I'm out.......

[_Lynn_]

This morning I went to court for the final judgement of my divorce. I represented myself since I live in a No-Fault state and there are no minor children involved.

My spouse was curious how it worked so he went along. I wondered if he wanted to be sure I didn't change our agreement at the last minute. From the day I moved out in Nov, 2006 we have been in agreement of all divisions. I'm very thankful that it has been a civil split.

Today I am free..........I have the document in front of me saying so. Funny, but it doesn't feel any different than yesterday did. This is really just a technicality. I felt 'divorced' from the day I moved out.

So how do I plan to spend the day??? Just like any other, I guess.

 

[christabelll]

This morning I went to court for the final judgement of my divorce. I represented myself since I live in a No-Fault state and there are no minor children involved.

My spouse was curious how it worked so he went along. I wondered if he wanted to be sure I didn't change our agreement at the last minute. From the day I moved out in Nov, 2006 we have been in agreement of all divisions. I'm very thankful that it has been a civil split.

Today I am free..........I have the document in front of me saying so. Funny, but it doesn't feel any different than yesterday did. This is really just a technicality. I felt 'divorced' from the day I moved out.

So how do I plan to spend the day??? Just like any other, I guess.

((((((((((((((((((MISTRESSLYNN))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

 

[jomar]

 

[TheeGoatPig]

I thought you were leaving Lit . I'm glad to hear it is just singledom.

 

[_Lynn_]

Thank you.

In a way, it's hard to comprehend. I was married almost 34 years. It's my choice, though, and I'm excited to see what the future has in store for me.

 

[cantdog]

Life is long

It's good that you have this opportunity. All the best.

 

[rgraham666]

Congratulations.

 

[DesertPirate]

May the future bring you joy and happiness

 

[Belegon]

Congratulations...

I'm happy to hear that you managed to stay civil. My ex and I are attempting to, but it has challenges...

far easier than screaming at each other though...

 

[voluptuary_manque]

Congradulations on avoiding the "uglies".

 

[buxxxom]

Only the best is in store for you, ML.

 

[Emperor_Nero]

Congratulations
May the world now bring you all the joy and happiness that you so richly deserve

 

[Liar]

Congradulations on avoiding the "uglies".

Indeed. "Uglies" suck.

Best wishes for a fresh start, Lynn.

 

[_Lynn_]

Thanks everyone.

When I initially said I wanted to leave, we went to counseling. It took a year before I did go. We agreed then to keep it friendly and not to argue over belongings. He has given me free reign all along to the house, which he still lives in for now. I even have personal items stored there yet. I also have a key and can go there to get more at any time.

Today, in court, he calmly told the judge the settlement was fine with him. I asked for no support, since he's currently unemployed. The house will be sold. Right now, we have "joint custody" of my Corvette........((lol))

Yes, it's the beginning of a new segment of my life. Who knows what's around the next corner??

 

[Guest]

Thanks everyone.

When I initially said I wanted to leave, we went to counseling. It took a year before I did go. We agreed then to keep it friendly and not to argue over belongings. He has given me free reign all along to the house, which he still lives in for now. I even have personal items stored there yet. I also have a key and can go there to get more at any time.

Today, in court, he calmly told the judge the settlement was fine with him. I asked for no support, since he's currently unemployed. The house will be sold. Right now, we have "joint custody" of my Corvette........((lol))

Yes, it's the beginning of a new segment of my life. Who knows what's around the next corner??

May much joy and happiness be yours, Lynn.

 

[lisa123414]

I have no doubt, you will be wonderful, as you are wonderful! Good luck!

 

[kendo1]

Ah! So that's what it's all about.

Ken

 

[_Lynn_]

May much joy and happiness be yours, Lynn.

I have no doubt, you will be wonderful, as you are wonderful! Good luck

Ah! So that's what it's all about.

Ken

I appreciate, everyone.

 

[Tarakin]

Good luck to you!

 

[slyc_willie]

I appreciate, everyone.

Add my encouragement to the list, Lynn.

 

[TE999]

Congratulations Lynn.

I wish you every happiness in your new life.

 

[_Lynn_]

Agg my encouragement to the list, Lynn.

Congratulations Lynn.

I wish you every happiness in your new life.

Thanks guys.

Since I moved out, so long ago, many good things have happened.
Coming to Lit and meeting you two is definately at the top.

 

[slyc_willie]

Thanks guys.

Since I moved out, so long ago, many good things have happened.
Coming to Lit and meeting you two is definately at the top.

We're always here for you, baby

 

[impressive]

Thank you.

In a way, it's hard to comprehend. I was married almost 34 years. It's my choice, though, and I'm excited to see what the future has in store for me.

Ditto. I just ended a 22-year marriage. Also quite civilly.

Time for the next chapter.

 

[_Lynn_]

Ditto. I just ended a 22-year marriage. Also quite civilly.

Time for the next chapter.

Yes. Good luck to you wherever the future takes you.