I need your help

[Scandichck]

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[Learn Humility]

That's a toughie. "Natural" Dominants seem to know what to do naturally.

Surely, you must have talked to him about his particular areas of interest?

 

[Scandichck]

Oh I know what to do, but we have been talking a lot about our fantasies and what I would want to do to him.
I just wanted some new input to see if I could surprise him with something new.
And surely there must be some of you willing to share some of your own little secrets you love to surprise your subs with??

This man is a man who loves beeing humiliated and treated like an underdog.

 

[pandoravampire]

Go to any of the domme sights, they will have loads of ideas for you to steal. They are in the library.

You could purchase some clothing for the event for yourself to help you get in 'role'. My first scene, i used a nurses uniform, even vanilla's can go for this, didnt seem to threatening, and the levels of authority can vary from firm maternal, to Nurse Fucking Ratchett! Then 'prepped him for his operation' aka shaved his genitalia-da na! exposed and awfully vulnerable.
Get him naked whilst you remain clothed helps with tipping the power balance i find.

Do let us know how it went. For me, its a confidence thing. If im not in the right head space, i cant pull it off. So any time i spend in getting stuff ready, and i do tend to stretch this part out coz it helps immensly and im a pervert like that, well, its like a investment.
And like most things, i get out what i put in. In more way than one of course.

 

[Netzach]

Date with lowly fuck-slut animal toy, example A.

Do you smoke? Go to a bar. Make his drink an ash tray.

Make him buy you another. Tell him he has to carry his bills in his mouth when he gets change and give them back to you.

Make him open your door and kneel beside it in the parking lot till you're in.

Get him worked up, then make him get you off or better yet hold the vibrator then kick him out of your place preferably with the vibrator in hand.

Make him eat/drink out of animal dishes or off human dishes on the ground.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Date with lowly fuck-slut animal toy, example A.

Do you smoke? Go to a bar. Make his drink an ash tray.

Make him buy you another. Tell him he has to carry his bills in his mouth when he gets change and give them back to you.

Make him open your door and kneel beside it in the parking lot till you're in.

Get him worked up, then make him get you off or better yet hold the vibrator then kick him out of your place preferably with the vibrator in hand.

Make him eat/drink out of animal dishes or off human dishes on the ground.

Weird how we think along same humiliation lines.

 

[MissTaken]

Be sure to report back!

 

[Scandichck]

Be sure to report back!

This is an old thread.. It's funny to think back on this last year and see how far my little slave and I have come. We have been trough so much, tried new things and streched both our limits.
We entered this kind of relationship with very little experience and discovered a little corner of heaven where we can act out our fantasies and be true to ourselves.
The most surprising thing for the both of us is the fact that, in our case, it grew to a powerful and intense relationship filled with love and respect.
At first we were just going to "play", but in time we both realized that the fysical dominance, the scenary, the "gadgets" and outfits were superficial.. Fun, but never the less superficial. The psychological dominance, the love and trust we share goes much deeper, and he has given himself to me unconditionally.
I now see that I was wrong to think that I could be submissive. It never felt comfortable..
Now I know who I am, and I feel that I have finally found my place..

 

[FurryFury]

This is an old thread.. It's funny to think back on this last year and see how far my little slave and I have come. We have been trough so much, tried new things and streched both our limits.
We entered this kind of relationship with very little experience and discovered a little corner of heaven where we can act out our fantasies and be true to ourselves.
The most surprising thing for the both of us is the fact that, in our case, it grew to a powerful and intense relationship filled with love and respect.
At first we were just going to "play", but in time we both realized that the fysical dominance, the scenary, the "gadgets" and outfits were superficial.. Fun, but never the less superficial. The psychological dominance, the love and trust we share goes much deeper, and he has given himself to me unconditionally.
I now see that I was wrong to think that I could be submissive. It never felt comfortable..
Now I know who I am, and I feel that I have finally found my place..

That sounds really wonderful for you both!

Congrats!

Feel free to share more details of your journey with us.

Fury

 

[Netzach]

This is an old thread.. It's funny to think back on this last year and see how far my little slave and I have come. We have been trough so much, tried new things and streched both our limits.
We entered this kind of relationship with very little experience and discovered a little corner of heaven where we can act out our fantasies and be true to ourselves.
The most surprising thing for the both of us is the fact that, in our case, it grew to a powerful and intense relationship filled with love and respect.
At first we were just going to "play", but in time we both realized that the fysical dominance, the scenary, the "gadgets" and outfits were superficial.. Fun, but never the less superficial. The psychological dominance, the love and trust we share goes much deeper, and he has given himself to me unconditionally.
I now see that I was wrong to think that I could be submissive. It never felt comfortable..
Now I know who I am, and I feel that I have finally found my place..

Rock on! It's addictive for some of us.

 

[Private_Label]

This is an old thread.. It's funny to think back on this last year and see how far my little slave and I have come.
...
The psychological dominance, the love and trust we share goes much deeper, and he has given himself to me unconditionally.
I now see that I was wrong to think that I could be submissive. It never felt comfortable..
Now I know who I am, and I feel that I have finally found my place..

I'm glad you have both found the happiness your relationship provides.