If you could, would you...

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For no reason in particular, except that it is 3am, I decided to see if I could find an old flame of mine. Managed to track her down on facebook, and (obviously she has) she hasnt changed a bit in 15 years. She is still as hot now as she was then.
She was the first girl to touch my cock. Through a hole in my jeans in a nightclub.
I fancied the pants off her, but it just never really happened, and just fizzled out.

So the question is, if you could get together with that sort of old flame, even if it was for one night, would you?
 
For no reason in particular, except that it is 3am, I decided to see if I could find an old flame of mine. Managed to track her down on facebook, and (obviously she has) she hasnt changed a bit in 15 years. She is still as hot now as she was then.
She was the first girl to touch my cock. Through a hole in my jeans in a nightclub.
I fancied the pants off her, but it just never really happened, and just fizzled out.

So the question is, if you could get together with that sort of old flame, even if it was for one night, would you?

Depends on how we broke up.
 
Depends on which one. I have several old flames that reignite when we see each other, and as long as we are both free...
 
so funny you posted this i did just the same thing sort of except my old flame goes back 20 years and we had a sexual relationship well if you could call it that more like a booty call lol but hey it worked out for me ... we will meet soon and it will be HOT...
 
I don't have that many old flames. My husband is one of only three men I have ever been with. Got a late start dating having grown up in an ultra conservative home and married not long after college. I do sometimes wonder what happened to the guys that I dated before but don't really have a lot of interest in doing anything with them again.
 
For no reason in particular, except that it is 3am, I decided to see if I could find an old flame of mine. Managed to track her down on facebook, and (obviously she has) she hasnt changed a bit in 15 years. She is still as hot now as she was then.
She was the first girl to touch my cock. Through a hole in my jeans in a nightclub.
I fancied the pants off her, but it just never really happened, and just fizzled out.

So the question is, if you could get together with that sort of old flame, even if it was for one night, would you?

In terms of the fantasy, it's an absolute yes -- In terms of the reality? The circumstances would have to be ideal-to-perfect.
 
there is one i would love to have one more night with, she had the ability to make my body react in ways no one has since or before.
 
So the question is, if you could get together with that sort of old flame, even if it was for one night, would you?

I believe it's like sitting at your job and fantasizing about an old job--the friends you made, the benefits, the office parties. You tend to remember the good things and forget how soul-crushing it was. :)

And so it goes with old crushes.

I think we forget why we didn't ignite those flames. It's fun to revisit those memories. But I think they should be preserved as memories.

Not trying to be a buzzkill. Just adding my two pennies.
 
The passage of time washes away the negative memories, fights, etc. Leaves you with only sunshine and roses! It may be tempting, but remember their was some reason that you came to hate the sight of him/her! Personally I do miss certain sexual things about every lover I have ever been with. Don't know if the here and now would reconcile with the ex's:confused:
 
That's assuming things ended because of fights or negative feelings...sometimes you just have to let go of someone, or try to. Not because of hate or anger...just because.
 
There are certainly a couple, only one from high school, but a couple others from college and after. Nice thought, I like it!
 
"Ah, but I was so much older then, I'm younger than that now."

How often have I thought about this. There are, at least, 4 women I absolutely wish I could see again, and have a chance to undo what I so stupidly did, but ..... logic and common sense dictates that this will not and can not ever happen. I do wonder if, and what, they think of me after all this time. Damn, but this has a potential for being very depressing.
 
That's assuming things ended because of fights or negative feelings...sometimes you just have to let go of someone, or try to. Not because of hate or anger...just because.
I agree completely with this sentiment... and I must say that I WOULD without a doubt exercise that option if it was presented to me and I knew there would be no negative consequences as a result. Negative consequences -- either party falling in love and thinking it could be the same again. We grew to be different people and those who said it might be best not to disturb those memories have a valid point as well.

I'm just sayin' given the chance... I would.
 
I have done this with the same girl at least three times end of the story is we had fun then went back to what caused breakup. That would do us in again so from what I have personally been through gotta say. We both decided not to try anymore so no I would'nt
 
There are a few that (in a fantasy situation) I would definitely love to spend a night with again. The three that come to mind were in my life 15-20 years ago. Interestingly, even though I lost track of all of them over the years and live in a completely different city now, they each found me on Facebook in the last few years. I don't know what compelled them to track me down, but I love the thought that they, too, are thinking the same thing about me even if (or maybe especially if?) in reality none of us want anything more than just the "what if" fantasy.
 
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