It might suprise some of you that I watch Oprah, I've been watching Oprah for years.
Every Tuesday she has Dr.Phil McGraw on, I really like him and what he has to say.
This week it was about couples, when one partner or the other is not interested in sex and they have it very rarely.
One of the women made a very interesting statment.
That it terrified her to think of a life where she had no sexual contact or any hope of sexual contact.
That really stood out, I thought.
And the question I wanted to ask was
why does that terrify you so much?
what is it about that prospect that scares you?
Now, I've never been married or wanted to be what's more.
I've never had a serious girlfriend or any girlfriend for that matter.
I've stated here before that sex is of very little importance to me, however, I remember when I was younger the pain of desire, that yearning for carnal knowledge.
I made it through though.
Long before I fell in love with
drugs, I had accepted the idea that I was not going to be a sexual creature. That really helped me, it took that tremendous burden of lust and desire of my back.
Shrugging off that yolk of want felt damn good.
It reminds of the Seinfeld episode where George becomes smarter as a result of not having sex while Elaine become rather stupid when exposed to the same situation.
So, that's my question: what would the prospect of a life where sexual contact is not possible mean to you?
Would you try to find something to put in place of it? would you became masterbatory junkie?
I await your comments.
Every Tuesday she has Dr.Phil McGraw on, I really like him and what he has to say.
This week it was about couples, when one partner or the other is not interested in sex and they have it very rarely.
One of the women made a very interesting statment.
That it terrified her to think of a life where she had no sexual contact or any hope of sexual contact.
That really stood out, I thought.
And the question I wanted to ask was
why does that terrify you so much?
what is it about that prospect that scares you?
Now, I've never been married or wanted to be what's more.
I've never had a serious girlfriend or any girlfriend for that matter.
I've stated here before that sex is of very little importance to me, however, I remember when I was younger the pain of desire, that yearning for carnal knowledge.
I made it through though.
Long before I fell in love with
drugs, I had accepted the idea that I was not going to be a sexual creature. That really helped me, it took that tremendous burden of lust and desire of my back.
Shrugging off that yolk of want felt damn good.
It reminds of the Seinfeld episode where George becomes smarter as a result of not having sex while Elaine become rather stupid when exposed to the same situation.
So, that's my question: what would the prospect of a life where sexual contact is not possible mean to you?
Would you try to find something to put in place of it? would you became masterbatory junkie?
I await your comments.
