I think i have problems

joe b

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I am a straight (or so i thought) guy and latley i have really wanted to try some strange things. It all started with me wanting to suck a guy off, i mean i REALLY want it in my mouth. I have actually considered going to one of those places with a hole in the wall. I really want to. I also have a fantisy of dressing as a slutty girl completly, make up, wig and all, and being a slave for men. I actually took a thong from my friends sisters room, i wear it when im home alone. i cant belleve myself. One day i was alone, and i wanted to take it in the ass real bad, so i used a vibrator i found in my parents room, i put a condom on it and used it for an hour, i think i have a problem, what should i do????
 
Torreyjs said:
wheres the problem other then stealing other peoples toys?

Buy your own vibrator before mummy catches you with hers. When she catches you your never going to live it down.
 
You don't have a problem, there's nothing wrong with you. This is a real common thing with straight guys and there's always a thread around like this. I'd recommend as the others said getting your own stuff, and a glory hole might not be the best idea. Think about putting an add on a website.

Whatever you decide to do be safe, and don't beat yourself up about being perfectly normal.
 
What they said.

Now don't worry, your feelings aren't weird or sick or any of the things the religious want you to think, it's normal every guy has those thoughts and feelings, not normally like what you describe, but they all do. ;)

What you really should try is watching movies, not gay porn or porn, though those would work, and look at the men. your rezaction to them will tell you where you lay sexually. If you see a hunky guy and your moaning about how you want him to fuck you hard, well basically that makes you a screaming fairy. :nana:

Kidding, but it will tell you how you lay, either you enjoy the thought, enjoy men or only want a man. If you enjoy the thought, tell your girlfriend and buy her a strap on. If you enjoy men, nice, find a boyfriend and a girlfriend or just a girlfriend and tell her you like men to. :cathappy: Now if only want a man, well welcome to straight women world, now get in line there just aren't enough handsome men. :p

Don't worry no matter which way you swing, your parents still love you, though dad may have a problem showing it if you swing that way. :rolleyes:

Also, if you want to actually have it happen, do personal ads in the men looking for men section, be careful with who you choose bring condoms and hope he's not a psycho or anything.
 
emap said:
What they said.
...every guy has those thoughts and feelings, not normally like what you describe, but they all do. ;)...

Thats bullshit! I've never had sexual feelings for a man. Your obviously one of those people that think "all men have a bit of bi in them" but your wrong.
 
human_male said:
You don't have a problem, there's nothing wrong with you. This is a real common thing with straight guys and there's always a thread around like this. I'd recommend as the others said getting your own stuff, and a glory hole might not be the best idea. Think about putting an add on a website.

Whatever you decide to do be safe, and don't beat yourself up about being perfectly normal.

What human_male said.......
 
Retrieval said:
Thats bullshit! I've never had sexual feelings for a man. Your obviously one of those people that think "all men have a bit of bi in them" but your wrong.

If that's so, then why are you
1.making such a big deal out of it? If it dosen't apply to you then who cares.
2.Browsing the GLBT forums in the first place?
3.Posting to a thread about a guy who's Bi?

Just a thought.
 
Retrieval said:
Thats bullshit! I've never had sexual feelings for a man. Your obviously one of those people that think "all men have a bit of bi in them" but your wrong.
All this time I thought you were female. Must have been the av.

Anyway, regarding what you said...bwahaha.

I agree with Flamebird.
 
Flamebird said:
If that's so, then why are you
1.making such a big deal out of it? If it dosen't apply to you then who cares.
2.Browsing the GLBT forums in the first place?
3.Posting to a thread about a guy who's Bi?

Just a thought.

1.I'm not making such a big deal out of it. Correcting somebody is far from making a big deal out of something.
2.I wasn't browsing the GLBT forums, this thread turned up in the 'new posts' function.
3.Why shouldn't I post to thread about a guy that's Bi? I can post anywhere I want I dont need a reason.
 
Etoile said:
All this time I thought you were female. Must have been the av.

Anyway, regarding what you said...bwahaha.

I agree with Flamebird.

"Regarding what I said...bwahaha"?
By this statement I take it that you also think everyman is Bi. Why would you think that, is it because your a dyke?
 
You have the same problem as a vegetarian who desperately wants a cheeseburger and is still saying that tofu is yummy.
 
There's nothing wrong with that. My husband likes for me to use a vibrator on him, he loves it and he has better orgasms. He is straight, but likes the kinky things too. He says he's not interested in a man doing it, but I wonder sometimes if he would like it. I don't know.
 
Etoile said:
All this time I thought you were female. Must have been the av.

Anyway, regarding what you said...bwahaha.

I agree with Flamebird.

I've always thought of you as enlightened and progressive. This statement is rather surprising to me considering my above statement. While I don't care to debate the Kinseyian scale, I find it "bwahaha"able that you would agree with Flamebird's statements.
 
joe b said:
I am a straight (or so i thought) guy and latley i have really wanted to try some strange things. It all started with me wanting to suck a guy off, i mean i REALLY want it in my mouth. I have actually considered going to one of those places with a hole in the wall. I really want to. I also have a fantisy of dressing as a slutty girl completly, make up, wig and all, and being a slave for men. I actually took a thong from my friends sisters room, i wear it when im home alone. i cant belleve myself. One day i was alone, and i wanted to take it in the ass real bad, so i used a vibrator i found in my parents room, i put a condom on it and used it for an hour, i think i have a problem, what should i do????
Problem? Ok, so maybe you're not straight or whatever.

More important, believe in yourself and do all those things you mentioned and
HAVE FUN! That's what's it's all about. Something many of us have forgotten to do...


:cool:
 
My husband likes a vibrator up the ass occasionally, also. Guys who dress up like girls are a major turnon for me. It doesn't mean you have to do it all the time. Maybe you are just turned on by it.
 
Actually, in the past when I have seen a guy dressed as a girl, it makes me want to fuck him up the ass or make him suck my dick (if I had a strap-on or something). That would be wild.
 
sister76 said:
Actually, in the past when I have seen a guy dressed as a girl, it makes me want to fuck him up the ass or make him suck my dick (if I had a strap-on or something). That would be wild.

Wow I would love to be your friend . ;)
 
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