I need some help from the women

[Guest]

This is going to be embarrassing, but stay with me. My girlfriend is a virgin, and has decided that she wants me to be her first. We've been dating for three months and have been pretty frisky, but have never "done the deed".

My question is how do I make this special for her? How do I lessen the pain she is going to experience. I just want this to be enjoyable for her, since she has decided that I somehow qualify as a good enough man to take this step with.

 

[Always]

okay... if she says something hurts, you stop and be more gentle. if you aren't sure, lean down and whisper soemthing in her ear, like, This is great... what do you think? (maybe after.) be gentle and if she has an orgasm, carefully keep going. don't hurt her or she'll unconsciously hate you.

sorry if i sound like an old fuddyduddy, but hey...

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

Be gentle, caring, understanding, and make her feel like she is the only one that matters.

 

[Silverlily]

Make sure she's, well, wet, either through oral foreplay or something like KY. Her being on top may also be more comfortable at first, you can help by gently holding her hips and pushing upward.

The key is to be gentle and patient. I think it's very cool you're concerned for her comfort, good luck.

Don't feel bad about being embarassed, it's my first time giving sex advice, I was embarassed too! (grin)

 

[Guest]

Thank you so much for the advice, ladies. I was just a little worried about this, this is a daunting task, and I'm not that experienced either, only three other women before her.

Oh, and she is the only one that matters.

 

[Evesdemise]

The gift you can't give back--or get back...

Plying her with huge amounts of alcohol would work too. It worked with me.