If your mate was perfect except.....

[HoldenMcCrank]

he or she was unable to fufill you sexually, how long would you stay with them?

Curious as always

Holden

 

[SweetCherry]

Damn right I would. I have the perfect mate. I love him with my entire being and sure, I'm looking forward to making love with him, but it's not everything to me. He's kind and supportive and everything I need in a partner.

 

[MysticSwing]

If they were perfect, and you loved them, then I would suggest sticking around and help them learn and find all your right spots and which of your "happy" buttons to push... Help show them the things that sexually fulfill you. I certainly wouldn't give up that easy!

~~Mystic

 

[MidnightAngel]

If he was perfect except that he couldn't fulfill me sexually? Keeper! Definitely, I would stay forever...... As Sweet Cherry said, sex isn't everything. It's great, sure.....but a man who's perfect in everything else? I'd have to say it's worth the trade-off.

 

[estevie]

Everyone is teachable!

 

[christophe]

Everyone is teachable!

Learning should always be made fun

 

[sabbathstorm]

I'd definitely keep him if he were perfect. After all, he could learn and grow as a lover over time.

 

[Shylady]

Keep him of course.

 

[Black_Bird]

he or she was unable to fufill you sexually, how long would you stay with them?

There are always things that a couple *can* do that involves sexual stimulation, even if it isn't sex. Oral sex, for instance. Massages, nuzzling and cuddling. Hand jobs.

If I loved the girl enough and knew of her condition, I would find a way around the problem just so I could be with her.

 

[TN_Vixen]

Well, I'll say it

No. I think sexual compatibility between partners is essential in keeping a marriage or relationship together. There's a lot of pettiness that can be overlooked and forgiven if the sex is great.

Besides, "perfect" for me includes the sex.

 

[Weird Harold]

If my mate was REALLY perfect...

but couldn't satisfy me sexually, she would bring in other women for me so I could be satisfied.

 

[sexy-girl]

he or she was unable to fufill you sexually, how long would you stay with them?

Curious as always

Holden

sure i can always masturbate

 

[Shylady]

Re: If my mate was REALLY perfect...

but couldn't satisfy me sexually, she would bring in other women for me so I could be satisfied.

lol Harold now that is the correct answer!

 

[Guest]

Well to me a great guy, would b sum1 who could meet all ur needs not just a part of them... and sex is a BIG need!! i mean , its only good to a point that he cant totally satisfy u... u could always grab "BOB" (battery operated boyfriend) and finish up... but to me a perfect guy so to speak would have to be able to please 100%... just my thoughts tho.... Melissa

 

[juicylips]

he or she was unable to fufill you sexually, how long would you stay with them?

Curious as always

Holden

How long would you stay with them??

20 yrs. long enough ??

Of course, you could masturbate all the time while thinking of all the other perfect qualities he has.

Cassidy

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

I'd stay with them forever and a day.

sex can't be everything else i'd be dead already.
Isn't love so much stronger then that?

 

[morninggirl5]

Perfect in every way except...... included in that perfect part is a desire for me to be happy and fulfilled, so he'd keep trying to learn and explore until the sex was everything I wanted.

 

[EnchantedBeauty]

I believe my husband and I are soulmates. We were destined to be together. If he couldn't fullfill my needs I would stay with him and love him unconditionally. I took my vows seriously. There is more to love then sex.

 

[PHANTOM5875]

he or she was unable to fufill you sexually, how long would you stay with them?

Curious as always

Holden

Yes, until the day I die. Sex is one thing (and a damn GOOD thing it is!) But it is only one aspect of a really good relationship. You can't beat being on the receiving end of unconditional love and devotion. It is an AWESOME thing to behold.

 

[lilfrk]

he or she was unable to fufill you sexually, how long would you stay with them?

Depends on a lot of things.

1. Are they ill and there truly was nothing that could be done about it. Yes I'd stay.

2. Are they ill but it could be helped and controlled but they choose not to. No I wouldn't stay.

3. Are they trying to learn to be a better lover. Yes I'd stay.

4. They know that the sex sucks but they don't care. No I wouldn't stay.

5. They know, they've tried to make it better and it just isn't working but they say I can find sexual satisfaction else where. I'd stay, I think.

 

[Moridin187]

Wouldn't bother me a whole lot.. I can still jerk off, and to me cuddling, conversation, reassurance.. many other things, they're all a hell of a lot more important than sex.