I have become an old fart

[lavender]

 

[Nicole]

Well since I have no clue just how old you are, I just wanted to say that the fun you bring people here is wonderful, so I really wouldn't worry about it.

Also being a Lawyer, wouldn't that mean you know HOW to get out of the trouble you had just gotten yourself into?

Chin up, I'm sure you'll be getting lots of hugs and kisses from everyone here

Just Remember ... you ARE a fun person.

 

[lavender]

 

[Nicole]

LOL, at least you CAN drink, I gave up when I was pregnant, and being a single Mother I didn't go out very often once I had my son (also at age 24), I found I was more content to stay at home and cuddle him. The last drink I had was a fucking funny thing to me, I was half way through when I started to get extremely hot and I couldn't for the life of me open my puffed up eyes, I took it as a sign for me to give up drinking for life (LOL).

I think you hit a certain age where you ARE indeed more content to sit at home, now you just need to figure out when that is and when you really really want to go out and be that party animal that you once were, and secretly would like to be again.

Lavender like I said , you are a fun loving person that I'm sure makes a lot of people's life's here a little bit brighter. You just need to get Mr. Lavender to drag you out and about more

 

[Never]

Hey lavender, I know the feeling and I'm only 20.
When I was younger I was a wild thing, not afraid of anything, or anyone and always looking for the next blast of fun. I remember just running around until twelve o'clock with my buddies and doing anything I wanted to do whenever I wanted to do it..

Then as I got a bit older I started settling down (although, honestly, the effects of time and maturity were increased by a bunch of physical and emotional abuse but that's not the point). It happens to all of us, JJ said freedom was having nothing to lose. The older you get the more you have to lose, at some point your trade in freedom for security, you start looking for time to decompress and relax instead of time to have a 'good time'... In the end you die though so it's sort of meaningless.

I think the important part is to ask yourself if you're doing what you want to do. Are you wasting your time or no?
That's something only you can decide.

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[Cheyenne]

Old fart at 24? Settled in at 20? hehe

I'd love to still be around to send you two a copy of this thread when you hit your early 40's.

 

[Andra_Jenny]

Yeah

And the early 40's tend to hit back!

 

[Bluenose]

I agree wait till you get to your late 30's and early 40's

 

[Cheyenne]

And I'm waiting for someone in their 60's to tell those of us in our 40's to just wait....

 

[TN_Vixen]

Wow!

I knew Never was young but I had no idea that Lavy was only 24!

I'm stunned.

As for settling down, I did that after I got married at 22. Actually, I started seeing my ex a week after turning 21 and I was ready to quit all the running around and partying. THEN, I got divorced. hehe

Being divorced and 28 with a babysitter anytime I needed meant that I could go out almost every night. And I did.

Now it has been 6 years since I've been divorced and I'm much more settled now that I was just 2 years ago. It's just a stage girlie girls. You'll hit the party time again soon.

;-)

 

[batter]

re:becoming an old fart

Lavender, dont think of it as getting old and boring. many people experience the same as you are now.
it is called "maturing" and not everyone seems to get to that level of life.
despite how you look at it now compared to how you used to be, it really is not a bad thing.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

I knew I was old when I turned 21...

Oh yeah and what is a party again?

 

[lavender]

 

[Problem Child]

God, you've become a whiner in your old age.

You're 24 for God's sake! Shut up!

When you're forty and your knees are gone and you have to take care of three kids come back and see us.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Cheffie you've prematurely aged.

When I was 21 I was still at the clubs until 6am and the bars well after they closed. We never just stopped there.

I NEVER would have done that when I was younger.

I think seeing all of these young girls at the concerts also made me feel old.

You would have Never done Never when you were younger?

Last time I went out that late was March and I came back after first light to sleep... but it wasnt a party...

And I will quite happily lay a wager that you were one of the best looking person there at the concert anyway...

Damn now what are there concert things again.. I tell ya I'm going fucking senile!

And PC, your just jealous the kids wont be yours...

 

[lavender]

 

[Tabby432]

LMAO

Bunnyman?

 

[Problem Child]

Re: LMAO

Bunnyman?

Whatsammata? wanna chat, cat?

Tabby, how come you have no title?

And Cheffie, I don't know if I really want kiddies, but if I had to make some I'd want to make them with Lavy.

Mix up our gene pools and you'd get some genius movie star kids, that's fer sure.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Re: Re: LMAO

And Cheffie, I don't know if I really want kiddies, but if I had to make some I'd want to make them with Lavy.

Mix up our gene pools and you'd get some genius movie star kids, that's fer sure.

Fuck, I could be forced into putting up with a lavy-cheffie clan, cept the little bastards would be too smart and beautiful for their own good.

Where the fuck does the movie star stuff come in, did I miss your last feature?

 

[lavender]

 

[Problem Child]

movie star = beautiful. I wouldn't want them to be movie stars though. Maybe they could be physicist/glamour models or something.

 

[LyndaB]

You are making me feel old, Im 47. I'm enjoying life more know than I did when I was in my twenties. I can tell people to get lost if I do not like them, in my 20's I was afraid to say no, in case I lost my so called friends. Like you Lavender, I'm a professional, who has to be careful, I let my hair down when I go on holiday with out my hubby. If only he knew.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Damn kids... even the kids dont want to be had....

I forgot PC EVERYONE in california is a beautiful movie star.. fuck it...


I just had this sudden craving for bodacious tata... hmmm MOMMY

 

[Tabby432]

Whatsammata? wanna chat, cat?

Tabby, how come you have no title?

I have no title because I'm creatively challenged... or I suck at things like that. And no, I don't want to chat. I'm just shocked. All this time I was imagining James Bond... and you turn out to be Bunnyman. *giggles*

 

[Problem Child]

I have no title because I'm creatively challenged... or I suck at things like that. And no, I don't want to chat. I'm just shocked. All this time I was imagining James Bond... and you turn out to be Bunnyman. *giggles*

Well, I suppose I'm flattered that you visualized me as James Bond (Sean Connery of course), but equally crushed that you don't want to chat. Oh well.