improve my sex drive (behaviorally)

[wanderingwizard]

recovering from a low sex drive

i admit, i'm completely drained sexually. most of the women my age want marriage/children. i maybe need to date a little younger.

the other thing is, i know i'm not living with the level of sexuality i had back in my school days. back then, i let myself be animalistic. now, i'm not saying it's more complicated, but being in school is an easy ticket to not be pressed for marriage/children. commitment is the last thing i want for my arousal.

i think if i turn off the, "i'm a stable guy," switch and stop relying on that when meeting people, i'll meet less women looking for this. maybe i could pretend to be a roadie for a while, or a mysterious musician who gypsies around.

 

[SunDevilGirl]

Don't blame the women!
If you're turned off by women wanting commitment..simply don't fuck those women.

 

[xxxpaulzzz]

Don't blame the women!
If you're turned off by women wanting commitment..simply don't fuck those women.

he sounds like a bit of a dick?
not in a good way!

 

[wanderingwizard]

i'm not ignoring that many women operate on commitment, even sexually. i'm not saying i want to sleep around if my partners don't know about it / agree with it.

i'm talking about *my* sexual desire. i'm not in a position to evaluate if i want to commit right now. i'm kinda a fan of oral these days since it doesn't make sex about commitment, but i want to keep this separate from other things like friendship.

i'm figuring out *my* pleasure in the equation, even if i enjoy being an attentive partner. maybe this is selfish, but so is sex

part of this comes down to how i look and feel. it's been years since i had abs.

 

[Cumference]

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part of this comes down to how i look and feel. it's been years since i had abs.

Have you considered putting in an effort to regain those abs?

Being fit will also improve your sex drive and stamina.
(not to mention, that you will give the impression of "sexy" rather that "obviously good at dragging food home to the cave")

 

[wanderingwizard]

Have you considered putting in an effort to regain those abs?

Being fit will also improve your sex drive and stamina.
(not to mention, that you will give the impression of "sexy" rather that "obviously good at dragging food home to the cave")

lol @ your profile pic

yea, i climb a lot and am getting back into jogging. work has been busy for, uh, well a couple years.

being fit is seeming more like a mindset than i ever really appreciated before.

thought about crossfit, and although i think it's strangely attractive for women to crossfit i don't know how much i'd think of that as a good personality fit. different topic for a different day