" I Love You And I Don't Care If You're Bi"

[Samuelx]

Hi, there. Remember me ? The young bisexual Black man with issues ? I ran into a lady I used to love. She was really glad to see me. I was polite to her but didn't really feel like talking to her. She's beautiful and all that but not my kind of person. Not anymore. She was a tomboy whom I liked but I discovered a side to her that I really dont care for. A dark side, if you will. She said she wanted to talk and insisted. I eventually gave in. We went to a small restaurant. She paid for everything.
She says that she wants to give "us" another chance. She also said : "I now realize that I love you and I don't care if you're bi."


I feel weird about this. This woman disappointed me and caused me great anguish not long ago. She just couldn't accept that I was bi even though I promised to be faithful to her. Now she wants to waltz back into my life ? Why ? I don't trust her and I smell a trap.

What do you think ?

 

[Erik001]

Keep in mind that I tend to be one who's overly romantic at times, and that tends to color my advice.

With that said.. well, I'd go for it if I were you. You know what you're getting into, and the worst that could happen is it ends up the same way it did last time. But if she really has changed, and can accept it and loves you.. well.. heck, it could end a lot better, or maybe never end at all. Sometimes you gotta take a big chance to get something really good.

 

[KittyGenovese]

Nooooo! Run!! Go with your gut. You don't trust her, and there is a reason for that. We are built for self-protection. I wouldn't do it!

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

Sorry, but the 'trap' thing sounds a bit ridiculous to me.
What kind of trap would she set up?
If it wasn't too long ago that she hurt your feelings, then she must have talked about your confession with a friend of hers and maybe changed her mind.
Though I think that "I love you and don't care if you're bi" is a bit too BIG a deal.What's with the 'I love you' stuff.Did she apologise or anything?She said that she was sorry to hurt you?Did you even have anything strong enough for her to be saying 'I love you'?

I'm romantic too, but always have some caution.It may not be a trap, but it may as well be her selfish intention to continue something because she felt guilt.Guilt is good sometimes, but saying 'I love you' because of guilt is never good.I know this, believe me..

 

[misspatiant]

Hi, there. Remember me ? The young bisexual Black man with issues ? I ran into a lady I used to love. She was really glad to see me. I was polite to her but didn't really feel like talking to her. She's beautiful and all that but not my kind of person. Not anymore. She was a tomboy whom I liked but I discovered a side to her that I really dont care for. A dark side, if you will. She said she wanted to talk and insisted. I eventually gave in. We went to a small restaurant. She paid for everything.
She says that she wants to give "us" another chance. She also said : "I now realize that I love you and I don't care if you're bi."


I feel weird about this. This woman disappointed me and caused me great anguish not long ago. She just couldn't accept that I was bi even though I promised to be faithful to her. Now she wants to waltz back into my life ? Why ? I don't trust her and I smell a trap.

What do you think ?

Hey u know everyone deserves a second chance - mostly anyway! Why not just see how it goes. Good Luck