If you started out again, what would you tell yourself?

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When you look back at your journey in BDSM, is there anything you wish you could reach back and tell yourself at the start? To avoid mistakes which cost you time, money or emotional energy.
 
"Keep being a Domme"...
Well, I would tell myself that, only I don't believe that if that were the case, I would of met a very special man in my life now ...
I may have chosen a different DD to keep entertaining... Maybe.
 
When you look back at your journey in BDSM, is there anything you wish you could reach back and tell yourself at the start? To avoid mistakes which cost you time, money or emotional energy.
Nope.

It all worked out the way it worked out.

I was older than most students in college. So was she. I had just gotten outta the army. She was getting started later in her life. We gravitated to each other, immediately.

She taught me what s&m was (bdsm wasn’t really a term then) and how it worked. She was an excellent teacher. I guess I was a good student.
 
When you look back at your journey in BDSM, is there anything you wish you could reach back and tell yourself at the start? To avoid mistakes which cost you time, money or emotional energy.
Our relationship was fully based upon trust and submitting ourselves to each other before BDSM ever entered the picture...
The ONLY thing I'd change is my work rotation from 28/14 to 28/28 so that I could spend more time with my Lovely Wife Domme Goddess!
 
I would tell myself “The first time she cheated, don’t get mad. Forgive her right away. The encourage her to continue having sex with other men.” Like I did the second time she cheated. Which started our hotwife lifestyle. But since I didn’t the first time, we wasted all those years where other men could’ve been fucking her!
 
Seek first to understand yourself. I had never explored BDSM, barely knew how to spell it, and I didn't understand the source of my desire to be subservient in a relationship. My ignorance led me to a relationship with a domineering man, and that man nearly ended me. Fortunately, I found a Dominant man to live my life with.
 
I would tell myself “The first time she cheated, don’t get mad. Forgive her right away. The encourage her to continue having sex with other men.” Like I did the second time she cheated. Which started our hotwife lifestyle. But since I didn’t the first time, we wasted all those years where other men could’ve been fucking her!

“When you look back at your journey in BDSM”
 
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