In or near Md? Looking for some help

So you're in love with a married guy, but how is his relationship with his wife your business?

My advice, stay out of it. Nothing good will result.
 
Some background: We have known each other since high school. He involved me in his relationship in the Fall. I have watched her abuse him with messages like his life would be terrible without her. It would be the complete opposite. She doesn't deserve him. I want her to pay for hurting him and making him miserable.
 
Wait.... hold on....

"Your life would be horrible without me" is hurting him?!?

First:
They're married. If he brought you into things - you should run. Because, it's getting into a situation where you're going to lose.

Second:
They're married - wtf are you trying to hurt her for when they're still married!!!


My advice and you want to hurt her? Tell him to divorce her, move on and be happy. Not cheat and sneak around!
 
Following the above trend... the best way to "hurt" her would be for him to leave her, but since he hasn't left her yet, run the other direction and let them be.

My advice? Make him understand that it's either his wife or you and let him decide. If he doesn't choose you, cut him from your life entirely. You seem like you're quite a bit enthralled by him, so you'll be tempted so many times to go back, but wanting him so badly also means that when you do get him it'll be like an anticlimactic movie scene. You'll have him, then what? Too many times the relationship falls after you get the man, thinking it was going to turn out amazing. Trust me, that doesn't work out 90% of the time.

Regardless of what you do, might want to try to stay away from the "hurting" her idea.
 
Some background: We have known each other since high school. He involved me in his relationship in the Fall. I have watched her abuse him with messages like his life would be terrible without her. It would be the complete opposite. She doesn't deserve him. I want her to pay for hurting him and making him miserable.

This is crazy. He's a grownup, so he can make his own decisions. Also, anything you do can land you in jail, or get her to take a restraining order out against him. If he is unwilling to leave her, then why are you sticking around?
 
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