, engaging in some form of sadism, etc., that’s when it’s vanilla. And that holds no appeal for me. I just don’t enjoy it.

I’m a little confused about how a position could be inherently vanilla. Missionary, widely considered the most basic position, doesn’t even have to be vanilla. If I’m having sex in an unbound missionary position and my partner is calling me a slut, holding me by the throat, biting my nipples, pulling my hair, ordering me to say or do certain things, etc., that’s not what I would consider vanilla. I’m just really struggling to think of a position that is always going to be vanilla. I think I just can’t get past my own personal definition of vanilla well enough to fully understand yours.

Or are you asking “when you’re having strictly vanilla sex, what’s your favorite position?”

If that’s the case... none of them. I’ve only been able to enjoy vanilla sex one time—my then partner was seated on the couch; I was on top, facing away from him, and leaning so far forward it was more like an inverted doggy position than a reverse cowgirl. Not sure why I was able to enjoy it that one time—the metaphorical stars aligned or something—, but normally vanilla sex isn’t even gonna get me wet.

Sex is almost entirely mental for me. I don’t even need physical stimulation to have orgasms and a completely satisfying sexual encounter. I don’t need touch; I only need consensual D/s—though a little bondage and pain always helps, too.

 

[Jing83]

I will get the ball rolling my absolute favourite is woman on top, visually very appealing and you can see her face and her breasts which are accessible.
Also in my experience it is the position in which the lady is most likely to come first, which can often lead to this position being a springboard to so much more fun!

When you enjoy this position, are you also imagining a very busty woman?

Would a more modest woman also excite you?

 

[dashie33]

I also really enjoy when my lady is on top; giving me a lovely view of her hanging breasts, which I can then stroke, play with her nipples, etc. Honestly, it's enchanting.

 

[Starling2016]

When you enjoy this position, are you also imagining a very busty woman?

Would a more modest woman also excite you?

Indeed she would! In fact in my minds eye if I picture this happening I am seeing a lady with small breasts.

 

[Starling2016]

I also really enjoy when my lady is on top; giving me a lovely view of her hanging breasts, which I can then stroke, play with her nipples, etc. Honestly, it's enchanting.

I’m entirely with you on that one!

 

[Starling2016]

To me, vanilla means no bdsm/kink. It’s more about the vibe than the positioning. If my partner isn’t dominating me, engaging in some form of sadism, etc., that’s when it’s vanilla. And that holds no appeal for me. I just don’t enjoy it.

I’m a little confused about how a position could be inherently vanilla. Missionary, widely considered the most basic position, doesn’t even have to be vanilla. If I’m having sex in an unbound missionary position and my partner is calling me a slut, holding me by the throat, biting my nipples, pulling my hair, ordering me to say or do certain things, etc., that’s not what I would consider vanilla. I’m just really struggling to think of a position that is always going to be vanilla. I think I just can’t get past my own personal definition of vanilla well enough to fully understand yours.

Or are you asking “when you’re having strictly vanilla sex, what’s your favorite position?”

If that’s the case... none of them. I’ve only been able to enjoy vanilla sex one time—my then partner was seated on the couch; I was on top, facing away from him, and leaning so far forward it was more like an inverted doggy position than a reverse cowgirl. Not sure why I was able to enjoy it that one time—the metaphorical stars aligned or something—, but normally vanilla sex isn’t even gonna get me wet.

Sex is almost entirely mental for me. I don’t even need physical stimulation to have orgasms and a completely satisfying sexual encounter. I don’t need touch; I only need consensual D/s—though a little bondage and pain always helps, too.

Thanks for the detailed considered reply. Not everyone has to think or be the same!

 

[anniebaby10]

Missionary is very intimate and I am very flexible with long legs so love to spread them and lift on top of his back while he fucks me deep and kisses me just as deeply. My ass is off the bed as he lifts me up and pumps me full of cum. Then lays on top of me and kisses me softly until his cock softens and slips out of my wet pussy.

 

[Starling2016]

Missionary is very intimate and I am very flexible with long legs so love to spread them and lift on top of his back while he fucks me deep and kisses me just as deeply. My ass is off the bed as he lifts me up and pumps me full of cum. Then lays on top of me and kisses me softly until his cock softens and slips out of my wet pussy.

Delightfully described

 

[Starling2016]

I asked this question of Mrs S this morning her reply was on her back with me on top. So another vote for the good old missionary!

 

[jackstud]

Missionary is very intimate and I am very flexible with long legs so love to spread them and lift on top of his back while he fucks me deep and kisses me just as deeply. My ass is off the bed as he lifts me up and pumps me full of cum. Then lays on top of me and kisses me softly until his cock softens and slips out of my wet pussy.

my kinda FUCK

 

[Erosfan]

I will get the ball rolling my absolute favourite is woman on top, visually very appealing and you can see her face and her breasts which are accessible.
Also in my experience it is the position in which the lady is most likely to come first, which can often lead to this position being a springboard to so much more fun!

I enjoy this as well. I love to see and have easy access to her beautiful breasts and watch her facial expressions. She does cum more readily and seems to rebound rather quickly. The next round is always exciting i.e. your "springboard".

 

[klippert]

On her back

I love Mrs K on her back legs up and spread wide. Banging her smooth Cunny hard the way she likes it.
Listen to her tell me to “Fuk” her hard. I’m pushed up so that i can see her giant tits bounce all over. So much so that my balls will ache for a cpl of days. That’s an indication; job well done.
It may just be me. After I’ve filled her pussy or covered her tits. I love looking at this beautiful Mature Church lady, and say to myself. I’m a lucky Bastard. Only we haven’t fuk’d in....I can’t remember

 

[Starling2016]

I love Mrs K on her back legs up and spread wide. Banging her smooth Cunny hard the way she likes it.
Listen to her tell me to “Fuk” her hard. I’m pushed up so that i can see her giant tits bounce all over. So much so that my balls will ache for a cpl of days. That’s an indication; job well done.
It may just be me. After I’ve filled her pussy or covered her tits. I love looking at this beautiful Mature Church lady, and say to myself. I’m a lucky Bastard. Only we haven’t fuk’d in....I can’t remember

That’s sad

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

I love locking my ankles behind a guy in missionary. Love the feeling of being plowed hard. To me that is the most intimate. You are face to face. Not so anonymous like doggy style. Then that big load of cum. That's all I wanted for my birthday, yesterday. A big load of cum.

 

[Bry1313]

I love locking my ankles behind a guy in missionary. Love the feeling of being plowed hard. To me that is the most intimate. You are face to face. Not so anonymous like doggy style. Then that big load of cum. That's all I wanted for my birthday, yesterday. A big load of cum.

Did you get your bday present?

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

No...wanted a cream pie... All I got was a cake.

 

[Starling2016]

No...wanted a cream pie... All I got was a cake.

that is so disappointing for you! Let me know next year and I’ll see if I can supply you with the correct type of pie!

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

that is so disappointing for you! Let me know next year and I’ll see if I can supply you with the correct type of pie!

I'm easy to please