I think my name says it all

[newDom4u]

Hey Ladies. I'm a 31 y/o single male looking to explore my Dominant side. Not really sure what I'm into...Like I said, I'm new. I just know that submissive women are very appealing. Submissive, not to be confused with weak. I'm not into humiliation. I want a confident, strong woman with her own views and opinions that also happens to be submissive. I'm not looking to degrade you or physically abuse you. To me. a man that is physically abusive is weak and compensating for something he is lacking. Does this exist? Age is just a number. PM me if you are interested.

 

[Stella_Omega]

What is it that you want to do-- with, or for, or to-- this strong and independent woman? What do you want her to do, or accept, or react to?

 

[newDom4u]

What is it that you want to do-- with, or for, or to-- this strong and independent woman? What do you want her to do, or accept, or react to?

Hey Stella. That is a great question. I suppose I would want to have sex with her. I'm not just looking for somebody to boss around or fantasize about her doing the dishes. I'm sure I could learn a lot from someone with your experience, and I would appreciate any insight you might have. By the way, I don't believe I ever used the word "independent" when I was describing what I was looking for. Maybe codependent might be a better word. Thanks again for the question. Like I said, I'm new to this, so it's great to have questions that force me to think about what it is I'm looking for.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Hey Stella. That is a great question. I suppose I would want to have sex with her. I'm not just looking for somebody to boss around or fantasize about her doing the dishes. I'm sure I could learn a lot from someone with your experience, and I would appreciate any insight you might have. By the way, I don't believe I ever used the word "independent" when I was describing what I was looking for. Maybe codependent might be a better word. Thanks again for the question. Like I said, I'm new to this, so it's great to have questions that force me to think about what it is I'm looking for.

You want to have sex with her-- How does that make you dominant?

What within you is saying "I MUST HAVE MY NEEDS MET" and what are those needs?

Thing about BDSM is it's more complicated than regular humping, and you really get the best results when you own your shit.

 

[Daxaeha]

I have to admit, it feels weird to see "New Dom..." rather than "Newbie Sub..." on the board.

 

[JMohegan]

Hey Ladies. I'm a 31 y/o single male looking to explore my Dominant side. Not really sure what I'm into...Like I said, I'm new. I just know that submissive women are very appealing. Submissive, not to be confused with weak. I'm not into humiliation. I want a confident, strong woman with her own views and opinions that also happens to be submissive. I'm not looking to degrade you or physically abuse you. To me. a man that is physically abusive is weak and compensating for something he is lacking. Does this exist? Age is just a number. PM me if you are interested.

If you are asking about the existence of strong, confident, women who are (and like to be) sexually deferential, but are not interested in S/m, the answer is yes, of course they exist.

Welcome to the board.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Oy...

 

[NikiCole]

Yeaaaaah, no.

http://forum.literotica.com/forumdisplay.php?f=32 <---- Personals

Have a nice day.

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

Hey Ladies. I'm a 31 y/o single male looking to explore my Dominant side. Not really sure what I'm into...Like I said, I'm new. I just know that submissive women are very appealing. Submissive, not to be confused with weak. I'm not into humiliation. I want a confident, strong woman with her own views and opinions that also happens to be submissive. I'm not looking to degrade you or physically abuse you. To me. a man that is physically abusive is weak and compensating for something he is lacking. Does this exist? Age is just a number. PM me if you are interested.

OK, So your wanting to explore your dominant side. But you dont want to degrade or physically hurt her. You want someone confident and strong. Well, thats all good, but to be dominant are you wanting to be a little rough with her? hair pulling, telling her what you want, little spanking? You can be dominant without beating the crap out of her. Pin her to a wall or bed with her hands over her head. Maybe tie her to the bed, blind fold her and use a feather to torture her til she is begging you to fuck her.

I thought I was more dominant untill recent and im realizing I can go both ways but LOVING being Submissive with my love. He doesnt beat the crap out of me. hair pulling, spanking, biting, pinching alittle. I think he is just realizing he enjoys being Dom.

You said you dont find a Sub woman weak, well I am here to tell you, I for one am not a weak woman! lol

You can be mildly dominant or hardcore. What is it that your wanting to discover????

 

[Primalex]

Hey Ladies. I'm a 31 y/o single male looking to explore my Dominant side. Not really sure what I'm into...Like I said, I'm new. I just know that submissive women are very appealing. Submissive, not to be confused with weak. I'm not into humiliation. I want a confident, strong woman with her own views and opinions that also happens to be submissive. I'm not looking to degrade you or physically abuse you. To me. a man that is physically abusive is weak and compensating for something he is lacking. Does this exist? Age is just a number. PM me if you are interested.

<decrypt>
I want a woman who doesn't say "No" when it's about sex, but when I'm satisfied, she should handle her own shit, so she doesn't bother me with the annoying parts of life.
</decrypt>

 

[lonelycollegegirl]

You guys are harsh gees! Lol.
I'm not looking for a Dom, but if you'd ever like to chat with a semi-experienced sub (not claiming to e an expert) I'd love to talk and help you discover what it really is you're looking for

Good luck in your search!

 

[newDom4u]

You guys are harsh gees! Lol.
I'm not looking for a Dom, but if you'd ever like to chat with a semi-experienced sub (not claiming to e an expert) I'd love to talk and help you discover what it really is you're looking for

Good luck in your search!

Thanks lcg. I have a feeling I'm gonna take you up on that offer.

"Harsh" is not exactly the word I was gonna use. I don't really feel the need to get in a pissing contest with every Alpha male that fancies himself as some kind of amateur psychologist, analyzing my post and telling me how I "really" feel or what it is I'm looking for. Maybe I should have posted - Wanted; Experienced Dom to Mentor a Clueless Newbie....I'm sure that would have been much more well received.

*stepping off of my soapbox* To those of you that welcomed me, thank you.

To the rest of you, if I ever need some DB to "decipher" my thoughts or feelings, I know where to come.

 

[tanish77]

Hey Ladies. I'm a 31 y/o single male looking to explore my Dominant side. Not really sure what I'm into...Like I said, I'm new. I just know that submissive women are very appealing. Submissive, not to be confused with weak. I'm not into humiliation. I want a confident, strong woman with her own views and opinions that also happens to be submissive. I'm not looking to degrade you or physically abuse you. To me. a man that is physically abusive is weak and compensating for something he is lacking. Does this exist? Age is just a number. PM me if you are interested.

Gender: I'm a Female, so stick with the male roles.

Age: I'm 20, so prefer to stay closer to with any age, and never below 18.

Orientation: Bisexual

Power Exchange: I don't know a whole lot about it, but have been told I have a somewhat dominant personality. Always willing to try, but will generally stick with equal power, or somewhere in there.

Race: I'm white, so tend to stick to that.

Bodytype: Check my profile picture at http://princewillwebdesign.com/myphotoweb.htm

Alternate species/fantasy races/furries/mutations: I don't do a whole lot of this, but I can do werewolves and that, but tend to just stick with humans.

Settings: I love medieval and current times. That being said, I am open to really any time as long as it is talked about.

Likes/kinks: Pretty open, but some favorites are anal, oral, BDSM, massages, lots of sexual tension leading to mind-blowing sex, really anything if we talk first.

Hard limits: Any kind of toilet play, rape, non-con, a few others.

Availability: With school starting, times will change a bit, but generally I will be on in the evening. I can usually be reached through PMs and YIM, or email if it is given.

Posting: I can write a lot in a post, or a little, depending on how my partner wants to write the story. I prefer details and developing characters as more than someone who wants sex.