I Wonder, Too

[RudyGardet]

I wonder what's wrong with me that makes it so easy to be thrown away. I wonder if I'm not pretty enough, not sexy enough, not sweet enough, not intelligent enough.

How about there is nothing at all wrong with you, just that human being in general and men in particular are capable of ridiculous cruelty. Try not to take the weight of the world around you on your shoulders. Easier said than done of course, but I highly doubt that any of those 'not enoughs' are true.

I wonder why I can't get out this funk.

Maybe you need to do some immersion therapy and sink into the deep funk below to get past and through it...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gjKFCYzqq-A

 

[tolyk]

I wonder what's wrong with me that makes it so easy to be thrown away. I wonder if I'm not pretty enough, not sexy enough, not sweet enough, not intelligent enough.

Think of it instead of them not being man enough to see something through. Of them being able to properly express their feelings. Think instead that you are worthwhile. That you have value, with or without a man.

I can tell you that you are all of those qualities that you listed.

 

[Apisto42]

I wonder what's wrong with me that makes it so easy to be thrown away. I wonder if I'm not pretty enough, not sexy enough, not sweet enough, not intelligent enough.

You beautiful little soul,

You made some questionable choices in the past. Love yourself the way you deserve and no one can throw you away.

Hugs

 

[LostGirlTink]

I wonder what's wrong with me that makes it so easy to be thrown away. I wonder if I'm not pretty enough, not sexy enough, not sweet enough, not intelligent enough.

You are everything anyone could want.
Their inability to appreciate you does not decrease your value pretty girl

 

[Sh75]

So every once in a while you say something that just melts my heart and makes me cry. The rest of the time is all butt stuff and blow jobs in the B&B.

Thank you, darling. It means more than you know.

Theres many voices here that care for you and appreciate you Indie. The more you listen to them, slowly but surely they will drown out the questioning, unwarranted voice thats keeps making you doubt yourself. You are worth it so keep fighting babe

 

[Sh75]

Weasel,

You're a sweet talker, and a sweet friend.

Thank you,
Stacey

Back at ya Stace

 

[JennyNo1]

I wonder what's wrong with me that makes it so easy to be thrown away. I wonder if I'm not pretty enough, not sexy enough, not sweet enough, not intelligent enough.

OK, I'm late to the party as usual. One last thought on the subject - there's a book called "Uninvited". The gist of it is that some of us feel like everyone else got invited to the party but us. We feel left out...but in reality we're not uninvited, rather we have been set aside, for something special. I think you are one of those people, sweet girl.

 

[DarkSimian]

I wonder what's wrong with me that makes it so easy to be thrown away. I wonder if I'm not pretty enough, not sexy enough, not sweet enough, not intelligent enough.

I wonder if indie will listen to the lyrics, and get the message behind this song

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmUoDdd2hIA

 

[JennyNo1]

I LOVE this book!!!


I was reading through with a bunch of girl friends and didn’t realize that my internal dialogue with myself and my insecurities were pretty damn common and also entirely of my own making



Indie I totally need to buy you a copy and we can go through it together

She is a fantastic author! And yes, we all have those nagging voices inside us that tell us we aren't good enough. We need to step back and take a fresh look at ourselves from another perspective. It's about time I reread it.

 

[beachbaby179]

I wonder if I will be able to sleep tonight.

 

[emsway]

I wonder how I got so lucky.

 

[DarkSimian]

Jenny, thank you for this. I hope that's true, I do. It doesn't feel like it right now. It doesn't feel like that at all.



I just added it to my book list.



DS You guys really aren't helping with my watery eyes today. Seriously. Thank you.

You know, indie, if you ever need to talk, I'm just one Skype click away....operators are standing by...

 

[JennyNo1]

Jenny, thank you for this. I hope that's true, I do. It doesn't feel like it right now. It doesn't feel like that at all.

The thing about feelings is, they lie. You have to rely on the things you know are right and true. (Or what we all know is right and true about you!)

 

[LostGirlTink]

Sounds like it’s time to re-up the book club.

 

[AveryElle]

I wonder what's wrong with me that makes it so easy to be thrown away. I wonder if I'm not pretty enough, not sexy enough, not sweet enough, not intelligent enough.

It is entirely a coward that would ever do this to someone - even if unintentional. You are lovely. Anyone that can treat another person this way is a fucking dick

 

[tolyk]

Thank you, sweetheart



Feelings are the worst.

Thank you, Jenny.



I ordered it today and saw that Tink's Book Club was bumped

Yeah, figured I'd lend a hand

 

[AlpineFresco]

You're right. I wish knowing that made it easier to let go.

Love you.

But it might, though. The axe has come down on this one. Any further time given to him is a waste of your time. And you’re simply better than that.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

But it might, though. The axe has come down on this one. Any further time given to him is a waste of your time. And you’re simply better than that.

For once, Alpine is right.

 

[Mei5ter]

Remember. Big girl panties have nice strong elastic.

 

[Mei5ter]

*peeks in*

Did I hear something about indie’s bare ass being exposed??

^^^ perv

 

[AlpineFresco]

^^^ perv

Unrelated, but can we just appreciate that AV and indeed the many memes of Mogg?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Why is she talking like that?

 

[islandjoe2]

I wonder who all this talk about Alts and Alts of Alts is in reference to. Someone want to fill me in?

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I wonder who all this talk about Alts and Alts of Alts is in reference to. Someone want to fill me in?

Got nothin, sorry I’m no help. But I fill you out ... errr, I mean in a few different ways.
Hiya!

 

[islandjoe2]

Got nothin, sorry I’m no help. But I fill you out ... errr, I mean in a few different ways.
Hiya!

Greetings! Well, you were pretty much my last hope for getting this question answered, so if you don't know, I don't know and the interwebs don't know, I guess it shall remain an unanswered question for time and all eternity.

Shit.