*Important* To all of my friends on Lit.

[Big-n-Hard]

I come on this site for enjoyment.

I do enjoy the relationships I've made on this site. You've all been great.

I don't ever intend to hurt or to offend anyone. That's not my intention.

Neither do I come to this site to argue with anyone. Real life is stressful for us enough everyone. That's why we create fantasy.

It's not ever to be confused with real life situations, it's just an escape.

Apparently BlessedBe has been offended. I'm sorry for this. It was never my intention. She posted her concern on one of my threads. I tried to explain to her my intent in a nice way. According to her pm to me I also offended her in my explaination.

I don't intend to drag out a fight with anyone on this site. That's not why I come here. I don't need it.

I'm going to cancel all of my current threads that I've started.

I really don't intend, at this time, to start any new ones.

I will still come here to read and visit with all of you, but I really don't think I'll be an active participant.

I'm not feeling sorry for myself, taking my ball and going home, or anything like that. I just don't come here looking for a fight. I come here to have a good time. When this type of situation arises it's just not fun anymore.

Blessedbe, I'm sorry that you were offended, I never ment to do so.
Big-n-Hard

 

[PhoenixPrime01]

TO BIG 'N HARD AND ALL:

My friend, and I hope I may call you that, you'll be missed.

I do hope that when you've had time to let this settle you'll return to us, your Lit family and friends.

It's a shame to allow the opinion of one person to affect so many of us. You and all of those who enjoy writing and interacting with you, as well as all of those who enjoy reading what we write together.

However, you're right. It does have to be fun and enjoyable to continue.

I do agree that some people seem to lose sight of the fact that this is fantasy, make believe, adult cowboys and indians, good guys and women and not such good guys and women, it's story telling and doesn't necessarily reflect on our real time lives in any way.

I'd think on an Adult Sexual Role Playing site there would be more tolerance, but apparently not from what you've said.

My friend please Be Safe, please Be Well, please Be Happy and do return to us so we may share and enjoy writing together once again.

Oh, and remember as the Roman's used to say, "Non Illigitum Carborundum" or loosely translated, "Don't Let the Bastard's Wear You Down."

PhoenixPrime, a friend who will miss you

 

[Big-n-Hard]

Thanks Phoenix,
Yes you are a really good friend.

And that's what Lit is all about,
making and interacting with friends who we otherwise would never meet.

I've made alot of friends on this site over the past 2 years. Even when I had to be gone for a while this past summer due to family obligations, everyone was so nice and gave me a nice welcome back. That's friendship.