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[Jwoww2000]

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[Taggy1]

Is it worth risking your marriage over?

 

[jharp]

Is it worth risking your marriage over?

She's got the Hotel room and new bra and pannies. She's made her choice and she's a cheater. I'd say don't do and don't risk your marriage, but what's the point.

 

[Taggy1]

She's got the Hotel room and new bra and pannies. She's made her choice and she's a cheater. I'd say don't do and don't risk your marriage, but what's the point.

Cheating and Hotwife are completely different. Not sure she knows the difference

 

[NOBGE]

After 14 years together tomorrow will be the first time I am a “hot wife”. At least in my mind that sounds better than cheating… I met a man on another site I frequent much more (blacktowhite.net) he was local and we have been chatting almost exclusively for about two months via email. I took the plunge and met him Monday at Starbucks (first day of pumpkin spice) for a casual conversation and to test the waters out no pressure. The chemistry was overwhelming and I so so enjoyed our hour together. He even walked me to my car afterward and opened my door for me. Wasn’t pushy but my god the hand on the small of my back as we walked across the parking lot nearly made my legs buckle. We have been texting non stop since then and I’ve been more and more risqué in my texts to him. He’s a college student and I’m getting a thrill that someone 10 years my junior is into me. There is a Days Inn not far from us both that I have booked a room for tomorrow. I actually went in today and booked it on a secret credit card I have and will pull out cash to pay for it so hubby has no idea. I’ve already told my bosses I am taking the day off and we can check in at 2pm. I usually don’t get home till 5pm or so but often work late. For the first time in a decade I have butterflies in my tummy. This afternoon I’ve tried on a dozen outfits trying to think what he may like, he’s Nerdy but I like that. Settled on this super soft and nice DKNY black and white skirt I have with some stockings and black pumps. I think he will enjoy the bra and panty set that is also black and fits me like a second skin. Sorry had to tell someone .

Pleas come back and tell us about your afternoon!

 

[J_Bone]

As mentioned, a "hotwife" is a woman who has sex with others, but with the full knowledge and blessing of her husband. What you're describing is just cheating on your husband and in the process risking your marriage and all that goes with it.

Hate to be a downer, but food for thought anyway.

 

[screwher]

As a hot wife husband, yes, this is cheating. But I’m not criticizing or judging here. One of the best things that ever happened to my marriage is my wife cheating. It has brought me great pleasure over the years. And kickstarted our lifestyle.

Who knows maybe your hubby is also harbouring the secret desires of you having sex with other men. Has he ever shown any signs of this?

 

[ShyGuy68]

I hope you'll come back and tell more about how it went

 

[Lonelyhubby80]

I hope you'll come back and tell more about how it went

I agree

 

[mark_j]

Hi everyone. From all the hate mail I received I think I will use a little more discretion when I post in the future. Deleting my post would be an omission saying what I did was wrong and I don’t quite view it that way. Anyway I also want to thank the few people that contacted me that were not rude or mean and simply wanted to know how it went or how I was in my relationship and what made me feel the need to do this. You catch more with honey than vinegar.

I don't understand the reason for the hate mail.. What do they care?

They don't know you.
They are not a part of your marriage.
Truly, it is none of their damn business..

If it makes you happy, you do you..

 

[travelenman]

After 14 years together tomorrow will be the first time I am a “hot wife”. At least in my mind that sounds better than cheating… I met a man on another site I frequent much more (blacktowhite.net) he was local and we have been chatting almost exclusively for about two months via email. I took the plunge and met him Monday at Starbucks (first day of pumpkin spice) for a casual conversation and to test the waters out no pressure. The chemistry was overwhelming and I so so enjoyed our hour together. He even walked me to my car afterward and opened my door for me. Wasn’t pushy but my god the hand on the small of my back as we walked across the parking lot nearly made my legs buckle. We have been texting non stop since then and I’ve been more and more risqué in my texts to him. He’s a college student and I’m getting a thrill that someone 10 years my junior is into me. There is a Days Inn not far from us both that I have booked a room for tomorrow. I actually went in today and booked it on a secret credit card I have and will pull out cash to pay for it so hubby has no idea. I’ve already told my bosses I am taking the day off and we can check in at 2pm. I usually don’t get home till 5pm or so but often work late. For the first time in a decade I have butterflies in my tummy. This afternoon I’ve tried on a dozen outfits trying to think what he may like, he’s Nerdy but I like that. Settled on this super soft and nice DKNY black and white skirt I have with some stockings and black pumps. I think he will enjoy the bra and panty set that is also black and fits me like a second skin. Sorry had to tell someone .

So many people with an opinion, acting like puritans on a sex forum, picking and choosing what is right. If you enjoy what you are about to do or have done, then good for you.