If you wished for one thing to change in your life, what would it be????

[FlamingoBlue]

I would wish for everyone to fight no more, forever. I'm not talkin' about the Crusades where if you didn't buy the Church dogma, you're dead. I am talking about a genuine concerted effort involving ALL of us, in revulsion of all the fear in this world, standing up together on behalf of LOVE. ( And of course Ole blue will be in the forefront).

What would it take to make your life more complete?? And I am not talking about money becuause if you give a man a fish he eats only for one day, but if you teach him how to fish.....

blue

[Edited by FlamingoBlue on 01-23-2001 at 10:03 AM]

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Ksss]

The end of poverty worldwide. Which would hopefully wipe out starvation, would increase education, and bring better medical and living conditions. Does that count as more than one thing???

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

My life is near perfcet.....

But if I had such a wish......

I'd wish for.......

A scrotum sack the size of a grapefruit - and get this - holding four (count'em) gonads - 4 balls!!!! To it attached would be a 13" dick and the wet ability to shoot quarts of cum like a fire hose.

I'd be really happy then.

 

[Ambrosious]

Sparky

You too??!!

 

[livin_simple]

Blue's worldwide LOVE (or the elimination of selfishness) would be nice.

In lieu of that, how about Rose-Colored glasses for everyone??

 

[Celestiale]

A world without life-altering, painful, deadly illnesses...for selfish reasons

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Sparky, I have a particular concern...

I am in the middle of a horrendous custody trial. I think that both of these folks and their young child would have a better life if they could stop fighting. I just need a real incentive to get them to carry it off.

So, I understand your desire to have a scrotum the size of the dome on St. Peter (how apropos). What are your more serious thoughts on the wish??

blue

 

[OUTSIDER]

I know your all gonna think I'm a whore but right now money would be my wish, it would let me do more of the thing's I love.

 

[Ambrosious]

Blue

My life is perfect, I have the Fantasy Goddess.

 

[FantasyGoddess]

Re: Blue

My life is perfect, I have the Fantasy Goddess.

My life is Perfect too, I have Ambro. He's no Steven St. Croix, but I'll deal with it.

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Ambro, is that "have" in the .....

biblical sense or is only a fantasy??


blue

 

[Ambrosious]

Blue

Well, she is my wife, so I guess...both.

 

[Madison]

As you know, blue, I've got it pretty good.
Perfect Dog and Boyfriend, Plenty of Money, Beautiful car and home, good business...
Our relationship gets better everytime we hang out together or have a one minute conversation.

What would I wish for? I wish grandma would...just kidding.

I wish that I didn't have to worry so much about something bad happening to the people I love. I get scared everytime you leave our house that you're going to get into an accident or something. I get scared that my boyfriend is going to get "clipped" at work.(He works in a very bad part of town) I get scared that my brother is going to have a run-in with the wrong student. I get scared that Neiman Markus will never have another sale--ohmygod--where the hell did that come from??
Madison

 

[FlamingoBlue]

So, F.G., what's life like with Ambro/

Is he always so,so glib??

blue

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Sweetheart, don't be scared!!!

Neiman's is never gonna close, :>)


daddyblue

 

[Madison]

(Big Sigh of relief--as I'm wiping my brow...)

 

[Ambrosious]

Re: So, F.G., what's life like with Ambro/

Is he always so,so glib??

blue

Depends:

1. slick: fluent in a superficial or insincere way a glib talker

2. superficial: shallow and lacking thought or preparation a glib generalization

3. casual and relaxed: easy, unconcerned, and informal in attitude a glib smile

Which one are you talking about?

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Do I know how to comfort my daughter==

Or what??

blue

 

[Madison]

Yeah, why dontcha take me there, daddyo--then we're talking comfort.
Hee Hee.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Having gone through this experience......

If I were you - of course - I would want to do everything I could to explain and instill in this young, soon to be unmarried couple, that......

The "physical and mental well being of the child is paramount to the issue and outcome of the specifics of their divorce." Those petty specifics mean nothing, the child means everything.

Their "life compromises," the ones that always follow those involved with divorce - will be endured "by them, first and foremost " - as the child should feel "as few life compromises as is possible." The parents should be the ones making the large sacrifices - not the child. The splitting of a child's parents is sacrifice enough - everything else should remain as stable as possible.

For the parents - if this means changing occupations, if this means changing locals, if this means giving up more money - so be it. You see - it's the parents who made the fucking mistake - and they should feel the sting of their own misjudgments - not the child. The child should feel as little as possible.

Divorcing parents, fighting over "what they want" is stupidly and pitifully selfish on their parts - if that situation persists, if they can't seem to grasp the reality of the health and well being of their own child - well I would feel that they had no right having a child in the first place - and if I were the law - I'd take the child from them and place him/her where more caring parents could take on the loving responsibility of a child.

When I got divorced - I didn't want my sons to move out of their home of birth, I didn't want them to change schools, I didn't want them to go without anything they had become comfortable with. It was bad enough for them and for me - that I would be frequently absent - not waking up in the same home as they. I did everything I could think of to implement - no change in their lives.

I gave the house to my wife. I gave all my stocks and bonds to my wife. I gave the cars to my wife. I signed an agreement to provide for my sons nearly 2/3rd's of my income at that time - $1400 whopping dollars a month. This has risen substantially as my income has risen over the years. I also contributed toward incidentals like shoes, clothing and the like - I still do. I baby sat/had dad time - every Tuesday and Thursday night so my Ex could go out with her girlfriends and have some fun. I picked up the guys every other weekend and in between too -when I could. I still commute to Northern Virginia religiously every other weekend to be with my boys - from Manhattan. I take the guys on 2 weeks vacation - all paid for by me, every year.

On the flip side - I bought an old car. I lived with room mates. I bought Bush beer and Macaroni and cheese for dinner.

Eventually my wife found a new husband - we are all pretty good acquaintances too. We don't party down together but I often (when I can) co-coach sports with the boys step-dad. Or I sit in the bleachers with my new wife, my new infant son (who most often make the commute with me) and my Ex-wife all cheering one of the older guys as he plays his sport.

My two older sons seem to have absolutely no adverse problems emanating from our divorce. To the contrary - our divorce is "so good" if that's possible - that I sometimes believe that the diversity of 4 loving caring parents is better than just two. Grades are excellent to good. Participation in sports is excellent. Both are very social fellows with many friends. The oldest is seriously thinking of the military - either Army for helicopter shit or the Marine Corps like his old man. The youngest wants to be a "professional video gamer" what ever that is. Neither of them hangs out with what I'm sure I would know as undesirables (knock on wood) - so far.

This is the only way anyone, any parents should except divorce. If they can't make this happen - to me they are so irresponsibly selfish - "as humans" - well - they should just go crawl into a hole somewhere and give it all up. They have no sense of life priorities.

In my mind, if I were a divorce lawyer - I would want to make every couple going through with it - realize this.

This is the only way it - divorce - should happen

 

[dancinvixen]

My ability to make and save money. Teehee, I am absolutely awful when it comes to money

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Sparky, that's what I call....

an answer,from the heart. That's what I was looking for.

Thanks,

blue

[Edited by FlamingoBlue on 01-23-2001 at 11:53 AM]

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Ps Blue -

My Ex and I were so head strong on this issue that we used a personal friend, a lawyer....... for all the paper work.

It only costs us pain, humility and loss.

The only regret is our original mistake.