im big, i am, no really i am

[toetyper]

i have cerebral palsy and drive my chair with my feet. i have a preference for bigger women. i know that bigger women prefer men with large cock and thats what i have. however i dont think that women will assume that i have the proper equipment so how do i bring up the subject without sounding like a complete jerk?

 

[pplwatching]

Not being a woman, I can only speculate but most women seem to make sexual decisions based on whether or not they connect with you in some way. If you find a gal that you find attractive, work on getting the grey matter excited. Once you've seduced her, your size will just be a (pleasant, I assume) surprise.

Other than that, it seems to my admittedly non-feminine intuition that bringing up your size is just going to make you look like you think that you're God's gift to women. Maybe some chicks go for that though.

 

[celticlady]

pplwatching has got the gist of it.
Engage her interest via her mind, find common ground. By the time you two start talking intimacy, she'll have already had her imagination running.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

I'm a lady............... Wait, I'm a woman, a female, not very ladylike. I'm not even sure this forum is a place for ladies.

But I just wanted to say most of what the others wrote seems right. Size to many of us doesn't matter except the size of your heart.
Not being a lady I've had all sizes and shapes. If I had to choose just one I'd take around 7" or maybe 8". I've had much larger and much smaller. Sometimes large is too large. too small is okay. At least they don't hurt.

Just be you, don't lie, don't pretend to be something or someone you are not. Men and women want friendship and honesty. Go from there.
I can't say much about dating. I've only had one date and one boyfriend. I'm keeping him until the end.

 

[RunningJib]

I'm a guy

If I understand you, you want to be taken seriously as a capable lover and potential companion

My suggestion is to focus on your personality and demonstrate your wit, humor and ability to be sensitive. Moreover, you have a unique personality and aren't your disibility

Best of luck to you

 

[Miles Long]

I think it also depends on where and how you're meeting these women. If it's out and about in life, definitely go with the things people have said. If it's on a website like FetLife, I think you should probably throw that fact out in your profile so any woman who reads it will know what you're looking for and what you're offering.

 

[Snugbug]

I mean, if you're looking for someone on here, advertise on the personals maybe. If you're looking on here, ask friends if they know any girls to your taste that are singke, try to get to know them, or join a gym and chat up women there, or get to know a co-worker that fits that description. A lot of women can be swayed by a kind guy who makes her laugh. Then when they see your cock they'll be pleased, unless they think it'll hurt.