Ideas to keep an online relationship sexy

[Holly1990]

I have had an online 'fuck-buddy' type relationship with a friend going on for a year or so now, we've both had partners on and off in real life and both have sex partners in real life too, so it's not a serious thing, but we both enjoy having a little bit of online fun on occasion and sometimes it's a lot easier to do it with someone regular than trying to find someone new every time.
The problem is that I feel we're going a little stale when we play online (saying and writing about the same things etc) and I wanted some advice on new things we could try while we're apart!
The things we usually do are: Talking and getting eachother off (RP and more natural chat), skyping, sharing pics and occasionally emailing or texting through the day. Those of you who've had long distance relationships must know of some other things we could try and I would appreciate the help!


NB. We're both pretty adventurous I suppose, we've met once for real and it isn't a romantic thing, we're just long distance friends who find eachother sexy I guess! If that helps x

 

[Holly1990]

No ideas guys?

 

[RandallKinds]

No ideas guys?

Sounds like you have most of the bases covered already!

 

[unsureofherself]

What about games, dares, challenges... with rewards at the end?

E.g. take pics of things with a specific theme for a day and the loser (person who has least) has to do x?

Naughty word online scrabble even lol

Write a story together.one line at a time...

The fun, flirting and banter can add up to great fore play as you'll be constantly planning your next move/line/pic...

Just a few simple suggestions you may already have had...

 

[ButtAnalMan]

I have had an online 'fuck-buddy' type relationship with a friend going on for a year or so now, we've both had partners on and off in real life and both have sex partners in real life too, so it's not a serious thing, but we both enjoy having a little bit of online fun on occasion and sometimes it's a lot easier to do it with someone regular than trying to find someone new every time.
The problem is that I feel we're going a little stale when we play online (saying and writing about the same things etc) and I wanted some advice on new things we could try while we're apart!
The things we usually do are: Talking and getting eachother off (RP and more natural chat), skyping, sharing pics and occasionally emailing or texting through the day. Those of you who've had long distance relationships must know of some other things we could try and I would appreciate the help


NB. We're both pretty adventurous I suppose, we've met once for real and it isn't a romantic thing, we're just long distance friends who find eachother sexy I guess! If that helps x

I can tell you some ideas on chat

 

[FlutterFlye]

I'm in a similar situation with a long distance fwb type thing- do you masturbate on webcam to each other? I don't have a webcam but we have 'filth nights' where we send each other videos of us masturbating for each other etc. I wear sexy outfits, strip for him, play with myself etc. Those vids coupled with dirty texts send us over the edge and we sometimes cum down the phone to each other

He'd sometimes tell me things he'd like me to do on video and I'm more than happy to oblige

 

[BiTodd]

I'm in a similar situation with a long distance fwb type thing- do you masturbate on webcam to each other? I don't have a webcam but we have 'filth nights' where we send each other videos of us masturbating for each other etc. I wear sexy outfits, strip for him, play with myself etc. Those vids coupled with dirty texts send us over the edge and we sometimes cum down the phone to each other

He'd sometimes tell me things he'd like me to do on video and I'm more than happy to oblige

point me in the right direction please! I would absofuckinglutely love to befriend a lady like you. Thanks!

 

[NippleMuncher]

I don't understand the question.

If you're as open and active with each other as you say, then why can't you work on some fantasies and such? Is your relationship so shallow that you can't communicate in a nonsexual way to find other interests? You've lost your kinky gene and can't come up with something you'd like to try?

Maybe I'm missing something.

 

[amofiga]

I have had an online 'fuck-buddy' type relationship with a friend going on for a year or so now, we've both had partners on and off in real life and both have sex partners in real life too, so it's not a serious thing, but we both enjoy having a little bit of online fun on occasion and sometimes it's a lot easier to do it with someone regular than trying to find someone new every time.
The problem is that I feel we're going a little stale when we play online (saying and writing about the same things etc) and I wanted some advice on new things we could try while we're apart!
The things we usually do are: Talking and getting eachother off (RP and more natural chat), skyping, sharing pics and occasionally emailing or texting through the day. Those of you who've had long distance relationships must know of some other things we could try and I would appreciate the help!


NB. We're both pretty adventurous I suppose, we've met once for real and it isn't a romantic thing, we're just long distance friends who find eachother sexy I guess! If that helps x

I had several similar long distance online relationships as you describe. They were back in the day before Skype and video chat so we used to send each other polaroid pictures of ourselves masturbating or posing. I sent one a special vibrator and she sent me pictures of herself using it. I used to ask her to masturbate in sexy lace panties I'd send her and she would send them back sealed in baggies so they were still a bit moist and I could sniff them. SHe even asked me to jerk off into them and send them back to her. We each had private mailboxes we could use to send each other stuff.

I had another lady friend who was indeed a swinger and she'd tell me all about the times she and hubby would have at one or two of the clubs in her area or parties they would attend. She'd go on in very specific detail and it was very hot. She also sent me pictures and also sent panties she had gotten off in. Sometimes it was pictures of her masturbating wearing the panties.

I had aother lady friend who had a very sexy "childlike" voice. I even offered to try to arrange a meeting with her with someone I knew in advertising because I thought she could have a career doing voice overs in commercials. In any case, she used to make me dirty-talk tapes in that little voice of hers and I would jerk off listening to them. We also had phone sex, sometimes while I was at work in my office and often from a motel when I traveled.

Today's technology offers many more opportunities for sharing long distance cybersex than we had back in the late '80's and '90's. However, if you are each keeping your relationship secret and have live-in SO's or spouses, it could be difficult and risky. Most SO's would consider that sort of thing just as bad as flesh-to-flesh cheating. Good luck.