I have a serious question

[BgMma]

I have to ask...How can a person fall in love?

I have been in love once, and I don't remember how it happened. It just did. And ten years later, I find myself there again.

So, how did this happen? I have crushes and flirts and people I generally like to play with, but I think I have found my heart.

I feel like a young girl. I have him in my thoughts, I dream of him. I smile all day no matter what is going on in my life if I think of him. When I see his face, I am aware of nothing else.

Is it really possible to be in love again?

 

[lovetoread]

I wish you luck and happiness.

My thoughts on love is a little on the off side at the moment. I think its out there, but its a heck of a leap of faith to get there.

 

[BgMma]

Thank you, honey. I appreciate your kind words.

It is a shock really. I had no intentions of getting as close as I have and we agreed that we would just play around and see how it goes, but he seems to feel the same way I do.

So, I am falling hard. The question is, is he?

 

[SilverVeil]

I have to ask...How can a person fall in love?



Is it really possible to be in love again?

Yes. Yes it is possible. And very nice when it happens.

 

[BgMma]

I am terrified of it.

I like the idea and I want to be in love, but I have to be honest.

I am scared to feel this way again, but it does feel so good, like you said. Thanks!

 

[MissTaken]

Just popping in to wish you well.

Speaking as someone who has never let her barriers down enough to truly know love, I am excited for you, but do understand your fears.

Enjoy it!

 

[BgMma]

Just popping in to wish you well.

Speaking as someone who has never let her barriers down enough to truly know love, I am excited for you, but do understand your fears.

Enjoy it!

Thank you.

I hope he sees this.

It will save me the embarrassment of actually having to tell him how I feel. It's so hard to say that I am serious about this to him.
But I think he already knows.

 

[BgMma]

BUMP! Yes, I am a sad, sad person.

 

[DevilBoy79]

I have to ask...How can a person fall in love?

I have been in love once, and I don't remember how it happened. It just did. And ten years later, I find myself there again.

So, how did this happen? I have crushes and flirts and people I generally like to play with, but I think I have found my heart.

I feel like a young girl. I have him in my thoughts, I dream of him. I smile all day no matter what is going on in my life if I think of him. When I see his face, I am aware of nothing else.

Is it really possible to be in love again?

its very possible and dont try to explain how you fell in love or how you knew, cause its the hardest thing in this world to explain because most of the time you cant find any words to say what you are feeling, trust me i know

 

[BgMma]

Re: Re: I have a serious question

its very possible and dont try to explain how you fell in love or how you knew, cause its the hardest thing in this world to explain because most of the time you cant find any words to say what you are feeling, trust me i know

I have to take your word for it then, don't I?

Thanks.

 

[Freya]

I'm with MissTaken on this one. Having never felt that way for real, I have no idea how it works - but I wish you good luck in your ventures.

 

[BgMma]

I'm with MissTaken on this one. Having never felt that way for real, I have no idea how it works - but I wish you good luck in your ventures.

Thank you, hon.

 

[someplace]

Kitte has a very nice thought about love in her sig line. Check it out sometime.

I don't think you can find love, but it finds you -- and usually when you least expect it. All the luck in the world to you!

 

[DevilBoy79]

Re: Re: Re: I have a serious question

I have to take your word for it then, don't I?

Thanks.

yup yup cause every so often Innocent asks me how i knew or why i love her and i know what i am feeling but can never say the words

 

[BgMma]

I don't think you can find love, but it finds you -- and usually when you least expect it.

That is what happened! I just started talking to him and it escalated! I haven't been happier

 

[ridddder]

I don't think it is difficult at all, I've fallen in love a few times in life, and it is just a magnanimous thing. Being in love is knowing that what you have with this person is beyond friendship, beyond closeness, and beyond physical bonding. Also I think it is amazing when it does happen, because clicking in this way means you co-exist in a different way, a way where you see things differently. This is hard to explain, but I know you know what I mean. Being in love shouldn't be as scarey as the fear of losing such love. Of all things in this world love isn't something that just happens everyday, feel lucky that you have found that which others only hope to find.

Now being in love is one step, the road ahead can be magical if you let it. Be brave, love is worth it . Being hurt is something you can get over, but being in love is something that can change your life. I think that if you wish to love it is worth the chance of taking the risk. Otherwise, you can play it safe and never know what you would miss. Life is about chances, or as in the words of the immortal singers abba, take a chance....lol

 

[BgMma]

Re: Re: Re: Re: I have a serious question

yup yup cause every so often Innocent asks me how i knew or why i love her and i know what i am feeling but can never say the words

It is hard to say them, but when I do, I mean them. ty

 

[PepperminTrish]

Awwww, sweetie ......... falling in love is so wonderful and so scary at the same time, isn't it?? The only way you'll know if he's falling is to ask him. Frightening as it may seem to lay your heart out like that but whit if he says he is?? How wonderous that would be, to know that your feelings are returned!!! I hope that they are. If they aren't, that doesn't mean that they won't be one day and it won't be the end of the world, even if it feels like it at the time. At least you can say that you were true to your feelings.

So is it someone here?? Yeah, I'm nosey ....... so sue me!
*LOL*
You could always PM me who it is, ya know.


Best of luck to you, you deserve it!!!

Hugs,
Trish

 

[BgMma]

riddder, you are right.

I am not going to let this fly by me. If he tells me how he feels and means it, then I am going to do the same.

I would leave everything but my child behind for him. That must be something strong, I have never once said that before.

 

[MissTaken]

bumping in the spirit of true love

 

[BgMma]

bumping in the spirit of true love

You are a darling! Now, if he would wake up and see this..........

 

[BgMma]

BUMP, DAMMIT!

I AM GOING TO DO THIS ALL DAY, IF I HAVE TO!

 

[sabbathstorm]

I'll give it a *bump* here and there

 

[penguindance]

 

[BgMma]

I'll give it a *bump* here and there

Thank you, dear.

Man, do I need help.