I have learnt.

Not to post on Lit and try to make toast at the same time...... burnt three lots now :(
 
That no matter how hard I try and how much I give, I will never have a place (not a home) to belong to. :(

No one will ever really care. :(

That I'm just as worthless as my ex said I was. :(
 
Never ever say you are bored, you will have that much to do you can`t keep up.



That {{{{Kiki}}}} is soooooo wrong.

There are hundreds of people who care Kiki.

I have read a lot of your stuff and NOT once did I ever think you were worthless.

In fact quite the opposite, I did think how dare some worthless piece of shit ruin the life of such a good person.

I know you are feeling down and this probably wont help
but it is true anyway.:heart: :heart: :heart: :rose: :rose: :rose:
 
no matter how hard i try, no matter how long i look and wait and tell myself i'm not ready; I ALWAYS fall head first in love before i can play the field

}}}}}}}}}}}}}kiki{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{

Shall i gather my army of genetically engineered ferrets to teach your ex a lesson?

I have learnt that those who find a talent and refine it, are never useless. But those who put them down, shall never have a use or a place in this lifetime.
:rose: es and :kiss: es
 
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kikmosa said:
That no matter how hard I try and how much I give, I will never have a place (not a home) to belong to. :(

No one will ever really care. :(

That I'm just as worthless as my ex said I was. :(

Kiki.... that's total bullshit sweetie........ there is always someone to care for you.... you just have to believe in yourself enough to find them and let them in.

Ex's are usually not worth stepping over, let alone listening to, what gives him the right to judge you ? Is he the only perfect being on the planet that he can judge you as being inferior, I don't think so...... like most of the insensitive idiots that litter our otherwise pleasant lives, he's more than likely self centered and arrogant.

So try and like yourself hun.... then the rest of the good folks will like/love you right back.
 
kiki, i would say that the last 3 posts alone disprove your 2nd item:)
 
kikmosa said:
That no matter how hard I try and how much I give, I will never have a place (not a home) to belong to. :(

No one will ever really care. :(

That I'm just as worthless as my ex said I was. :(

Kikmosa.

Sometime and someplace you will have a place to call home. An old saying goes"Home is where the heart is" I'm sure that you have some special place that your heart likes to be.

I'll tell you what I tell my students:" Relationships are like buses, If you miss the first one there will be another one coming soon." Sometime, somewhere someone's eye will glance upon you and find you the most desirable person ever. You just have to have faith in yourself.

As for being worthless, never, NEVER let someone else have the ppower over you to find how worthy you are. The sun will come up tomorrowand shine upon your face. Smile back at it. And take the day as it comes. Live life and enjoy!

I will now get off of my soapbox.
 
(((((quoll))))) :kiss:

(((((ZfrkS62))))) :kiss:

(((((WantonWitch))))) :kiss:

(((((mischevious eye))))) :kiss:

Thank you all.
 
I came across this last night and sent it to a friend, now I wil give it to another friend.

I am the world’s best authority on the subject – ME.

More than any other person, I know what is best for myself.

I can be an individual, who lets things happen to me,

or I can determine to be in charge of my life,

to be an autonomous and free person.

I can dream and also plan,

make choices and decisions,

express my wants and needs,

assert my individual self, my rights, and ideas.

I can create,

Play, and

share who I really am as a human being.

TODAY – I commit myself to be and act, as I know I can be:

the real me,

The best me possible.

I know I need to be close to another person – at times

I will seek to fulfill that need,

but love them no more than I love myself,

nor meet their needs at the sacrifice of my own.

In whatever conflict I experience,

I will meet the other person half way,

but will not be a loser that they might be a winner.

I will not put myself down or discount my feelings

or intelligence.

I don’t need my own criticism of myself.

TODAY – I make these commitments to myself,

to be my own best friend.
 
Wow... this is very deep...
I wonder if we have the capability of making this happen?
 
babydoll2u said:
Wow... this is very deep...
I wonder if we have the capability of making this happen?

All
Some
One
just the effort to try is a positive step.
 
kikmosa said:
(((((quoll))))) :kiss:

(((((ZfrkS62))))) :kiss:

(((((WantonWitch))))) :kiss:

(((((mischevious eye))))) :kiss:

Thank you all.

Sweetie you are very welcome........ anytime you need to hear it again come knock on my pm box :)
 
kikmosa said:
That no matter how hard I try and how much I give, I will never have a place (not a home) to belong to. :(

No one will ever really care. :(

That I'm just as worthless as my ex said I was. :(

UTTER TOTAL BULLSHIT!!!!!!!

I don't know you BUT...I was you at one time and from what I have seen just in the last few posts and looking back at some of your posts again I repeat...

UTTER TOTAL BULLSHIT!!!!!!!

One day you will find a house you want to be in and you and you alone will make it a home, somewhere that you want to be.

PEOPLE DO CARE...just take a look around you

As for your ex telling you that ... consider the source
 
kikmosa said:
(((((quoll))))) :kiss:

(((((ZfrkS62))))) :kiss:

(((((WantonWitch))))) :kiss:

(((((mischevious eye))))) :kiss:

Thank you all.

Honey, there is no need for thanks, but i appreciate the :kiss: :)

Just keep your head up, and don't allow yourself, or anyone to pull it down.

If you need someone to chat with, feel free to PM, IM or email me. I have been told i am a wonderful listener:) more :kiss: es!!!!:)
 
kikmosa said:
That no matter how hard I try and how much I give, I will never have a place (not a home) to belong to. :(

No one will ever really care. :(

That I'm just as worthless as my ex said I was. :(

KIKI
People care! Youve got friends with names like GIL,OMAN.SS.NG,
DREAM OF SUN AND many many more.We care deeply about you!

From knowing you and your huge heart, I know any home you find yourself in will become a loving home.

Like others have said about what your ex said,I agree,consider the source.
You are a very loving caring lady with a big heart and deserves much.Some times when what you will receive is special,it takes time. I had to go through a strange marriage, a divorce,but
then I found utter happiness. Im not saying you have long to wait,just to say maybe why you havent found it yet.

I know this isnt a religous site(roflmao) but once when i was down a friend told me; GOD MADE YOU, AND GOD DOESNT MAKE JUNK!
 
Never to underestimate the generosity and caring of this community.
 
What Quoll said and never underestimate the power of an clean PM box.:D

Kikmosa:rose: Keep your head up.
 
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