I wonder.

[Auschick]

I wonder how many are out there like me.I'm married,semi attractive in a strange kinda way,i take care of my body and I'm SEXUALLY INSATIABLE.
Help me.
My husband is not as sexually driven as i am.
And i need to know how to fix this before i run off and have some purely sexual affair.
What can i do to make him want me?

 

[zosoNY]

hi......your husband is a fool to not fulfill you sexually, if you are the sexual woman you are, maybe you should go and try another guy....where do you live, I would love to give you a nice tongue massage, and then a good, long hard fuck....I am 30, hung, and insatiable

 

[Auschick]

I dont want anyone else.Apart from the sex,he's perfect.
I guess i should get used to reading and masturbating huh?
For the record,I'm in Australia,hence the name.*grins*
And I' 31.
And quite the babe in a freaky scarey kinda way.

 

[zosoNY]

yeah, I should've known you were from down under....."DUH"....well, I hope he starts giving it to you good and hard.....If you need help in reading, I am pretty good and getting women excited on here......later

 

[Auschick]

Exactly how good are you at getting wome excited on here?
Show me?*grins an waits*

 

[zosoNY]

for starters, I would slowly undress you, then I would slowly slide my tongue down your body.....tasting your sweet skin.....slide it down your neck....slide it over your breasts, licking and sucking on your hard nipples, slide it down your stomach, slowly circling your belly button.....slide it up your legs.....slide in inside your thighs, then start to lick your wet pussy....flicking my tongue faster and faster, sucking on your hard clit....tasting your wetness......thats how I would start on you

 

[Auschick]

Well that didn't work.
I was expecting wine and flowers and chocolates and stuff.*grins*
try again?

 

[Auschick]

Did i mention that last time i offered to blow him,he replied;No thanks.

 

[zosoNY]

baby, I would bring you flowers, chocolates, a new car, whatever you wanted......man, he's crazy......would never refuse a womans sweet lips sucking me

 

[Auschick]

Now ya talkin.
I want a new car.
Please?

 

[zosoNY]

sure, if you let me bend you over the hood so I can give yo a good hard bangin from behind.....and I'll make sure to spank you too

 

[Auschick]

By the hood i assume you mean the bonnet.
And uh,for a new car you can spank me from here to next week.It has to be an Auto,I cant drive a stick.

 

[Guest]

I was in a similar situation a few years ago. With my husbands full knowledge and approval I had an affair. Just sex, good hard fucking, no love involved. You would not believe the way it spruced up the sex at home. My husband still gets a hardon whenever we discuss my affair. He never gets tired of hearing each juicy detail of what my lover and I did with each other and he has heard every tiny detail more than once. I would recommend that you at least discuss the possibility of an extra-marital affair with him. It added much to our marriage.

 

[Auschick]

*L*I wish.
It sounds great,i guess.
but he doesn't see me as sexual very often.
I'm the wife,the mother,the domestic drudge.
God forbid that i would want more sex.
See,we cant talk about sex.
Unless he's balls deep inside me,then it's okay.
If he isn't horny,we cant talk about it.
So i guess I'm stuck.

 

[Weird Harold]

but he doesn't see me as sexual very often.
I'm the wife,the mother,the domestic drudge.

Have you tried dressing as something other than the wife, mother, domestic drudge?

We male types seem to be very visually oriented. Start with some sexy but comfortable lingerie and move gradually into sexier everyday clothes.

Maybe a new hairdo, or new perfume might spark some interest as well.

It may not get you as much sex as you want, but it should get you enough that you'll have a chance to talk about sex.

 

[Guest]

Try flirting with someone that you find attractive when your husband is present. Push it a bit to get a reaction from your husband. This is how my affair started. My husband became aroused when another man showed interest in me and it just progressed from there.

 

[Auschick]

*s*
I've tried ALL of that.
New hair color.
New hair style.
Lost weight,not just a little amount,Like 35 pounds.
I have the lingerie drawer of a whore.
And an innocent.
I've TRIED EVERYTHING.
I guess all thats left is a personality change?*l*

 

[Auschick]

Tried that.
I actually met a man online who was willing to be *Just a fuck*
He came and stayed with us,but when he got here,the hubby changed his mind.We were allowed to cuddle and kiss but there was to be no sex.
He DID get hornier when this guy was around,and even told me he liked the idea of this guy wanting me,and not being allowed to have me.
It's a power trip for him,i think.He has the control,and he KNOWS i am not going to run off and fuck some guy without his permission.
As soon as the hardon is gone,so is all the talk.*shrugs*
Thanks for the advice though,I do appreciate it.*s*

 

[Guest]

It looks to me that the hardon dissappears way to easily. Play a little harder to get yourself. He has little incentive to change his ways if he gets his way so easily.

 

[Auschick]

How do i play hard to get when I'm dying for it,most of the time.*l*
I dont have the self control to hold back.

 

[MysteryJKR]

If he likes the sense of being in control and the man. Have you two tried D/s by any chance? I know you said he is not as sexually driven but if you go with the D/s stuff and he is the dominant and has that sense of control over you while making love maybe it will boost it a little bit. I dont know though. Just a suggestion.

 

[Temptress_1960]

re: I wonder

Does he like to watch you masturbate? Sometimes that will get them going.
You could always get a nice hard 8" toy, and just enjoy yourself during the off times.
Guess it depends on what gets him going. Would he watch you cyber? That would be sort of like an imaginary affair, I guess. Maybe less threatening to him, especially if he likes the idea of you fucking someone else, but not the reality.
I think relationships go through those stages, but if it's ongoing it's not good. Could it be medical? Low thyroid, whatever? If he doesn't think it's a problem, though, it'd be hard to get him to find out.

 

[Auschick]

The D/s thing aint gonna happen.We have discussed that before,to no avail.Again,while he's hard,he thinks it's a reat idea,til you mention it when he AINT hard.
So,here is my plan.
I'm gonna go on strike.

We'll see what happens after a week.
*Makes note to go buy fresh batteries*
Thanks for all the advice.
I shall return.*l*

 

[Auschick]

Re: re: I wonder

Does he like to watch you masturbate? Sometimes that will get them going.

*L*Only last week i lay beside him and masturbated before i went so sleep.
He was asleep before i was.

This is sounding worse and worse aint it?*Chews lip*
The more i read of what i write,the more pathetic it sounds.
*Slaps self upside the head*