I like bi sex, not foreplay

[sexplorer35]

Maybe I need a pshrink, but this is cheaper. I really enjoy sex with other men, particularly making them cum. I like giving and getting oral, I like being fucked, but I have no interest at all in foreplay, kissing, cuddling, etc. With women, I really enjoy the foreplay etc as well as the sex, but as for men, they can just cum and go for all I care. Am I just a slutty freak for men, or what?

 

[atic]

Maybe I need a pshrink, but this is cheaper. I really enjoy sex with other men, particularly making them cum. I like giving and getting oral, I like being fucked, but I have no interest at all in foreplay, kissing, cuddling, etc. With women, I really enjoy the foreplay etc as well as the sex, but as for men, they can just cum and go for all I care. Am I just a slutty freak for men, or what?

You like the cock, but not the man. It's not that unusual, so just enjoy what you enjoy...*grin*

 

[OlderBiMan]

A lot of bisexual guys have that attitude with their male lovers. Someday you might find yourself caring for a man and even being in love with him. You won't mind being tender. I didn't think it would happen to me. Originally, I had sex with men and I made love with women. Since my wife is gone, I made love with men and I had sex with women. It just happens. There IS a difference.

 

[SLOBOY3000]

Feel your pain...

I feel exactly the same way...although some rough kissing is cool with me...with men is strictly sexual...no confusion..i can use and be used...mmmmmm. With women there is a much greater intimacy...vulnerability.

 

[Samuelx]

I actually do care for my guys. I care for my girls too, although some of them I wish I hadn't cared for them, it would have made things much easier. I treat both sexes the same way. If I'm gonna be mean and rude, guys AND girls will feel my WRATH. It's the same thing in bed. Some bi guys are rough with their male lovers but gentle with their female lovers. I've experimented a little. I've made tender love to a boy I had feelings for and later fucked a girl I felt some attraction to but all I felt for her was sexual. I feel what I feel, when i feel it. Dig ?

 

[whitebuck]

i also dont like to kiss or cuddle a guy it turns me off but give me his cock or ass thats a different story

 

[jkaustin72]

i understand...

dont want the cuddling...just the sex myself.

 

[human_male]

Me too. I don't find men attractive at all, I just like dick. Big, cum spurting dick!

I don't think I'd ever do anything about it for real though.

 

[ifitsfundoit]

I have a male friend that I'm tender with, and male friends who might just as well be a cock on legs.

All depends on the individual.

Maybe I need a pshrink, but this is cheaper. I really enjoy sex with other men, particularly making them cum. I like giving and getting oral, I like being fucked, but I have no interest at all in foreplay, kissing, cuddling, etc. With women, I really enjoy the foreplay etc as well as the sex, but as for men, they can just cum and go for all I care. Am I just a slutty freak for men, or what?

 

[OlderBiMan]

So strange, this attitude. You make love to women but you only fuck men ?
I've made love to women and I've made love to men. I've also fucked women and I've fucked men. There is a difference. Fucking feels better physically but emotionally, it's an empty experience.

 

[williby]

I have to this point never had the opportunity to really explore my bi side.
Hope to be in the situation one day where I can.
I never think about the cudling and kissing, not to sure if I even want to get involved in that.
I think about touching, stroking, sucking and cumming.

 

[hokieclimber]

Before I had been with another guy, I thought I would have only been interested in the sex, not the other stuff.

Turns out in the heat of the moment I had no problem with kissing and all that. Afterwards I didn't want to cuddle or anything, but I was still surprised how intimate I was willing to get.

 

[lastingpassion]

Maybe I need a pshrink, but this is cheaper. I really enjoy sex with other men, particularly making them cum. I like giving and getting oral, I like being fucked, but I have no interest at all in foreplay, kissing, cuddling, etc. With women, I really enjoy the foreplay etc as well as the sex, but as for men, they can just cum and go for all I care. Am I just a slutty freak for men, or what?

We share exactly the same feelings about this.... and, I've not had any complaints to this day!

 

[amsubone]

Maybe I need a pshrink, but this is cheaper. I really enjoy sex with other men, particularly making them cum. I like giving and getting oral, I like being fucked, but I have no interest at all in foreplay, kissing, cuddling, etc. With women, I really enjoy the foreplay etc as well as the sex, but as for men, they can just cum and go for all I care. Am I just a slutty freak for men, or what?

Yes.....

 

[mansome]

I love the slow, caressing, kissing, and massaging along with everything else that goes along with forplay leading up to making him cum... I also enjoy spooning and cuddling afterwards..........

Now I'm far from open as a bi man and I know I'll never love another man romantically ... but I love everything that comes with being intimate with another man physically........

 

[PredatorSmile]

I like to have it both ways. With my girlfriends, I enjoyed the seduction, the foreplay and the sex. With my boyfriend, I tend to be more sexually aggressive. Weird thing is, though, I've been called the "love'em and leave'em" type by women. I don't like to linger once it's over. Don't ask me why. Also, some of the women I've slept with were quite beautiful but personality-wise, they made me sick. I recall feeling the need to shower, to clean myself, both physically and psychologically, after sleeping with a female professor of mine who delighted in getting a boy thrown out over something minor. It depends on the woman, of course, but generally I'm mostly into sex and not into love with women. With my bf, I am affectionate and loving, and it surprises me sometimes. Of course, I'd never been in love before I met him. I wasn't too fond of straight males either ( other than my brothers). A bunch of them kicked my ass a few years back at a football game. Now, my bf has changed me. I hang out with his friends and I even like some of them. Odd (for me) but true.

 

[fqc]

I think what you put in words is the way I feel as well. I made a post about my bi fantasy. I wouldnt want to cuddle or kiss another man, all i'm interested in is the cock. With men, its a cum and go, and only if im in the mood for it. I wouldnt want a man as a life partner or a relationship with a man.

With women, its the total opposite. Ill do anything to them to please them, I love extended foreplay and when its all said and done I just love cuddling and falling asleep together.

That's why im not sure when people here tell me that im bi. To me bi would be loving men and women equally but I dont. I think its just a kind of bi-curious or something.

 

[Baskin Robbins]

I want a cuddler!

My wife is not a "cuddler"

She is pretty cold actually.

I try to draw her out... She's not interested.

It makes me want to suck a soft cock... Hard, but with such soft skin!

 

[Baskin Robbins]

I know my dick is HARD! but soft as far as skin goes!

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[none2_none2]

I think what you put in words is the way I feel as well. I made a post about my bi fantasy. I wouldnt want to cuddle or kiss another man, all i'm interested in is the cock. With men, its a cum and go, and only if im in the mood for it. I wouldnt want a man as a life partner or a relationship with a man.

With women, its the total opposite. Ill do anything to them to please them, I love extended foreplay and when its all said and done I just love cuddling and falling asleep together.

That's why im not sure when people here tell me that im bi. To me bi would be loving men and women equally but I dont. I think its just a kind of bi-curious or something.

So many times I've heard comments on here about sex vs affection with m2m sex. Just a few comments...

1) Do keep in mind that there are str8 guys who look to find someone to love. There are other str8 guys who want just sex from women -- always looking for a new conquest. Same goes for some gay guys. I think for most of them eventually cupid strikes. But I wouldn't take away their straightness or their gayness because they aren't looking for someone to marry at some point in their lives.

2) I cannot understand some of this sex without affection. It isn't about falling in love, its about relaxing. I'm not hung like a horse, but I could never understand the guys that just bend over and want to be plowed -- no fondling, no rubbing, etc. There are gay as well as bi guys who have been this way. Usually, those people aren't that good a lay. I had a f-buddy for years who just couldn't do the kissing thing as I think it was hard enough for him to accept that he liked another man (like me) to penetrate him. However, he was great in bed. He loved foreplay: the back rubs, the hugging, tongues, fingers, toes, toys, etc... That relaxed him and made him really enjoy getting fucked. It wasn't about gay/str8/bi, it was about having fun vs some urgent need to have a quicky. Forget the emotional, spiritual whatever you want to call it. Physical sex is always best when there is some kind of prolonging of the acts or some anticipation of what is to come. Otherwise, you might as well use your hand.

 

[mansome]

I get turned on by kissing another man, cuddling, carressing, and showing every part of his body attention and giving him affection...............

I'll never fall in love with another man and never end up with a man as my significant other........ It's purely sexual with me when it comes to men...

certainly don't mind kissing.. unless he's forceful and sloppy jamming his tongue into my mouth.. then again I wouldn't like that if a woman did it also......

 

[Jaunron]

Why Cant I find one

Maybe I need a pshrink, but this is cheaper. I really enjoy sex with other men, particularly making them cum. I like giving and getting oral, I like being fucked, but I have no interest at all in foreplay, kissing, cuddling, etc. With women, I really enjoy the foreplay etc as well as the sex, but as for men, they can just cum and go for all I care. Am I just a slutty freak for men, or what?

I wonder on days that my cock is so hard that I cant find someone that just wants hard cock, if any in the Tn. area are like this I would like to talk to you

 

[amysecret]

Is this thread about foreplay or bi men? I hope it is about foreplay

The deisre for or quality of foreplay is usually dependant or situation on the partner. I wonder if you might enjoy m2m foreplay if a fem was watching? You never know it might open you up to a whole new world of pleasure.

Personally I have a hard time socially with men. I can count on one hand the number of men I have been socially comfortable with men from all walks of life. I am sure I have missed out on a good experience or two just because a guy was so socially inept and stupid that I just ignored the physical attraction where as if he had never opened his mouth we just just got to the good stuff he might have been a wonderful lover. But the few time times when a man has been able to pleaure me w/o intercourse have been very intense. However very few men seem to have the right instincts, attitude and moves to make me want the foreplay in the first place. I wish I could tell from looking at a man who was good and who wasn't.

 

[Ontswinger]

If loving the cock and not the man make you a slutty freak then I would have to say that I am a slutty freak as well. Welcome to the club, want some head?

ontswinger@hotmail.com