I Think....

[cowslinger64]

She knows as a mother and previously a wife exactly where I'm at with that... I guess as a woman I feel like getting older time is running out for me.... I the most sexual I've ever been in my life and I don't feel old at all... in fact I was floored when I realized my 25th class reunion is coming up - HTF did that happen??

Not giving up hope... just raising my kids and finding happy a day at a time in different places. Someday it will be about me, right now it is not. That's not a point that's up for debate, it's merely how I firmly feel.

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I immersed myself in raising my kids, healing and moving on after my divorce. Thankfully I got custody of them, I needed to be needed. I think it's good for you to have them, to be able to focus on them, and let the other stuff come when it will. It's amazing how time flies, my 30th is in 2012..I hope I get to go before the world ends, mah woman is gonna dress hot/sexy/classy for me when I go!! in yer face bitches!!!


lol

 

[funluvinaj]

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I immersed myself in raising my kids, healing and moving on after my divorce. Thankfully I got custody of them, I needed to be needed. I think it's good for you to have them, to be able to focus on them, and let the other stuff come when it will. It's amazing how time flies, my 30th is in 2012..I hope I get to go before the world ends, mah woman is gonna dress hot/sexy/classy for me when I go!! in yer face bitches!!!


lol

aha! so you're older than me too!!

and in keeping with the thread... I think that in a board filled with 20 and 30 somethings - it's nice to hear things like this from 40 and 50 somethings....

 

[LaurahW]

Some people equate drama with passion...perhaps you do that?

no, I love passion, I just have no use for drama or romance. I raised two girls, and have had my FILL of drama, and romance is fine in books, but I'm fairly convinced I'm not emotionally geared for it.

 

[cowslinger64]

aha! so you're older than me too!!

and in keeping with the thread... I think that in a board filled with 20 and 30 somethings - it's nice to hear things like this from 40 and 50 somethings....

Yeah...I'm 46...and it doesn't bother me a bit. I'm not a typical guy my age. I'm really just a big kid. I ride sport quads, enjoy kids stuff like rollercoasters, even drove to another state not too long ago to see Metallica. I'm in good shape, don't feel my age and have a smoking hot young gf. So, I feel like I'm just getting started, to be honest. Those youngsters have nothing on me..

 

[funluvinaj]

Yeah...I'm 46...and it doesn't bother me a bit. I'm not a typical guy my age. I'm really just a big kid. I ride sport quads, enjoy kids stuff like rollercoasters, even drove to another state not too long ago to see Metallica. I'm in good shape, don't feel my age and have a smoking hot young gf. So, I feel like I'm just getting started, to be honest. Those youngsters have nothing on me..

love Metallica!

I'm 42 and proud of it... I've done and seen a lot in my years, including my 2 years in Africa and ending up in a refuge camp during an ethnic conflict. There's a lot more to me than AJ... she's just the fun one.

 

[funluvinaj]

no, I love passion, I just have no use for drama or romance. I raised two girls, and have had my FILL of drama, and romance is fine in books, but I'm fairly convinced I'm not emotionally geared for it.

I sooo get that. I am not a hearts n flowers sort of gal... Though I do love to be sung to...

but I love the passion too... and I think I want it all to be about the journey - not the destination - a lot of it is in my head... not my heart. Fucking over making love any day.

 

[cowslinger64]

I sooo get that. I am not a hearts n flowers sort of gal... Though I do love to be sung to...

but I love the passion too... and I think I want it all to be about the journey - not the destination - a lot of it is in my head... not my heart. Fucking over making love any day.

love Metallica!

I'm 42 and proud of it... I've done and seen a lot in my years, including my 2 years in Africa and ending up in a refuge camp during an ethnic conflict. There's a lot more to me than AJ... she's just the fun one.
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I'm sure there is much more to you, and many of us on here. This is a place to come, have fun,and escape. Most of us with depth, find each other and enjoy interacting. There are far too many shallow, vapid, knuckleheads on here and I know I try to avoid them. Theres some on here that swing at everything that moves and it completely cracks me up.

Just a thought on the drama/passion thing. Sometimes we do things that we aren't even aware of. Remember that if you keep ending up doing the same things, the common denominator is you. I find myself in patterns of behavior that I don't see.

There is nothing wrong with the hearts and flowers..I think many women resign themselves to not getting it from men...its more about lazy, clueless men than anything IMO. I know I offer that to my woman. I've sent her flowers, written her poetry...but I also have written steamy hot stories, have melted her panties with my voice, and have the capacity to go from sweet and loving, to ass busting fucking in a moments notice. I know what women want, but I take the time to learn and to know..seems I am an anomaly, and I think it's a shame....those those clueless guys really make me look good. Lol

Don't be afraid to embrace all those "girlee" things and just find a guy that offers to feed that side of you.

 

[mickyp123]

I think i am really really wet today

Em, .........do you know how to tell




I Think i have drunk tooo much tea today

 

[funluvinaj]

love Metallica!

I'm 42 and proud of it... I've done and seen a lot in my years, including my 2 years in Africa and ending up in a refuge camp during an ethnic conflict. There's a lot more to me than AJ... she's just the fun one.
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I'm sure there is much more to you, and many of us on here. This is a place to come, have fun,and escape. Most of us with depth, find each other and enjoy interacting. There are far too many shallow, vapid, knuckleheads on here and I know I try to avoid them. Theres some on here that swing at everything that moves and it completely cracks me up.

Just a thought on the drama/passion thing. Sometimes we do things that we aren't even aware of. Remember that if you keep ending up doing the same things, the common denominator is you. I find myself in patterns of behavior that I don't see.

There is nothing wrong with the hearts and flowers..I think many women resign themselves to not getting it from men...its more about lazy, clueless men than anything IMO. I know I offer that to my woman. I've sent her flowers, written her poetry...but I also have written steamy hot stories, have melted her panties with my voice, and have the capacity to go from sweet and loving, to ass busting fucking in a moments notice. I know what women want, but I take the time to learn and to know..seems I am an anomaly, and I think it's a shame....those those clueless guys really make me look good. Lol

Don't be afraid to embrace all those "girlee" things and just find a guy that offers to feed that side of you.

I'm married to a hearts and flowers guy ... i was the "ass busting fucking" and it's just not going to happen. He's an amazing guy but there's just compatibility issues... he's my best friend, I've really got it pretty damn good compared to some, ya know?

 

[cowslinger64]

I'm married to a hearts and flowers guy ... i was the "ass busting fucking" and it's just not going to happen. He's an amazing guy but there's just compatibility issues... he's my best friend, I've really got it pretty damn good compared to some, ya know?

We have an entire generation of "nice guys" out there. I think many of us fumbled with where we fit in, what was expected, and what was needed from us or even what we needed. We were taught that women are sugar and spice and all that..and many of us never understood how evil a woman can be. I never did till I had my exwife reach up through my colon and tear my heart out my ass. So, we do the nice things, skipping over the fact that even though women love romance, love the little things, love soft, passionate love making....sometimes they want their panties jerked down, being bent over the nearest object, having their hair jerked back...and being fucked like the good little sluts they are for us. Many men don't realize that not only is this acceptable behavior, but it's desired and craved for. It wasn't until I started putting this all together, and learning the power of my mind and my voice, that I started being successful with women.

I place the blame for this at the feet of both genders...men for not knowing, and women for having this incessant need to hide things and not be blunt about what they want and need. That's why i've always had more fun with older women, those in their 40's..they are horny, comfortable with their sexuality, and not afraid of being branded a slut for going after what they need.

I love that they are peaking..the tables turn for men at our age, and the smart ones know it and use it to our advantage...pussy may rule when men are young, but at my age..cock rules and I love it.

 

[LaurahW]

I sooo get that. I am not a hearts n flowers sort of gal... Though I do love to be sung to...

but I love the passion too... and I think I want it all to be about the journey - not the destination - a lot of it is in my head... not my heart. Fucking over making love any day.

abso- fucking- lutely!! I don't need a man, or a woman, to bring me flowers or candy to get my juices flowing, I'd rather have the promise of a good fuck than either.

 

[GoodOmen]

I think I'm going back to bed. Anyone want to join me?

 

[goddessoflove]

I think it is time to leave or I will be late for work

 

[Peaches1990]

I think that'll end in tears. Again

 

[okayterrific]

i think snow sucks. even when it's the light powdery kind that's easy to shovel and get off your car, it still sucks!

 

[Peaches1990]

i think snow sucks. even when it's the light powdery kind that's easy to shovel and get off your car, it still sucks!

I think you're not enjoying it properly

 

[koalabear]

i think snow sucks. even when it's the light powdery kind that's easy to shovel and get off your car, it still sucks!

I think.....as an experienced nekkid snow angel maker I can state, snow does not suck, it causes shrinkage.

 

[Peaches1990]

I think.....as an experienced nekkid snow angel maker I can state, snow does not suck, it causes shrinkage.

I think I want to see you make snow angels.

 

[micia_sira]

I think that doing snow angels nakedly's should lead on more...

 

[koalabear]

I think I want to see you make snow angels.

drop by any time...............even if there is no snow, angel.

 

[koalabear]

I think that doing snow angels nakedly's should lead on more...

lead, it's the ending that counts.......http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn233/koalabear_photo/ththcomeandgetitff.gif

 

[Morrigu]

...........the most interesting journeys are frequently the most unexpected

 

[Cop4u_69]

abso- fucking- lutely!! I don't need a man, or a woman, to bring me flowers or candy to get my juices flowing, I'd rather have the promise of a good fuck than either.

I always make good on that kind of promise

 

[pimpette_f]

I think I could use a great back rub!

 

[Cop4u_69]

I think I could use a great back rub!

I think I have really nice hands