I like being a master

[Thatguyx26x]

I like being a master but I just cant seem to find that perfect slave I talk to different people but thay stop talking if I can get some mastets advice would really be appreaciated and thank you in advance

 

[DVS]

I like being a master but I just cant seem to find that perfect slave I talk to different people but thay stop talking if I can get some mastets advice would really be appreaciated and thank you in advance

This may not be the only reason but I'm guessing it might be one reason. I've checked all of your posts and none of them have any quotation marks or even periods. Each one is just one long sentence. That's not only difficult to read, it looks bad. I don't know if English is your first language or not, but it looks like you could use some basic grammar and punctuation lessons. That's not a bad thing, but it can put someone off, if they see this.

Also, how long have you been a master? If you are just starting out, you might do better to call myself a dom instead of a master. To a lot of people, the term master means that you have a lot of experience in BDSM. If you don't have a lot of experience, saying you are a master could be a red flag to someone who knows better. Again, there's nothing wrong with this, if you want to continue calling yourself a master. Just know that with some people these things are red flags.

I hope this has helped you. Good luck in your search. Trust me...I know it's not an easy thing to find someone. Always be honest and trustworthy. Unfortunately, after that you have no control over anything. I know...it sucks.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Let me begin by saying that DVS was kind in his response. You want advice, so I'll give it straight and not sugar coated.

#1 - Learn to write. Correctly. This isn't snarky, this is serious advice. Dude, you are on LITEROTICA - Literate Erotica - not on CollarMe.com. The written word is the medium of choice here, and if you can't write two sentences, you are going to be written off as a waste of time.

#2 - Participate in the BDSM Talk and BDSM Chat forums so people will get to know you. Participate in the Playground as an alternative. If people don't know who you are and what you are about, they aren't going to have any reason to interact with you beyond that first message where they find out you can't write.

#3 - Fill out something in your profile that actually gives some indication of what your interests are, where you are at, what kind of human being you are.

#4 - Re-write your personal ads. Or delete them and start from scratch. Yes, they suck that bad. Your personal ad is a resume' for a relationship. You have to let the reader know just what you have to offer and why YOU are the person they *want* to check out. You give them NOTHING to make you appear desirable. Your private messages are the interviews that cement the deal. If I were a submissive looking for a Dominant, I'd never give you the time of day with your lack of profile and your weak ad. If I got an applicant with a resume that weak it would go straight to the trash can.

Now that we have the literary advice out of the way...

What sort of skill sets do you have as a "Master"? Are you active in your local kink community? Have you been to any BDSM events, taken classes, read any books (and I mean how-to books like SM101 or The Topping Book, and not just porn stuff)? What makes you a "Master" besides liking rough, kinky sex?

Thumping your chest with "I am a Master! You will do what I tell you! Uh, tell me what you like..." just isn't going to cut it. The subs and slaves here will hand you your ego and your head if you try that shit here. You had better know your stuff before you run around claiming you are a Master.

Just sayin'...

 

[rosco rathbone]

harsh realm up in here!!

What makes you a "Master" besides liking rough, kinky sex?

That's pretty much all that makes me a master, not counting my natural flair and understanding of females.

 

[Jenneva]

"I like being a master" does not equal "I like reading stories about BDSM and imagining myself in the dominant role." That doesn't even equal a Dom, in my opinion.

As I said in the "How do you know..." thread, there are many posers on here that go on chat or vid and are like "Touch yourself, heh-heh." All I can imagine is a pimply-faced Beavis-or-Butthead on the other end just trying to get off.

Do your research. See if you really want to be a Dom, and then and only then--with practice--can you be a good Master.

 

[Primalex]

I like being a master but I just cant seem to find that perfect slave I talk to different people but thay stop talking

I'm relieved that most women do seem to have common sense.

 

[Rahyne]

Let me begin by saying that DVS was kind in his response. You want advice, so I'll give it straight and not sugar coated.

#1 - Learn to write. Correctly. This isn't snarky, this is serious advice. Dude, you are on LITEROTICA - Literate Erotica - not on CollarMe.com. The written word is the medium of choice here, and if you can't write two sentences, you are going to be written off as a waste of time.

#2 - Participate in the BDSM Talk and BDSM Chat forums so people will get to know you. Participate in the Playground as an alternative. If people don't know who you are and what you are about, they aren't going to have any reason to interact with you beyond that first message where they find out you can't write.

#3 - Fill out something in your profile that actually gives some indication of what your interests are, where you are at, what kind of human being you are.

#4 - Re-write your personal ads. Or delete them and start from scratch. Yes, they suck that bad. Your personal ad is a resume' for a relationship. You have to let the reader know just what you have to offer and why YOU are the person they *want* to check out. You give them NOTHING to make you appear desirable. Your private messages are the interviews that cement the deal. If I were a submissive looking for a Dominant, I'd never give you the time of day with your lack of profile and your weak ad. If I got an applicant with a resume that weak it would go straight to the trash can.

Now that we have the literary advice out of the way...

What sort of skill sets do you have as a "Master"? Are you active in your local kink community? Have you been to any BDSM events, taken classes, read any books (and I mean how-to books like SM101 or The Topping Book, and not just porn stuff)? What makes you a "Master" besides liking rough, kinky sex?

Thumping your chest with "I am a Master! You will do what I tell you! Uh, tell me what you like..." just isn't going to cut it. The subs and slaves here will hand you your ego and your head if you try that shit here. You had better know your stuff before you run around claiming you are a Master.

Just sayin'...

I have to completely agree with this. As a sub, I wouldn't give them a second look. Too many "play one on TVs" and this is one of them that screams it loudly.