I want to suck a hard cock... Wife is not into it..

Baskin Robbins

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I want to feel a throbing hard cock blow it's load down my throat. My wife is very conservative, Any suggestions? I love to wear her panties and bras. I've offered a strapon that I bought, but she isn't game. I'm in the ATL. I need a hard dick bad!!! I play with myself, but she isn't into it!
 
Hey there sweetie.

Have you considered asking her if she'd be open to you exploring safely without her? Its understandable that she might not be into it (Though i personally think its hot hehe)

I think maybe the biggest thing is to keep being open about how you feel without pressuring her but while still taking care of your needs. Much better to talk it through then to cheat and if you do so enough you might be able to make her comfortable enouygh to allow you some exploration.

Just my thought,

Nik
 
Hey,

I agree with Nik, I think it's totally hot to watch two men together, but, my current man is as straight as they come (he wouldn't even go with me to my ex-g/f's house to watch her and I because her b/f would be there also watching, oh no, not another male in the same room!)

Anyway, have you talked to her and/or asked her permission to explore safely? It is not unusual for women to be uncomfortable with the idea of men having sex with other men, as you said she is very conservative, but, it is possible that she could give her blessing for you to explore this without her present. Unfortunately there isn't much that you can really do to make her less conservative, but do try to have an open and honest conversation with her so that she understands how you feel. Make sure to be sensitive to her feelings and to let her know that this does not in any way diminish your love for her and that there is no threat to your marriage. Just deal with it with kid gloves and be very very reassuring. I wish I could be more help.

Good Luck
 
I'd say the key word is patience. First of all, if she doesn't mind your wearing her panties and bra, she can't be too conservative. At least it means she's open to something that isn't gender-traditional.

You might make progress by trying to explore some of her kinks or fantasies first (and I'm sure she does have some); sometimes if a person who is sexually reticent is enticed to indulge some of her own fantasies safely, and enjoys it, she can begin to see that other things she didn't think she would be interested in might actually be fun. Or at least that, even if she isn't turned on by it, she can help her hubby have a good time and it will be a loving gift.

I can tell you that although I really loved sex before my husband and I were married, I had never indulged in much outside the mainstream. He was very patient and gentle in drawing me beyond my self-imposed boundaries just a little bit at a time. Now, my limits are much, much more expansive.
 
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