If you have a mind-numbing orgasm but your partner doesn't...

[WhiteRose]

Um...oh wait, you mean there's supposed to be another person here with me??? *blinks* I knew I was doing it all wrong...

 

[lickerish]

I would feel a little insecure.. like 'oh gawd, he got a good look at my fat rolls, and it turned him off' (lol) I dunno.. I just feel like maybe I did something wrong.

I would want to make sure he had one the next time 'round.. before I do.

 

[Rambrat]

I would feel a little insecure.. like 'oh gawd, he got a good look at my fat rolls, and it turned him off' (lol) I dunno.. I just feel like maybe I did something wrong.

I would want to make sure he had one the next time 'round.. before I do.

Thata girl!

 

[Khadgar]

what comes around, goes around, i'd make DAMN sure she'd get a screaming one next time, i think jim's in agreeance with me here LOL

fingers tongue, tons of foreplay... it's only THEN after i've done my best if she's not satisfied, overly so heh, then i'd start to think.

 

[TWB]

ohgod...can I orgasm with you?

Surely.

 

[plasticman33]

ohgod...can I orgasm with you?

Again? Some women are never satisfied!

 

[JerseyBoy]

How do you feel?

Just doesn't happen...how can you possibly reach such a high state if your partner isn't there with you?

-ws

 

[JerseyBoy]

Are you kidding? Its been so long since another person has even been in the room with me when I had an orgasm...

~he wonders the possibilities of changing this~

 

[dankei]

It's been a long time since I've had a lover who didn't orgasm. I've never had one fail to orgasm due to lack of me trying, but some women just don't orgasm that easily, or at all. In the past couple of years in my experiences I have usually been the one who is left without an orgasm. I usually don't mind the first couple of times with a woman because I truly get off by pleasing my a lover, but at some point I like to have them do the same to me.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

How do you feel?

justified! hey, its ok to be selfish every once in a great while, correct??

 

[psyche]

How do you feel?

Which means he can bring me to another mind numbing orgasm, is that a problem????!!!!

And eventually he will have his one way or another!!!

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Etoile]

My girlfriend and I each have so much trouble with depression and antidepressant medication that if either of us gets to have an orgasm, we're both delighted. Sigh!

 

[LukkyKnight]

If you screw a can-opener but your partner doesn't...

I tend to doubt it. . .

I've kept on thinging about this, and I still think it's a matter of practice until you get it right. I can see someplace understands the importance of practice, so while the rest of you ponder the philosophical aspects we'll be off someplace working on a more practical resolution.

 

[Private Vasquez]

Roll over and go to sleep. Your work there is done.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

~he wonders the possibilities of changing this~

 

[Guest]

Wendall

I'm left feeling that I want to do more, to please her.

If she says she's content and wants to stop, I start planning the rematch, one that will catch her by surprise, and send her to the stars.