Ideas for being dominant

[SimonBrooke]

Just ideas off the top of my head:

- Blindfolds
- Light Bondage
- Ice
- Candle Wax*
- Orgasm Control (As has been mentioned.)
- Clothes Pegs*

* I'm not sure how light you would class these, but to me they sem fairly light, so I thought I might aswell put them down.

And, for heavens sake, try it outdoors in daylight. Not somewhere you're going to get seen, but... you've no idea how good it can be - and how far out of her comfort zone it can take her.

A favourite trick - which I have found to work for a lot of women:

• In a forest or somewhere like that - where you're not likely to be disturbed
• Tie her up securely - naked is good but not essential
• Blindfold her
• Walk away fairly noisily, so she knows you've gone
• Sneak around silently so that you will approach her from a completely different direction
• Wait a few minutes - long enough for the anticipation to build, not long enough for her to get really panicky
• For added effect, do something to change your smell or your sound - put on an after-shave you son't usually wear, or take your boots off
• Walk back and fuck her without saying anything at all, particularly not if she asks who it is

Obviously she isn't going to be in any real doubt that it's you, but it still gives her one hell of a frisson.