I need some advive...

[phelon]

he wants to spend the rest of his life with me so sex just isn't as important to him. .

Have you tried countering with anything like.... Sex is an important part of a relationship to you, and so if he does want to spend his life with you, you need to work out this issue?

 

[gentelman324]

looks like he just wants a fuck buddy

uhh, they're not having sex