I have learned

[omahaman2]

I'VE LEARNED

I've learned that when you're in love, it shows.

I've leaned that just one person saying to me, "You've made my day!" makes my day.

I've learned that what we do for only ourselves dies with us, but what we do selflessly for others becomes immortal.

I've learned that I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.

I've learned never to humiliate another person.

I've learned that if you are still talking about what you did yesterday, you haven't done much today.

I've learned that when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

I've learned that no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I've learned that life is tough, but I am tougher.

I've learned that friends are telling you something you should really listen to them even when it's something that you really don't want to hear.

I've learned that when you fall flat on your bottom, you look more like an idiot if you let it get you down. If you bounce right back up again with a smile on your face however, things work out better and easier for you.

I've learned that no matter how many times you lose someone you love, it still hurts just as bad as if it were the first time.

I've learned to live like you're gonna die tomorrow

 

[omahaman2]

What have you learned from life???

 

[whspr]

I have learned that friends like Oman and Jenny don't come around every day...so I'm happy I have them in my life!! <<<Oman and Jenny>>>

 

[SecretLove69]

Thank you Oman and I apologize, in advance, for this post not being as eloquent or optimistic as yours’.

What I've recently learned I should have already known but I always tried to give people the benefit of the doubt, to see the good and not look for ulterior motives and hidden agendas.

I have learned to be careful.
I have learned to be less giving.
I have learned to be less trusting.
I have learned to only give out as much of my heart as I want returned in a mangled mess.
I have learned a few people genuinely care and I have learned that to others the word “care” is just an expression they toss around to make themselves feel better.
I have learned that my husband hurt me when he decided to stop wanting me for more than just my domestic abilities. Well, he could curl up his fist and beat me unconscious and not hurt me the way I hurt now.
I have learned just what a cold slap of reality feels like.

I have learned.

 

[Blue_Eyed_Grl36]

I'VE LEARNED

I've learned that when you're in love, it shows.

I've leaned that just one person saying to me, "You've made my day!" makes my day.

I've learned that what we do for only ourselves dies with us, but what we do selflessly for others becomes immortal.

I've learned that I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.

I've learned never to humiliate another person.

I've learned that if you are still talking about what you did yesterday, you haven't done much today.

I've learned that when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

I've learned that no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I've learned that life is tough, but I am tougher.

I've learned that friends are telling you something you should really listen to them even when it's something that you really don't want to hear.

I've learned that when you fall flat on your bottom, you look more like an idiot if you let it get you down. If you bounce right back up again with a smile on your face however, things work out better and easier for you.

I've learned that no matter how many times you lose someone you love, it still hurts just as bad as if it were the first time.

I've learned to live like you're gonna die tomorrow

Couldn't have said it better... and all of them are so very true.

 

[frostyred]

I have learned to be the change I want to see. That doesn't mean I can always do it.

 

[football_stud]

Thank you Oman and I apologize, in advance, for this post not being as eloquent or optimistic as yours’.

What I've recently learned I should have already known but I always tried to give people the benefit of the doubt, to see the good and not look for ulterior motives and hidden agendas.

I have learned to be careful.
I have learned to be less giving.
I have learned to be less trusting.
I have learned to only give out as much of my heart as I want returned in a mangled mess.
I have learned a few people genuinely care and I have learned that to others the word “care” is just an expression they toss around to make themselves feel better.
I have learned that my husband hurt me when he decided to stop wanting me for more than just my domestic abilities. Well, he could curl up his fist and beat me unconscious and not hurt me the way I hurt now.
I have learned just what a cold slap of reality feels like.

I have learned.

Same here just without the husband part

 

[cyikac1986]

some of these are mine and some I got from others.....

I have learned

that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is
be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.

I have learned

that no matter how much I care,
some people just don't or won't care back.

I have learned

that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.

I have learned

that it's not what you have in your life
but who you have in your life that counts.

I have learned

that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
After that, there had beeter be something of sustance.

I have learned

that you shouldn't judge yourself based on what others do or think
but by your own actions and deeds.

I have learned

that it's not what happens to people
that's important. It's what they do about it.

I have learned

that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.

I have learned

that no matter how you appraoch life,
there are always two sides.

I have learned

that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I can only hope that someday I achieve it.

I have learned

that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think.
And that reaction may redefine your entire life.

I have learned

that you should always leave
loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.

I have learned

that you can keep going long after you think you can't.
The phrase when the going gets tough, the tough get going has merit.

I have learned

that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
And that we need to take responsibility for those actions.

I have learned

that either you control your attitude
or it controls you.

I have learned

that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first,
the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
That lust cannot take the place of love.

I have learned

that heroes are the people who do what has to be done
when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I have learned

that learning to forgive takes practice.

I have learned

that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
Don;t be afraid as well to return that love.

I have learned

that money and pocessions are a lousy way of keeping score.

I have learned

that my best friend and I can do anything
or nothing and have the best time.

I have learned

that sometimes the people you expect
to kick you when you're down
will be the ones to help you get back up.

I have learned

that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
Words can hurt much more than actions.

I have learned

that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.
Same goes for true love.

I have learned

that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to
doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I have learned

that maturity has more to do with
what types of experiences you've had
and what you've learned from them
and less to do with how many
birthdays you've celebrated.

I have learned

that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.
Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would if they believed it.
To extinguish that potential is a crime against nature.

I have learned

that your family won't always
be there for you. It may seem funny,
but people you aren't related to
can take care of you and love you
and teach you to trust people again.
Families aren't biological (this one is for you my friend SiGi)

I have learned

that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you
every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
The heart and head can and should forgive.

I have learned

that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
We are always hardest on ourselves.

have learned

that no matter how bad your heart is broken
the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I have learned

that our background and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.

I have learned

that sometimes when my friends fight,
I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.

I have learned

that just because two people argue,
it doesn't mean they don't love each other
And just because they don't argue,
it doesn't mean they do.

I have learned

that sometimes you have to put
the individual ahead of their actions.

I have learned

that we don't have to change friends
if we understand that friends change.

I have learned

that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.
It could change your life forever.


I have learned

that two people can look at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.
There are many shades of grey.

I have learned

that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get
hurt and you will hurt in the process.
We want to take their pain but realize in order to grow they must learn how to deal with it.

I have learned

that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.
There are also many ways to have your heart broken.

I have learned

that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves
get farther in life.

I have learned

that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar you will feel lonely
and lost at the times you need them most.
Do not be afraid to ask for help, because we are stronger in a group.

I have learned

that your life can be changed in a matter of hours
by people who don't even know or care about you.

I have learned

that even when you think
you have no more to give,
when a friend cries out to you,
you will find the strength to help.

I have learned

that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

I have learned

that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.
That the opportunity for so much mroe is out there just waiting to be explored.

I have learned

that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
It is what is insode you that matters.

I have learned

that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
Love them now because time is so precious.

I have learned

that although the word "love" can have many different meanings,
it loses value when overly used.

I have learned

that it's hard to determine
where to draw the line
between being nice and
not hurting people's feelings
and standing up for what you believe.

 

[SecretLove69]

While lying next to my snoring husband last night, I reached into the nightstand for “Peter”. He hadn’t been out to play in a while so I thought it was time we both had a little stress relief. After “Peter” brought me to two very satisfying (although somewhat reserved) climaxes and I lay on my own wet spot contemplating the cosmos, I had an epiphany of sorts. I learned I am the only one responsible for my bliss. Granted, “Peter” is an enormous help but ultimately, I am solely responsible for whatever mood in which I find myself.

So, that being said, while I do truly enjoy the company of a sensual, intelligent man – I believe I can no longer hold him to task to “make” me happy. It isn’t fair to the man anyway. I mean really, they have enough to worry about (getting it up, turn around times, discretion…etc., etc.), without the added responsibility of ensuring my harmony.

So men – you just concentrate on getting me to cum as often as possible and I will do the same for you and all the other crap we’ll just leave at the door to be picked up on our way out.

 

[chelleb]

some of these are mine and some I got from others.....

I didn't quote the whole post because it is long, but I couldn't agree more, and certainly could not have written them out so eloquently.

 

[Blue_Eyed_Grl36]

A few more....

I have learned over the years:

No matter how difficult something is, some things are just worth it. The challenge is figuring out what is and what isn't.

What differentiates "friends" from true friends and the ppl who care about you, are the actions they take. A person's actions says so much more than any words could ever say. What's hard is getting passed the words and believing that deep down some people just aren't who they say they are.

If there are things in your life that you're not happy about, fix it or get rid of it. It really is that simple. It's a hard thing to do, but at the end of the day,
only you can make the changes needed to be happy. If you don't, you have no one to blame but yourself...

Be smart and realistic about what goals you set for yourself; what's possible now vs. later. You're just setting yourself up to fail if you don't plan in correctly.

Don't lower your expectations, as people just might meet them.


And lastly, chocolate chips cookies and orange juice do go really good together..

 

[SimpleGifts]

some of these are mine and some I got from others.....

Good googamooga, you've learned a freakin' lot.

I've learned that some kinds of wisdom only come with age.

SG

 

[nymphkittyhubby]

i have learned to be nice to women and not piss the off.

 

[cyikac1986]

Good googamooga, you've learned a freakin' lot.

I've learned that some kinds of wisdom only come with age.

SG

Well I had a little help, especially from a certain bratty little brother

 

[LustfulOne50]

I have learned while driving 3 rights make a left.

 

[Morrigu]

I have learned that situations can either be changed or accepted, even if I do end up in a maze tring to change it before accepting it

 

[availableslave2u]

i have learned that it takes patience and a hell of a lot of hairspray to let your hair grow.

 

[omahaman2]

I have learned that friends like Oman and Jenny don't come around every day...so I'm happy I have them in my life!! <<<Oman and Jenny>>>

I have learned that whspr is too kind! We are the ones to be so honored,to have her as a friend!

 

[omahaman2]

I have learned from this thread that there are alot of intelligent playgrounders on here that I can learn alot from!

 

[pleaz_me]

I have learned that some people just never ever change their ways.......

 

[omahaman2]

I have learned that some people just never ever change their ways.......

If having you as a friend is their way,they are very smart!

 

[pleaz_me]

(((((Oman)))))

After 15 years she still only calls when she's trying to hook me up with losers

 

[omahaman2]

(((((Oman)))))

After 15 years she still only calls when she's trying to hook me up with losers

I have learned pleaz=me friend doesnt have much common sense. Wouldnt all you keep in contact with her always,daily even,if she was your friend?

 

[omahaman2]

I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.

 

[pleaz_me]

I have learned pleaz=me friend doesnt have much common sense. Wouldnt all you keep in contact with her always,daily even,if she was your friend?

I considered her a friend years ago ... we still bump into each other occasionally. She was, in the true sense of the word, a friend. She was right beside me through thick and thin (even the "a friend would bail you out of jail, but a true friend would be sitting beside you" shhhhhhh )

I grew up since then though and all of the things that we did together ... they're fun to re-live occasionally but I prefer to put that part of my life behind me.

We keep in touch here and there but nothing like it used to be.