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I think that was the shift from hell and I am glad it's over !

i think having all these fragmented concepts are pointless when i don't know what to do with them.

I think those folks that call Delilah for love and advice are the same type of folks that actively seek love and a monogamous relationship here on lit. She has been divorced 3 times. That like me going to Madoff for financial expertise
Sorry for digging this one up, but it's been on my mind.
I think it's possible to have some good friendships here, but I totally agree with the relationship comment.
I think you'd have to be pretty delusional to think you can find/develop a good monogamous relationship from here.
Seriously, if he's chatting and having phone sex with you, you can bet he's doing that with others as well, no matter what he says to the contrary. And vice versa with the ladies.
Isnt that what Lit is about?
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Sorry for digging this one up, but it's been on my mind.
I think it's possible to have some good friendships here, but I totally agree with the relationship comment.
I think you'd have to be pretty delusional to think you can find/develop a good monogamous relationship from here.
Seriously, if he's chatting and having phone sex with you, you can bet he's doing that with others as well, no matter what he says to the contrary. And vice versa with the ladies.
Isnt that what Lit is about?
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I think I agree in the whole but I do personally know some people who have although they would probably agree that they didn't come here looking for that...they're the people who took it into real life...and I use the words real life deliberately...and worked at it just like any other relationship...
I think I really struggle to understand people who describe themselves as being "in a relationship" or the "lover" of someone they've never actually met...never actually kissed, touched, that they don't know how they taste, how they smell, what their skin feels like under their fingertips...don't know if they snore, hog the covers, fart in bed...maybe that is the secret, that you never have to ever see your online lover as entirely human, mediocre, ordinary...I don't know
I'm not saying I'm judging because I try really hard not to, I'm saying I don't understand it...in some ways, I wish someone could explain it to me so I could...in some ways, I admire people who embrace that kind of reality because in all honesty, I think it takes a deeper level of trust and faith in someone to declare that you love them without ever having actually met...after all, how do you ever really know that they are who and what they say they are, and believe me, in my time here, I've seen some absolutely heartbreaking things unfold where realisation that they've been utterly taken in and lied to has come close to destroying people...understanding it wouldn't make me want that kind of relationship...ever, I'm too literal, maybe too unimaginative but maybe to understand it might make it clearer to me...
I, think i should stop biting my tongue

Originally Posted by Minalick View Post
Sorry for digging this one up, but it's been on my mind.
I think it's possible to have some good friendships here, but I totally agree with the relationship comment.
I think you'd have to be pretty delusional to think you can find/develop a good monogamous relationship from here.
Seriously, if he's chatting and having phone sex with you, you can bet he's doing that with others as well, no matter what he says to the contrary. And vice versa with the ladies.
Isnt that what Lit is about?
__________________Originally Posted by Janeyl
I think I agree in the whole but I do personally know some people who have although they would probably agree that they didn't come here looking for that...they're the people who took it into real life...and I use the words real life deliberately...and worked at it just like any other relationship...
I think I really struggle to understand people who describe themselves as being "in a relationship" or the "lover" of someone they've never actually met...never actually kissed, touched, that they don't know how they taste, how they smell, what their skin feels like under their fingertips...don't know if they snore, hog the covers, fart in bed...maybe that is the secret, that you never have to ever see your online lover as entirely human, mediocre, ordinary...I don't know
I'm not saying I'm judging because I try really hard not to, I'm saying I don't understand it...in some ways, I wish someone could explain it to me so I could...in some ways, I admire people who embrace that kind of reality because in all honesty, I think it takes a deeper level of trust and faith in someone to declare that you love them without ever having actually met...after all, how do you ever really know that they are who and what they say they are, and believe me, in my time here, I've seen some absolutely heartbreaking things unfold where realisation that they've been utterly taken in and lied to has come close to destroying people...understanding it wouldn't make me want that kind of relationship...ever, I'm too literal, maybe too unimaginative but maybe to understand it might make it clearer to me...
I think this is an interesting topic and some good points have been raised.
I think that it is entirely a case by case basis. I know some here who have found love and others who thought they had and then were crushed when someone turned out not to be who they said they were.
I think that one must simply be careful on line.
(note the period at the end of that sentence).
I think that there are some wonderful people here though.
I think I'm a little horny today too. (I just threw that in there to lighten the mood, yaknow?)
