I think I'm boaring

[krustyalice]

I think I'm boaring in bed.
I have a Healthy happy relation ship.
We've been through the stage of fucking like rabbits
(bunny stage)
Which I enjoyed alot I experianced my first orgasim with my current partner (during the bunny stage).
My boyfriend gives amazing head
but..... I feel as though I have almost become accustomed to it as recently I can only cum when he performs this task. Believe me I feel as though it is a task for him. Don't get me wrong he loves giving it, but no guy feels like givin it every time we have a sexual incounter.

Number one: anal is out with both of us.

Number two: I think about threesomes but I dont want to carrie it out at the risk of it been weird afterwards plus hes done it before and didn't fancy it much.

Number three: we are working on getting me some toys (yay!!!!) when we get back from fiji.

But for now i just need some advice on how to spice it up maby suprize him while we are on holiday or something.

 

[blondie74]

After 4 years with my husband, I know exactly what you're talking about! I'm definitely not tired of having sex, but just felt like we could be having a lot better sex, you know spicier. Like you, we'll pass on the anal, and a threesome just isn't an option.

So, I did a little research and found a book called "How to Be a Great Lover: Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques that Will Blow His Mind". I'm not done reading the book yet, but I have to say that what I've read so far is incredible, and it's exactly what I was looking for. I can't wait to finish it and put some of the moves into action.

We've also recently added a lot of new toys to the collection, which definitely adds a little variety!

 

[krustyalice]

Thats cool just looking for some spice he hasn't said he's getting boared with the sex but I sort of feel it at times.

By the way what's the authours name? And where can I get it?

 

[blondie74]

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0767902874/002-2733354-8465668?_encoding=UTF8

I got mine on Amazon. But, if you don't have time to wait for Amazon to deliver, I would guess that you could get it at Border's or Barnes and Nobles.

 

[blondie74]

Sorry, the authors name is Lou Paget

 

[MagicFingers]

My boyfriend gives amazing head
but..... I feel as though I have almost become accustomed to it as recently I can only cum when he performs this task. Believe me I feel as though it is a task for him. Don't get me wrong he loves giving it, but no guy feels like givin it every time we have a sexual incounter.
I DO! I'd love to make you cum every time with my tongue, lips, face, nose, anything. "Givin it?" I'd be GETTING IT!

Number three: we are working on getting me some toys (yay!!!!) when we get back from fiji.
Good idea to use some toys. Try new places or times also. Play with him in the car, or in a resturant. Send him sexy emails if you can, or notes in his lunch.
But for now i just need some advice on how to spice it up maby suprize him while we are on holiday or something.

 

[midwestyankee]

Sorry, the authors name is Lou Paget

Lou Paget is terrific.

She was featured in a segment on HBO's Real Sex once. In it you see her unloading a couple dozen dildos from her dishwasher as she prepares to do a seminar. It's hysterical. Later you see her teaching a group of women how to give head, using the dildos. She has written a no-nonsense book about sexuality for men as well, called How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure that is quite good.

 

[Scarlet Kai]

Wow... thank you so much for that book link blondie74. I put an order in for it already. I've noticed myself getting into a routine and I really don't want to be like that ever. I want my boyfriend to have a great time everytime.

 

[blondie74]

Lou Paget is terrific.

She was featured in a segment on HBO's Real Sex once. In it you see her unloading a couple dozen dildos from her dishwasher as she prepares to do a seminar. It's hysterical. Later you see her teaching a group of women how to give head, using the dildos. She has written a no-nonsense book about sexuality for men as well, called How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure that is quite good.

I wish I had seen that, but I only found about this author about a month ago. She's such a great author, very easy to read, and not at all clinical.

I'm really enjoying the book. I'm on the mind blowing hand job section. My husband was laughing at me making funny faces, I was trying to figure them all out. He volunteered himself as a dummy....isn't he a good sport?

 

[Motu79]

You are turning into a boar when in bed?!?! Oh my God, someone please shoot her before she infects us all! AAAAAAAAGH!!!

 

[krustyalice]

Ha ha ha funny.
Actully I can say my sex life has picked back up over the last few days.