I need some spice!

[cassiskitten]

My boyfriend and I have recently hit a bump in our relationship, and to make it up to him I want to do something really special. I'm not the creative type, and to be honest he doesn't know what he wants. I need some suggestions to spice things up!
Thanks

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

My boyfriend and I have recently hit a bump in our relationship, and to make it up to him I want to do something really special. I'm not the creative type, and to be honest he doesn't know what he wants. I need some suggestions to spice things up!
Thanks

*handing you candles, lace, melted chocolate, whipped cream, a blindfold, rainCD, lotion, and lots of time* Go forth with your luvin

 

[cassiskitten]

thanks for the suggestion!!

 

[jadefirefly]

Don't forget the handcuffs, fuzzy or otherwise!

Course, I'm biased....

 

[Eilan]

Apologies in advance for the mini hijack. . .

When I saw the title of this thread, I thought of the cheap ass spices thread!

[/hijack]

But seriously,

Is this merely a sexual bump, or are there deeper relationship issues?

Perhaps there's also something you could do outside the bedroom to make things up to him?

 

[TBKahuna123]

OK you want to do something for a guy that he's never thought of? Give him a bath. Something bubbly and fragrancy, just not flowery. This is something we'd never do on our own, but I tell ya guys love to be pampered, we just don't know it. Plus any chance for your woman to put her hands all over you is a plus.

 

[PhxPlay4n6]

Don't forget the handcuffs, fuzzy or otherwise!

Course, I'm biased....

Oh really, you say you're biased? I don't see a problem with that...

 

[Eilan]

OK you want to do something for a guy that he's never thought of? Give him a bath. Something bubbly and fragrancy, just not flowery. This is something we'd never do on our own, but I tell ya guys love to be pampered, we just don't know it. Plus any chance for your woman to put her hands all over you is a plus.

Vanilla bubble bath is good.

This is a good suggestion. If you have (or can get access to) a big jacuzzi-style tub that you can use together, it's a wonderful way to get in some quality time.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Vanilla bubble bath is good.

This is a good suggestion. If you have (or can get access to) a big jacuzzi-style tub that you can use together, it's a wonderful way to get in some quality time.

WARNING! DO NOT USE BUBBLE BATH IN A JACUZZI TUB!!!!

Actually go ahead but be prepared for the mess. You'd be amazed at how fact you can fill a room with bubble bath suds when you turn on the jets. On the other hand, if you've never screwed around completely engulfed in foam, it's a hoot!

 

[fa18]

OK you want to do something for a guy that he's never thought of? Give him a bath. Something bubbly and fragrancy, just not flowery. This is something we'd never do on our own, but I tell ya guys love to be pampered, we just don't know it. Plus any chance for your woman to put her hands all over you is a plus.

Dont you feel Like a little boy who needs mummy to help you?? as that is how I would feel ... I guess I am not use to being babied to many years in the army

 

[jadefirefly]

WARNING! DO NOT USE BUBBLE BATH IN A JACUZZI TUB!!!!

Actually go ahead but be prepared for the mess. You'd be amazed at how fact you can fill a room with bubble bath suds when you turn on the jets. On the other hand, if you've never screwed around completely engulfed in foam, it's a hoot!

Now THAT sounds like fun!!!

 

[Chicklet]

My boyfriend and I have recently hit a bump in our relationship, and to make it up to him I want to do something really special. I'm not the creative type, and to be honest he doesn't know what he wants. I need some suggestions to spice things up!
Thanks

Maybe find a place locally that rents out private hot-tubs by the hour and get some fun going on there? (assuming you don't have one of your own, and you know what they say about assuming...)

 

[naughtygirl69s]

Dont you feel Like a little boy who needs mummy to help you??

ENTIRE fantasies are based on this!

 

[SweetErika]

Have you gone through the "Spice Things Up" (and other) section of The Blank Manual . There's a wealth of ideas and information in there.

 

[Eilan]

WARNING! DO NOT USE BUBBLE BATH IN A JACUZZI TUB!!!!

You can. If you're careful. We usually have some baby/body oil handy. It kills most of the bubbles.

Now the people that house-sat for my hubby and his ex--they ended up dumping the bubbles in the shower stall.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Dont you feel Like a little boy who needs mummy to help you?? as that is how I would feel ... I guess I am not use to being babied to many years in the army

Depends on the woman's attitude. For centuries Japanese women bathed and groomed their samurai husbands, just as they helped them dress for battle. There's nothing babying about being bathed or groomed by a lover. It is in fact an extremely sensual process, if it is meant that way.

Now if your lover does it in a babying way, sure that might make you feel like a little boy, but that's a whole different fetish.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Now THAT sounds like fun!!!

My wife did this for my 21st birthday. It wasn't supposed to wind up with a bathroom full of foam, but that's what happened. I will never forget it, it was a blast!

 

[Kinksville]

Something else you might try along the pampering line

Give him a sensual massage with fragrant oils. Start him lying down on his stomach, make him get naked, and take your time. You can be naked, or down to just panties, make sure the room is nice and warm and tell him that he's not allowed to touch until the massage is over.

Then just spend your time touching and relaxing him, and eventually, roll him over, massage his chest, his stomach, his arms, his upper thighs, not touching his now probably rock hard cock.

And then after he's both relaxed and quiveringly erect give him the best blow job you've ever given