If only...

DVS said:
Speaking of one track minds. You didn't know what I meant by "it's personal"...you just assumed you did, because I'm ass obsessed.

You're very right I did just assume that's what you meant. Perhaps you meant something else and I'm sorry for jumping to conclusions. :rose:
 
Evil_Geoff said:
*SNAP*

And all men, women, and children of the world would be tolerant and accepting of the differing mores, values, religions, sexual orientations, and practices of others, that ignorance, fear, and bigotry towards those who are different or unknown would end, that fairness and compassion would rule the hearts of humanity rather than selfishness and greed.

After that, the rest would work itself out.

Beautiful!

Fury :rose:
 
shy slave said:
When all the good things evil geoff has said have been achieved....

Could I snap my fingers and have someone wash up please?

I hate that job, so does my son.

We invariably run out of plates or have visitors before one of us does it.

I think I need a sissy slave :p
my dishwasher does the dishes for me but i really hate taking em out when they are done and then when they need doing again they sit because i didnt take the clean ones out of the dishwasher...viscious never ending circle of ....well of something.
 
caela said:
You're very right I did just assume that's what you meant. Perhaps you meant something else and I'm sorry for jumping to conclusions. :rose:
No, your first assumption was correct...I just wanted to mess with your head a little. :D
 
Kajira Callista said:
my dishwasher does the dishes for me but i really hate taking em out when they are done and then when they need doing again they sit because i didnt take the clean ones out of the dishwasher...viscious never ending circle of ....well of something.

I don't have a machine dishwasher, just a bowl of soapy bubbles.

If I were his Domme, Andantes main task would be washing up

*sigh*
 
Kajira Callista said:
my dishwasher does the dishes for me but i really hate taking em out when they are done and then when they need doing again they sit because i didnt take the clean ones out of the dishwasher...viscious never ending circle of ....well of something.
I dare say it's nothing a well placed crop wouldn't fix. You just need that special kind of catylist, is all.
 
My one wish, for a long time, has been to be free of my mental "disorders". My life would be 100% better if I did not have depression and anxiety. I would actually be able to work, so I could support myself and/or help mom with the bills, I could go to concerts and travel and... Everything. And I would want to, because I wouldn't feel so damn depressed all the time.


Heather
 
Kajira Callista said:
If you could change something in your life right now, with just a finger snap, what would you change?

If you'd asked me that a couple of months ago I would have said something like this.

I'd like my dad to start talking to me again
I'd like to be going to the $45,000 school I was accepted to and not the $6,000 school I can afford to go to
I'd like to have my old girlfriend back
I'd like things to go back to the way they were before my father decided he hated my and my family and consiquently walked out of our lives and refusing to pay child support.

But now, I think I'm actually getting past all that. So, right now, I don't think I would change anything in my life...

Except for maybe losing a few of these excess pounds ::shrugs::
 
Ok, I lied...
I would make the $2,000 bill for fixing my transmission go away :(
 
If only I could snap my fingers and never again procrastinate my life would be about perfect. If only....
 
marieR19 said:
My one wish, for a long time, has been to be free of my mental "disorders". My life would be 100% better if I did not have depression and anxiety. I would actually be able to work, so I could support myself and/or help mom with the bills, I could go to concerts and travel and... Everything. And I would want to, because I wouldn't feel so damn depressed all the time.


Heather

*HUGS*

HawkEye38 said:
If you'd asked me that a couple of months ago I would have said something like this.

I'd like my dad to start talking to me again
I'd like to be going to the $45,000 school I was accepted to and not the $6,000 school I can afford to go to
I'd like to have my old girlfriend back
I'd like things to go back to the way they were before my father decided he hated my and my family and consiquently walked out of our lives and refusing to pay child support.

But now, I think I'm actually getting past all that. So, right now, I don't think I would change anything in my life...

Except for maybe losing a few of these excess pounds ::shrugs::


Good for you!

*hug*
 
Fury, You're too sweey.

*Hugs* for you, lots of them.

And anyone else who could use one!

We sometimes forget how near wonderful our life is until we hear about the suffering of others.

:rose: :kiss: :rose:
 
Blushing Bottom said:
Fury, You're too sweey.

*Hugs* for you, lots of them.

And anyone else who could use one!

We sometimes forget how near wonderful our life is until we hear about the suffering of others.

:rose: :kiss: :rose:

Thanks! *hugs back* You're sweet too!

Fury :rose: :kiss: :heart:
 
If only the computer industry hadn't taken a dive in 2001...
If only my age hadn't been such a factor in getting another job in my trained field...
If only the snow plow driver had been watching where he was going...
If only that hit and run driver hadn't run the red light...
If only I hadn't had to fight for a year with my insurance company for a settlement...
If only the lousy company I work for now paid a decent wage or even cared...

I'd gladly pay you Tuesday, for a hamburger today. :D
 
HawkEye38 said:
If you'd asked me that a couple of months ago I would have said something like this.

I'd like my dad to start talking to me again
I'd like to be going to the $45,000 school I was accepted to and not the $6,000 school I can afford to go to
I'd like to have my old girlfriend back
I'd like things to go back to the way they were before my father decided he hated my and my family and consiquently walked out of our lives and refusing to pay child support.

But now, I think I'm actually getting past all that.
Hello, Hawkeye.

*hugs from someone who has been there*

My father abandoned me and my family when I was five years old.

That was forty years ago. He never came back.

I would not describe myself as being "past all that", because some kinds of pain never evaporate completely. However, I have learned to be able to do two things.

First, to cope in life without a father. The implications here range from the mundane (obtaining career advice from alternate sources) to the poignant (holding my head up while walking down the aisle by myself).

The second thing I have learned to do is to stop blaming myself for his absence. This is a much harder task than the first one. Growing up in a world of daddy's little girls, it is impossible not to wonder: why didn't he love me?

The answer, of course, lies with his issues (not my own inadequacy as a daughter). Anyone who understands the nature of healthy parenthood will tell you this is true. All kids act up at all ages, each in their own way. No child is perfect, and normal, healthy parents love them and stick around anyway. I have been told this - so many times, by so many different people. But I did not really start to understand and believe it until I became a parent myself.

Unfortunately, if I am being honest I will tell you that a tiny part of me still believes that if I had just been more adorable, or bright, or better behaved......

*sigh*

I do not know if I will ever be able to erase that thought completely, but I'm working on it.

Alice :rose:

P.S. If you have any questions or need to vent, Hawkeye, please feel free to PM me at any time.
 
alice_underneath said:
Hello, Hawkeye.

*hugs from someone who has been there*

My father abandoned me and my family when I was five years old.

That was forty years ago. He never came back.

I would not describe myself as being "past all that", because some kinds of pain never evaporate completely. However, I have learned to be able to do two things.

First, to cope in life without a father. The implications here range from the mundane (obtaining career advice from alternate sources) to the poignant (holding my head up while walking down the aisle by myself).

The second thing I have learned to do is to stop blaming myself for his absence. This is a much harder task than the first one. Growing up in a world of daddy's little girls, it is impossible not to wonder: why didn't he love me?

The answer, of course, lies with his issues (not my own inadequacy as a daughter). Anyone who understands the nature of healthy parenthood will tell you this is true. All kids act up at all ages, each in their own way. No child is perfect, and normal, healthy parents love them and stick around anyway. I have been told this - so many times, by so many different people. But I did not really start to understand and believe it until I became a parent myself.

Unfortunately, if I am being honest I will tell you that a tiny part of me still believes that if I had just been more adorable, or bright, or better behaved......

*sigh*

I do not know if I will ever be able to erase that thought completely, but I'm working on it.

Alice :rose:

P.S. If you have any questions or need to vent, Hawkeye, please feel free to PM me at any time.

*HUGS*

I have some Daddy issues myself. I won't go into the long scary and complicated history here but at times I did have my Dad and some of those times I didn't think I'd survive while others were precious to me.

*HUGS*

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
*HUGS*

I have some Daddy issues myself. I won't go into the long scary and complicated history here but at times I did have my Dad and some of those times I didn't think I'd survive while others were precious to me.

*HUGS*

Fury :rose:
*hugs backatcha, Miss Fury :)

One day, when I am in the mood for personal catharsis and have the time and energy to devote to such a thing, I may start a thread on "Daddy issues".

In the meantime, for a briefer cathartic experience, I recommend post #14 on this thread:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=393894

Alice :rose:
 
Somehow Whimpy is not the character I portray you as but I can relate with the series of what if's.

As in;
If only my father wasn't and abusive drunk.
If only I hadn't married an abusive drunk.
If only I hadn't determined that all men were loosers.
If only I hadn't just gotten in from kissing another frog.
If only I were able to project my real self image.
If only....

DVS said:
I'd gladly pay you Tuesday, for a hamburger today. :D
 
If only....

BB were close at hand... That bottom (at least in the av) is luscious... the things I could do to that...
 
Blushing Bottom said:
Somehow Whimpy is not the character I portray you as but I can relate with the series of what if's.

As in;
If only my father wasn't and abusive drunk.
If only I hadn't married an abusive drunk.
If only I hadn't determined that all men were loosers.
If only I hadn't just gotten in from kissing another frog.
If only I were able to project my real self image.
If only....

*hugs and hugs*

Fury :rose:
 
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