Imaging others kinks in public

kinkydad41

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Does anyone else see other people in public and imagine how kinky they might be?

I'm in church right now and I look around doing this. I wonder how many people are active in incest. More that people suspect I bet.
 
I go the other way. I tend to assume everyone I meet is plain vanilla. I've probably missed out on a lot.
 
everywhere

I do this everywhere. I am always looking wondering if they are shaved, pierced, wearing a butt plug or is their pussy/ass full of cum from this morning? Do they enjoy sucking cock, do they look at me and wonder about my cock, do they know I am looking at them and wondering all these things?
 
All the time. I’m always wondering what women look like naked, what their thoughts on sex are, are they super kinky, craziest thing they’ve ever done, etc.

And I wonder about men too. What are their secret kinks?
 
I wonder what kind of undies or lingerie the women are wearing? Lace, satin, cotton, mesh, commando?
 
i do all of this....wondering what people have on under their clothes or inside their body, what type of kink they're into, when they most recently had sex....and where they had it. That is only because of LIT...i never thought that way before reading the boards.

i also notice that, prior to LIT, i was always most attracted to the stereotypical "hottie", and didn't really pay much attention to others. Now, i find i'm always wondering about all women i see, regardless of their outward appearance, and am considering them from a sexual perspective. LIT has most certainly opened my mind to a lot, and i'm glad for that.
 
I do this with hot women all the time, imagining what they've done before. Especially when it comes to the arse....I always wonder if they've had their arsehole licked or fucked.
 
I often wonder, when I see a woman shopping with teen aged kids, if they have a clue that she might be a fox in the eyes of others.
 
Every. Single. Day... I did sit next to a woman on a train in Chicago one time who, I'm like 99.9999% certain had a stream of cum across the lapel of her suit jacket going over her shoulder. She was a bit discheveled and glowing as if she'd just been somewhere she shouldn't.
 
Sort of the inverse, but when we're having kinky sex my girlfriend often teases me by saying stuff like "we look all cute and innocent when we go out together but all the people around us in public don't know what a dirty little slut you are, they don't know how I tie you down and degrade you...". That stuff gets me rock hard.
 
Sort of the inverse, but when we're having kinky sex my girlfriend often teases me by saying stuff like "we look all cute and innocent when we go out together but all the people around us in public don't know what a dirty little slut you are, they don't know how I tie you down and degrade you...". That stuff gets me rock hard.

I agree with this too. There’s a thread on here called “My coworkers would be surprised to know…” and it has all kinds of people spilling the beans on what dirty things they’d like their coworkers to know…. (In fantasy)

Gets me hard too to wonder what peoples sex lives and kinks are like but also to sort of want people to know my kinky desires.
 
I do it with women all the time.


I just assume that all men are horny kinky fuckers, regardless. So I don’t wonder about them as much.


But as my bi curiosity grows, I find myself picturing more women naked, wondering if they’re wearing sexy underthings or basic comfy stuff. Wondering if they are into women as well, if they’re new or experienced, if they like it rough or sensual, if they’ve ever been part of a threesome, if they want to be part of a threesome, wondering what sort of sounds they make when they fuck….
 
I've played this game all of my adult life, principally, but not exclusively, in respect to women. They could be family members, workmates, clients, friends, friends of friends, or just randoms women I pass on the street. My thoughts range from wondering what they look like naked, their possible kinks and fetishes, are they swingers, have they cheated.
I love doing this.
 
Does anyone else see other people in public and imagine how kinky they might be?

I'm in church right now and I look around doing this. I wonder how many people are active in incest. More that people suspect I bet.

I traveled extensively the last 12 years before I retired requiring many long hours in airport terminals waiting for flights. I picked up a little time-wasting activity from a colleague. He called it Yes-No-Maybe. As the crowds meandered by one would quickly decide if you would sleep (fuck) each passerby given the chance – Yes-No-Maybe. The activity can be done verbally between travelers of quietly within one’s own mind.
 
I'm glad I'm not the only one who does this.

I was sitting in court once and there was a divorce hearing going on. The Judge asked the wife when they separated and if they'd been living apart continuously. The Judge asked, "Have you resumed sexual relations?" He meant with your husband but he only asked "Have you resumed sexual relations?" The wife answered, "with anyone?" The husband nearly collapsed. It was obviously the first moment he had even considered that she had moved on and that first moment was realizing she was fucking someone else. It was horrible for him, but it was sexy to think about her spreading her legs for somebody.
 
Churches are a very interesting place to imagine the kinks of others. I believe there has been some studies on religious people and kink due to many religions teaching sexual shame. It’s lead for some women to be more likely to have fantasies that involve non-con scenarios and as someone who likes consensual non-con I welcome it.
 
I don't do it every time I'm out but do imagine it quite often.
 
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I agree with this too. There’s a thread on here called “My coworkers would be surprised to know…” and it has all kinds of people spilling the beans on what dirty things they’d like their coworkers to know…. (In fantasy)

Gets me hard too to wonder what peoples sex lives and kinks are like but also to sort of want people to know my kinky desires.

I'd have to drive to southern ca for work assignment.
most of the time I'd be alone for the drive, but sometimes there would be a co worker with me, they were all guys.
about halfway was our refreshment break and we'd drive by an asian massage place. there were actually two that we saw.
several times they wondered what goes on inside there - and several times I playfully asked them if they'd like to take a break there.
I never told them that a long time ago I worked in one, right before I got that job.
I was known for amateur massages with highly skilled professional finishes haha.
 
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