If your partner was a virgin ( question for women)

[Pinnochio]

Would you find this a turn-on or a turn-off? When I tell women I'm a virgin I get some pretty weird questions. Growing up with a physical dissability women didn't seem to pay much attention to me that way. As I get older, or also meet older women, they seem more willing to see past my dissability and see me for who I am as a person.

Iwoul guess if a woman liked the idea of a man being a vrigin would be then she could teach him to pleasure her exactly the way she enjoys it; no uncomfortable 'What are you doing?" situations.

 

[Leeleigh]

Would you find this a turn-on or a turn-off? When I tell women I'm a virgin I get some pretty weird questions. Growing up with a physical dissability women didn't seem to pay much attention to me that way. As I get older, or also meet older women, they seem more willing to see past my dissability and see me for who I am as a person.

Iwoul guess if a woman liked the idea of a man being a vrigin would be then she could teach him to pleasure her exactly the way she enjoys it; no uncomfortable 'What are you doing?" situations.

It should not be a turn off. Its a part of who you are. I know from my point of view, I probably would love taking someone and not only introducing him to the delights of sex, but also someone who might like to experiment with things, someone who has no pre conceived notions on how it should be.

 

[Moon Dragon]

Would you find this a turn-on or a turn-off? When I tell women I'm a virgin I get some pretty weird questions. Growing up with a physical dissability women didn't seem to pay much attention to me that way. As I get older, or also meet older women, they seem more willing to see past my dissability and see me for who I am as a person.

Iwoul guess if a woman liked the idea of a man being a vrigin would be then she could teach him to pleasure her exactly the way she enjoys it; no uncomfortable 'What are you doing?" situations.

It would depend on what I was looking for. If I wanted a satisfying fling then I'd want someone experienced since I wouldn't have the time or desire to teach him. If I wanted something more permanent and romantic then it would make me feel special ... honored in a way that I would be his first. There wouldn't be any rush. There would be days and weeks rolling into months and possibly into years to explore together.

There was a special tenderness when I "deflowered" virgins before. There was passionate wonder in their eyes when I took their hand and/or told them what to do and they heard my moan. They were so much more eager to please and experiment ... sometimes experienced men can be set in their ways. Adoration was written on their faces and seeing that made me feel at ease ... I knew that they would not hurt me intentionally and that they would treasure our time together. Additionally, even when things got kinky, there was purity in them that was very attractive ... very sexy.

Virginity is much more special a gift than the mear mechanics of the deflowering. There are so many wonderful things about being the woman who introduces a man to the art of love-making, and even above all of those things there is the knowledge that you will always be remembered if things end. That is something I have never been sure of with anyone else.