I say! Where did you get that fetish?

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I think most of the literature on kink and fetish agrees that most people's kinks have some basis in an event in their past lives. I think that other stuff can also come into play.

So, what is your kink and where do you think you got it?

 

[actorsub]

I have a strong leaning towards food fetish and have an extremely submissive nature ( just discovered my sub side, since I'm still a virgin at the age of 23)

I also crave to expose myself

As a total, I could get submissiveness, exposing nature and having a strong food fetish from working as a hooker or striper in a restaurant in my past life ( even in this life I'm male)

 

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I have a strong leaning towards food fetish and have an extremely submissive nature ( just discovered my sub side, since I'm still a virgin at the age of 23)

I also crave to expose myself

As a total, I could get submissiveness, exposing nature and having a strong food fetish from working as a hooker or striper in a restaurant in my past life ( even in this life I'm male)

you were a stripper in a restaurant in a past life?

 

[actorsub]

you were a stripper in a restaurant in a past life?

Or anywhere where they serve food do u have any guesses based in my qualities ?

 

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Or anywhere where they serve food do u have any guesses based in my qualities ?

my guess is you were abused as a kid and developed an eating disorder to cope and regain some control in your life. As you got older it translated into a food fetish because like many people, you equate food and sex so become orally fixated.

but like I said, just a guess.

 

[actorsub]

my guess is you were abused as a kid and developed an eating disorder to cope and regain some control in your life. As you got older it translated into a food fetish because like many people, you equate food and sex so become orally fixated.

but like I said, just a guess.

Not a bad guesss actually, what about my submissive and exposing side???

 

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Not a bad guesss actually, what about my submissive and exposing side???

submissives often have a background in being either emotionally or sexually abused as children. Not always, but often.

you fantasise about exposing because your sexuality is repressed. you want to bring it to the fore but you are unable to.

and you haven't got the gist of this thread.

you are supposed to be saying what your fetish is and saying where it came from. not getting me to analyse where it might have come from.

 

[actorsub]

submissives often have a background in being either emotionally or sexually abused as children. Not always, but often.

you fantasise about exposing because your sexuality is repressed. you want to bring it to the fore but you are unable to.

and you haven't got the gist of this thread.

you are supposed to be saying what your fetish is and saying where it came from. not getting me to analyse where it might have come from.

I appreciate your analysis and sorry for wasting your time

 

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I appreciate your analysis and sorry for wasting your time

no need to apologise and you are welcome

 

[actorsub]

no need to apologise and you are welcome

What's your fetish and coming from ?????

 

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What's your fetish and coming from ?????

One fetish is really big tall men.

I think it was from when a family friend man-handled me as a kid.

 

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My fetish is nylons, lycra, satin and lace. That comes from the relationship I had with my mother. I remember her doing things with me dressed in her lingerie. We had a special relationship clear up to the time I married. When she told people she loved her son, she really meant it.


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do you like to wear them or is it seeing wo/men wearing them? were you in her lingerie or do you mean she wore lingerie when she did stuff to you?

I recall reading somewhere that most hosiery fetish comes from one's mother and as a result younger men are now more attracted to tights/pantyhose because that's what their mums wear nowadays.

 

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[Reshbod]

No idea. I think I was in my 20s when I started noticing pregnant women. I never wanted kids of my own or to get married, but there I was on pregnant newsgroups downloading pic after pic.

There is just something about them that heats me up.

 

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No idea. I think I was in my 20s when I started noticing pregnant women. I never wanted kids of my own or to get married, but there I was on pregnant newsgroups downloading pic after pic.

There is just something about them that heats me up.

luscious heavy but firm boobs? rounded contours?

here's one for you.

 

[Sonchyenne]

I think that my interest in being a tickling top came from the literal games of slap and tickle I used to play with my girlfriends when I was a kid.

I think that my dominant streak was mainly inspired by a recurring Electric Company skit where Rita Moreno played a director named Otto and Morgan Freeman played a cue-card assistant named Marcello. Whenever Otto would want to stress the crucial word, she'd beat on the cue card -- and thus the crying Marcello's fingers -- with her riding crop.

Just a guess, though.

 

[Reshbod]

luscious heavy but firm boobs? rounded contours?

here's one for you.

Yes and yes. But there is also something more to it, which I can't describe. Nice pic, thanks.

 

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I think that my interest in being a tickling top came from the literal games of slap and tickle I used to play with my girlfriends when I was a kid.

I think that my dominant streak was mainly inspired by a recurring Electric Company skit where Rita Moreno played a director named Otto and Morgan Freeman played a cue-card assistant named Marcello. Whenever Otto would want to stress the crucial word, she'd beat on the cue card -- and thus the crying Marcello's fingers -- with her riding crop.

Just a guess, though.

see I hate being tickled. it's almost a hard limit for me, no kidding. but then combined with slap... hmmmmm.

Yes and yes. Nice pic, thanks.

you are welcome!

 

[DarkBee]

I like a lot of things, and most of them quite extreme, same as my music taste: I went from one end of the spectrum (hardcore techno, terror & speedcore) to the other end (death metal). Also, I like to learn a lot, so I go search for different fetishes a lot; my latest is older women trying on lingerie (girdles, stockings, etc.); type in 'girdle' in Xvids and you'll see.
What I really don't care about is hetero porn, it's gotta be lesbian, gay or shemale only.

 

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I like a lot of things, and most of them quite extreme, same as my music taste: I went from one end of the spectrum (hardcore techno, terror & speedcore) to the other end (death metal). Also, I like to learn a lot, so I go search for different fetishes a lot; my latest is older women trying on lingerie (girdles, stockings, etc.); type in 'girdle' in Xvids and you'll see.
What I really don't care about is hetero porn, it's gotta be lesbian, gay or shemale only.

why? what got you into that? why does it turn you on?

 

[Sonchyenne]

see I hate being tickled. it's almost a hard limit for me, no kidding. but then combined with slap... hmmmmm.

Oh, I detest being tickled, which is why I identify as a tickle top.

 

[sunandshadow]

I think a lot of the things I like are based in fantasy imagery. I mean the fantasy genre of novels and movies. Men with long hair, men in corsets/leather breastplates/ruffly shirts/velvet robes, men with wings, animal ears, tails, the ability to shapeshift, the ability to do magic... Since I was a child I found that kind of world much more interesting than the real world, I always wanted to go to some kind of fantasy world and live there instead. So to me a man who looks like part of that world is intensely interesting because maybe he could take me there; if not permanently or for real, at least as a temporary fantasy.


(As far as tickling goes, it always pisses me off if someone tickles me but won't allow themselves to be tickled in return. I like to tickle people because I get to see them smile and hear them laugh, and it's one of the only ways I can accomplish that since I'm crap at telling jokes.)

 

[taborgirl]

My fetish is arousal. I know. I know. Please don't tell me that the definition of fetish is something that arouses. I know that. Not that I don't love sex itself, but I go to extremes to get aroused. Unfortuantely I'm beginning to need more and more to get to that state of arousal. When it slips, I get depressed. Like I am now. My cell contract was up this month and I let it go, which is a problem because sexting my fiance-and someone else what I said and how he responded-was really working for me.

Now I'm sort of hovering waiting to be added to my fiance's plan. Hopefully sometime this week. If not, I may have some kind of breakdown. Seriously.

After rereading my first paragraph maybe my fetish is arousing desire in others. No, I'm sticking with my own arousal.

I also have spanking, choking, and hair pulling fetishes; but those may come from my being submissive.