I need some advice...

[BiBabe:)]

I just got off the phone with my boyfriend and he suggested somthing that, a minute ago I thought would be great, but now, I'm not sure if I'd actually like it. He said he'd like to try double penetration. Now, I love anal, and I love missionary, but both at the same time? I don't know. I told him that I'd think about it, but I'm not sure. Has anyone here been involved in double penetration? If so, did you enjoy it, or was it an experience you'd rather forget. I don't want to do anything that would change my feelings toward my boyfriend, and a terrible experience would make it difficult for it to be the same as it used to be. Please give advice.

Until later,

Stacie

 

[fgarvb1]

Say what ?..Or Who ??

Unless his name is double dong you need to explain more.!

 

[*bratcat*]

Re: Say what ?..Or Who ??

 

[KillerMuffin]

The experience would depend entirely on the people involved in it. If they are solicitious and gentle with you, taking their time to get you fully aroused before penetrating you, then it can be a wonderful, mind-bogglingly orgasmic experience. However, if they don't take the time to get you ready first, then it can turn ugly pretty fast. Particularly if anxious bellows of "take it out!" are mistaken for "go faster!" You should also be very comfortable with anal sex and both partners you choose for the event. One thing you can also do to "prep" for the festivities is to purchase a slim dildo/vibrator/carrot/whatever and double penetrate that way. Just be very careful that the artificial object has a base wide enough to deter full and unrecoverable entry. Such things are difficult to explain in the ER a few days later.

 

[BiBabe:)]

Well, I guess what I said could be kind of confusing. Obviously he wants to bring another man into the relationship. Probably one of his friends or something. Now, any more advice?

 

[Problem Child]

I've got $2.38 on my desk...

that says within 2 more posts some guy will be volunteering his services.

 

[Countess DeWinter]

However, with caring partners...I can assure you that if you like anal, it will be an experience you will never forget and you may become addicted!

 

[BiBabe:)]

Yeah, PC, you're probably right. But I was hoping for advice, so the offerers, please resist yourselves.

 

[KillerMuffin]

I must be a liverwurst and limburger muffin today or something. *sigh*

AAAAAAARGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Get some ben-wa balls, a cheese grater, and some worcestshire sauche.

 

[SteamyChik]

I guess I would be asking why my boyfriend wants to share me with some other guy? On the flip side, I have a friend that tried this and she loved it. Said it was the most incredible full feeling being stuffed both places. I think you need to go with your gut feelings, if you are unsure about it - don't do it.

 

[Cheri]

I think you rock, KM! But I might go for a bit of sharp cheddar on my muffin.

 

[GuyJD]

SPEAKING IN A GUY'S POINT OF VIEW

Simply tell him that you'll go for it only if he does it too. Let's see how he would enjoy being double penetrated.

 

[BiBabe:)]

You know, steamychik, the way you describe it, maybe I should try it.... I will. But I gotta find the right guy for my boyfriend to share me with. As for you muffin, I'm not even sure what to say to you...

To all that helped, thanks for the advice.

Until Later,

Stacie

 

[Starfish]

Killer, I thought you made excellent points, so no, you arn't stinky cheese, but I lol.


If adding in another lover is too weird for you, you don't need another guy to try double penetration. Try your man in your rear, while your on your back, lower extreamities raised, and have him use a dong in your vagina....Hell, throw in a clit massager and I promise you you'll go through the roof!!!
I am particularly fond of this, and we never have to change our relationship standards...Plus if you don't like it, you don't have to worry about a third party and weird feelings!!

 

[BiBabe:)]

GuyJD, I'd agree, but I don't go for that gay stuff. It doesn't get me going, and after seeing my boyfriend with another guy, I could never let him fuck me.

GR, that's a great idea, I never thought of that. Maybe I'll try that first, before anyone else gets involved.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Yay! I'm not invisible or malodorous after all!

You could also bring in a girlfriend with a strap on...?

I had my first dp experience in the bed of my truck while one of the guys was tied to my infamous rollbar. It didn't work very well. We later tried again in a bed, it worked much much better that way. I would suggest you refrain from exotic locales for this. Unlike you, I do have a thing for bi men and that's what they were.

 

[Starfish]

Oh yeah... The "No Exotic Locals" rule is a must for first timers!

I want Monteray Jack on my KM, very creamy!

 

[BiBabe:)]

Oh, crap, KM, I completely ignored your first post. I'm sorry. I didn't even see it, I kept posting like two seconds after people posted, and then had to change my posts around, and I didn't even notice your first post. Sorry, again. As for what you said originally, I know my boyfriend is kind and gentle, as for any other person involved, I can't be sure. I'll probably try it with my man fucking my ass and a dildo in my pussy, and take it from there.

As for the "no exotic locales", may I ask why? I always have sex in a bed, or a couch, or something like that, but why no "exotic locales"?

 

[Starfish]

Neurological overload, that's why....way to much going on!