I'm in a relationship with a girl who is interested in trying new things, yet she has had bad experiences with guys in the past. She has had sex once, and the guy was completely inconsiderate of her, and it turned her off to the whole thing. I myself am a virgin, choosing to wait until I found someone that I truley loved and trusted for my first time, rather than the first who offered. Not having that much experience in the whole process, just what I have picked up on here and listening to previouse g/fs, I want to make sure her next time is enjoyable. She made the comment last night on the phone that she thought she was broken because she never got pleasure out of sex, and I have heard that before, and it makes me pretty sad. What can I watch out for/do to make this time a pleasure for her? I myself am more of a giver than reciever, I get off on pleasuring someone else. Any advice is welcome. 
