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I think music describes me yet again. It's a love and a passion, yet somehow always finds the words for how I feel so perfectly.
 
I get tired of listening to my cousin gripe about her crappy waitress job - the assholes, the horrible tips, the pervs, being on her feet all day, the awful pay and not being able to take off. I Suggest she use her business degree to work in an office and she acts like that would betray everything she stands for, which at one time included a business degree.
 
I think Starbucks coffee is the most god awful, overpriced, skunk-piss tasting swill that you can buy for $4 a cup.
 
I think it's going to be awfully tough to keep my mouth shut at staff meeting tomorrow morning, but I'll do my very best because I know it's pointless to say anything :rolleyes:
 
i think having all these fragmented concepts are pointless when i don't know what to do with them.
 
I think that the idea of skipping out on staff meeting is a good one.

I think my boss would not support this.

I think since post-staff meeting breakfast is cancelled this is the very best idea! :D
 
I think it was a wonderful vacation and that today at work is gonna suck.

I think the WWII Memorial was huge and awe inspiring.

I think the reunion went well and gave me some good vibes.
 
I think those folks that call Delilah for love and advice are the same type of folks that actively seek love and a monogamous relationship here on lit. She has been divorced 3 times. That like me going to Madoff for financial expertise

Sorry for digging this one up, but it's been on my mind.
I think it's possible to have some good friendships here, but I totally agree with the relationship comment.

I think you'd have to be pretty delusional to think you can find/develop a good monogamous relationship from here.

Seriously, if he's chatting and having phone sex with you, you can bet he's doing that with others as well, no matter what he says to the contrary. And vice versa with the ladies.

Isnt that what Lit is about?
:rolleyes:
 
I think it was one of the nicest emails I have received in a very long time

I think I have remarkable staff.
 
Sorry for digging this one up, but it's been on my mind.
I think it's possible to have some good friendships here, but I totally agree with the relationship comment.

I think you'd have to be pretty delusional to think you can find/develop a good monogamous relationship from here.

Seriously, if he's chatting and having phone sex with you, you can bet he's doing that with others as well, no matter what he says to the contrary. And vice versa with the ladies.

Isnt that what Lit is about?
:rolleyes:

I think I agree in the whole but I do personally know some people who have although they would probably agree that they didn't come here looking for that...they're the people who took it into real life...and I use the words real life deliberately...and worked at it just like any other relationship...

I think I really struggle to understand people who describe themselves as being "in a relationship" or the "lover" of someone they've never actually met...never actually kissed, touched, that they don't know how they taste, how they smell, what their skin feels like under their fingertips...don't know if they snore, hog the covers, fart in bed...maybe that is the secret, that you never have to ever see your online lover as entirely human, mediocre, ordinary...I don't know

I'm not saying I'm judging because I try really hard not to, I'm saying I don't understand it...in some ways, I wish someone could explain it to me so I could...in some ways, I admire people who embrace that kind of reality because in all honesty, I think it takes a deeper level of trust and faith in someone to declare that you love them without ever having actually met...after all, how do you ever really know that they are who and what they say they are, and believe me, in my time here, I've seen some absolutely heartbreaking things unfold where realisation that they've been utterly taken in and lied to has come close to destroying people...understanding it wouldn't make me want that kind of relationship...ever, I'm too literal, maybe too unimaginative but maybe to understand it might make it clearer to me...
 
Sorry for digging this one up, but it's been on my mind.
I think it's possible to have some good friendships here, but I totally agree with the relationship comment.

I think you'd have to be pretty delusional to think you can find/develop a good monogamous relationship from here.

Seriously, if he's chatting and having phone sex with you, you can bet he's doing that with others as well, no matter what he says to the contrary. And vice versa with the ladies.

Isnt that what Lit is about?
:rolleyes:

I think I agree in the whole but I do personally know some people who have although they would probably agree that they didn't come here looking for that...they're the people who took it into real life...and I use the words real life deliberately...and worked at it just like any other relationship...

I think I really struggle to understand people who describe themselves as being "in a relationship" or the "lover" of someone they've never actually met...never actually kissed, touched, that they don't know how they taste, how they smell, what their skin feels like under their fingertips...don't know if they snore, hog the covers, fart in bed...maybe that is the secret, that you never have to ever see your online lover as entirely human, mediocre, ordinary...I don't know

I'm not saying I'm judging because I try really hard not to, I'm saying I don't understand it...in some ways, I wish someone could explain it to me so I could...in some ways, I admire people who embrace that kind of reality because in all honesty, I think it takes a deeper level of trust and faith in someone to declare that you love them without ever having actually met...after all, how do you ever really know that they are who and what they say they are, and believe me, in my time here, I've seen some absolutely heartbreaking things unfold where realisation that they've been utterly taken in and lied to has come close to destroying people...understanding it wouldn't make me want that kind of relationship...ever, I'm too literal, maybe too unimaginative but maybe to understand it might make it clearer to me...

I think this is an interesting topic and some good points have been raised.

I think that it is entirely a case by case basis. I know some here who have found love and others who thought they had and then were crushed when someone turned out not to be who they said they were.

I think that one must simply be careful on line.
(note the period at the end of that sentence).

I think that there are some wonderful people here though.

I think I'm a little horny today too. (I just threw that in there to lighten the mood, yaknow?)
 
Originally Posted by Minalick View Post
Sorry for digging this one up, but it's been on my mind.
I think it's possible to have some good friendships here, but I totally agree with the relationship comment.

I think you'd have to be pretty delusional to think you can find/develop a good monogamous relationship from here.

Seriously, if he's chatting and having phone sex with you, you can bet he's doing that with others as well, no matter what he says to the contrary. And vice versa with the ladies.

Isnt that what Lit is about?







Originally Posted by Janeyl
I think I agree in the whole but I do personally know some people who have although they would probably agree that they didn't come here looking for that...they're the people who took it into real life...and I use the words real life deliberately...and worked at it just like any other relationship...

I think I really struggle to understand people who describe themselves as being "in a relationship" or the "lover" of someone they've never actually met...never actually kissed, touched, that they don't know how they taste, how they smell, what their skin feels like under their fingertips...don't know if they snore, hog the covers, fart in bed...maybe that is the secret, that you never have to ever see your online lover as entirely human, mediocre, ordinary...I don't know

I'm not saying I'm judging because I try really hard not to, I'm saying I don't understand it...in some ways, I wish someone could explain it to me so I could...in some ways, I admire people who embrace that kind of reality because in all honesty, I think it takes a deeper level of trust and faith in someone to declare that you love them without ever having actually met...after all, how do you ever really know that they are who and what they say they are, and believe me, in my time here, I've seen some absolutely heartbreaking things unfold where realisation that they've been utterly taken in and lied to has come close to destroying people...understanding it wouldn't make me want that kind of relationship...ever, I'm too literal, maybe too unimaginative but maybe to understand it might make it clearer to me...
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I think this is an interesting topic and some good points have been raised.

I think that it is entirely a case by case basis. I know some here who have found love and others who thought they had and then were crushed when someone turned out not to be who they said they were.

I think that one must simply be careful on line.
(note the period at the end of that sentence).

I think that there are some wonderful people here though.

I think I'm a little horny today too. (I just threw that in there to lighten the mood, yaknow?)


I think as lakesailer has said, there is many interesting points brought up here, and I do think it should be looked at on a case by case basis......

To quote lakesailor......."I know some here who have found love and others who thought they had and then were crushed when someone turned out not to be who they said they were."........I would be lying if I denied I am not one of these people who found myself in love with someone from Lit........after all of the months of Pm's, e-mails.........yahoo chats and phone calls.......building a "relationship".......yes a "relationship"........remember that any contact with another is a relationship of some type......in some way.......but when two find a common thread and you allow those feelings to hold your heart.........surprising things can happen :)......as well as sad and disconcerting.......:(

Given this is a faceless, nameless environment, one must be careful and protective.......but again when emotion and feelings and hunger for a connection are melded together there is always a desire is there not........is it really any different from meeting person in real life......isn't this "real life" with more limitations........a few more dangers......and then again maybe it's an avenue to eliminate the need to be physically attracted from across the pub......or street.......maybe a way to learn about someone and fall in love with their heart.....first.....:heart:

I think the greater issue is not the question "who could possibly fall in love with someone here"........it is the fact that many of us bring the same baggage from our lives and current relationships with us.......coupled with the nameless/faceless world in which on-line sites are........and the predators who run free within them.......the few really good and honest individuals are either grossly misunderstood.......used as a "one night stand"........or deceived by the shallow and self absorbed with no conscience of their actions.......

I frankly understand that I am at times misunderstood.......my actions and words might not appeal to some......but then I look at the arrogant and dishonest behavior of others as despicable as well.....we all bring what we bring......some hold back being closed and reserved........others wear their heart on their sleeve....yet others are here only to make friends......promote their writings.....or play sexually......

I guess in the end all of this verbiage is meaningless.......it is what it is.......this is life here and out in the world.......be genuine and be wise......

I have found friends here that I would say have crossed that line from on-line to real........I care about them and honor them because they are real......
 
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