ideas for boyfriend

[inexperienced30]

I am really inexperienced - just have been with 1 other person (married for 10 years)- and that was not all that great. I enjoy giving my boyfriend a blowjob and he just recently mentioned that he might enjoy a rim job. Any other ideas? We've already done anal (he knows playing with my butt is a huge turn on). Anyway, I'd like to surprise him with something new.

 

[cd1_christine]

Ideas...

Go out to dinner with a short skirt and no panties. Maybe a shelf bra that leaves your nipples out and a low cut top, too. Make sure he knows what you're wearing underneath before you leave, and he'll be horny as hell when you get back.

CD

 

[MaraJade1978]

suprise him in the shower some morning. If you're hesitant about the rim job thing, try it in the shower at least you know that everything's clean then. Even if you don't go that direction, some fun soapy foreplay is always a good time

 

[SweetErika]

The Blank Manual sticky should give you plenty of ideas to start.

 

[human_male]

A Catholic school girl outfit.

Trust me.

 

[inexperienced30]

Thanks

Thanks for all the advice - the Blank Manual Sticky can be helpful. I was just wondering if there was something sexually that I should be trying that I don't know about. I think I read one post that guys like their nipples played with?!? So, as you can tell, I guess I don't really know too much about what men really like. I'm not too aggressive when it comes to this - I let him do all the suggesting (although the anal was my idea).

 

[Mazuri]

So, as you can tell, I guess I don't really know too much about what men really like.

You don't really need to know what men like, just one man in particular One of the most fun ways to get a feel for limits as well as have a lighthearted way to ease into sex is to get either the dice or a board game designed for couples. I love the board games as they can introduce some questions you might not think about.

Another thing to consider is to find your sexiest nighty, bathe the room in candles and a light incense (if you like it), put some champagne/wine/sparkling cider on ice, and tell him that tonight, you will do anything he asks or wants. Make sure he knows your 'hard' limits (those things you refuse to consider doing for one reason or another) but then let him set the stage. Or ask him if he'd be willing to do the same for you.

Exploring can be fun. Lay in bed and let your hands run over his body. Start from the top or bottom, whichever you feel like, and touch him everywhere. Not a massage, really, just feeling his skin beneath your fingers. Ask him what he likes...take his hand and place it on yours and let him guide you. Talk to him...this can be incredibly sensual and bonding. Then let him do the same with your body. You might see him naked a hundred times, but it's like seeing him for the first time when you put all your focus, all your attention, into making sure you are touching every inch of his body and discovering what makes him moan. I love to touch and have to be touching him some way even when asleep, so this was incredibly sexy to me and we both discovered things we liked.

 

[BurgerFuhrer]

Cut his balls off. Now THAT'S a surprise!

 

[Carnevil9]

Bring one of your girlfriends home with you for a night of three-some sex. He'll be surprised and delighted.

 

[helix27]

If your looking to drive him "nucking futs" during sex. Toy with him, bring him to that point of climax, but do not let him get there. Use any/every way you know to do this. Then, just before he becomes frustrated, use the final and best way you know of to bring him, and allow him to climax. This works for some, not for all. Depends on the person. Just a idea that came to mind when I saw the thread. Above all else... have fun!

Go out to dinner with a short skirt and no panties. Maybe a shelf bra that leaves your nipples out and a low cut top, too. Make sure he knows what you're wearing underneath before you leave, and he'll be horny as hell when you get back.

CD

+1 on the skirt idea for this one too. Although I say dont tell him before hand. Let him figure it out during the night for himself.

 

[SweetErika]

Bring one of your girlfriends home with you for a night of three-some sex. He'll be surprised and delighted.

Unless he's one of the men that isn't interested in seeing two women together, or more specifically, HIS woman with another, or doesn't want anything sexual with another woman, especially not in front of his lady. Or, perhaps they're smart enough to know bringing another person in without a ton of communication is extremely risky and stupid.


Mazuri's right, Inexperienced; the only thing of consequence is what YOUR guy likes, so have fun talking and exploring each other (because you're unique from his previous partners, too!). Maybe pick out some stories that touch on each of your wildest fantasies and read them to each other or trade, then talk about realistic interpretations [e.g. whereas being kidnapped and sexually tortured by a stranger might not work, perhaps him ripping off an old/thriftstore dress, blindfolding, tying you up and pleasuring you would). Also, if you stick around and participate here, you'll pick up lots of knowledge and new ideas.

 

[helix27]

Mazuri's right, Inexperienced; the only thing of consequence is what YOUR guy likes, so have fun talking and exploring each other (because you're unique from his previous partners, too!). Maybe pick out some stories that touch on each of your wildest fantasies and read them to each other or trade, then talk about realistic interpretations [e.g. whereas being kidnapped and sexually tortured by a stranger might not work, perhaps him ripping off an old/thriftstore dress, blindfolding, tying you up and pleasuring you would). Also, if you stick around and participate here, you'll pick up lots of knowledge and new ideas.

That brought a smirk to my face. Something about exploring something/someone new in a environment that you feel safe in.

 

[RockHardKP]

I am really inexperienced - just have been with 1 other person (married for 10 years)- and that was not all that great. I enjoy giving my boyfriend a blowjob and he just recently mentioned that he might enjoy a rim job. Any other ideas? We've already done anal (he knows playing with my butt is a huge turn on). Anyway, I'd like to surprise him with something new.

Heres a few ideas:

Shave your pussy bald.

Bring home a porno

Greet him after not seeing him for a while and hand him a digital camera. Tell him you want him to take your picture, as you drop to your knees, take out his cock and play to the camera. If you are worried about having pictures like that of yourself you can delete them at the end of the night. If not, you can share them here!

Take him to the produce section of the grocery store. Give him a shopping list (cucumber, zuchinni, ear of corn, etc) and tell him you want him to fuck you with each of these items when you get back home.

 

[Carnevil9]

Unless he's one of the men that isn't interested in seeing two women together, or more specifically, HIS woman with another, or doesn't want anything sexual with another woman, especially not in front of his lady.

I don't think she implied that he was from another planet... .....Carney

 

[inexperienced30]

Lot's of good advice! Actually, I emailed him yesterday morning and told him I had a dream I'd like to show and tell. By the time I got to his house, he'd been thinking about what it was that I'd like to show him. Of course, we had to wait to get his kids in bed. It was definitely different (and maybe just a little difficult) for him to just lay back and enjoy - or to let me say what comes next.

 

[FurryFury]

Thanks for all the advice - the Blank Manual Sticky can be helpful. I was just wondering if there was something sexually that I should be trying that I don't know about. I think I read one post that guys like their nipples played with?!? So, as you can tell, I guess I don't really know too much about what men really like. I'm not too aggressive when it comes to this - I let him do all the suggesting (although the anal was my idea).

A lot of guys do but some do not. This is really something you have to find out from him. A check list of sexual interests might help and looking around here.

Fury

 

[subwannabe]

Have him pick out some erotic stories to share with you, then you would get a better idea of the things he does like. Somehow you have to open up the lines of communication and get him to tell you what he likes. Another idea, tie him up and tease him mercilessly to the brink and make him tell you some of the things already on his mind. It's like giving him truth serum. He will tell you everything you want to know.

 

[M's girl]

I don't think she implied that he was from another planet... .....Carney

Charming... Do you get smacked a lot?

 

[Scorch34]

Dominate him... make him do what you want him to do!